The best way to have standing sex with your fuck buddy

EdBennett — Thu, 29 Sep 2022 23:22:03 +0000

One of the best things about having a fuck buddy is that you can really explore different ways of having sex. When you are in a more traditional relationship, the focus of the relationship (or the purported focus) is not the sex. I think that many of us can acknowledge however that one of the foundational elements of any coupling is the physical aspects, especially if you are in a monogamous partnership. If you are sleeping with more than one person you have an opportunity to mix things up and the sex can be less important (as you are also getting it from elsewhere), however, when it is just one person then they have to be able to fulfil your desires to make it work long term. With a fuck buddy, you can talk about the sex and discuss what is good and bad. You have greater scope to refine how you treat each other and are with each other. Each time you make an improvement to your performance in bed, it is a win for the both of you! So it really is in both your interests to explore sex together. One of the things that you can play with is different sex positions.

Most sex positions involve you lying down. This is great. It is comfortable, it requires less energy and work, you don’t have to be as fit to pull off the moves, and you are in a perfect position to have a cuddle afterwards if you decide you would like to. Sometimes, it is good to mix it up. Standing positions can also be great for completely different reasons. If you want to try one out, I highly recommend the “ballet dancer” position… and the best thing is you don’t have to be a ballet dancer to do it.

The person being penetrated wraps one of their legs around the other. That is it! Easy right?! I will warn you though, this can get quote tiring if you are not used to it and you don’t have anything to hook it on. With that in mind, I highly recommend that you hook the leg on something. This could be a door jam, if you have them lean against a chest of drawers you can rest it on that. If their back is to a wall, you can (for some of it) have them press your leg against the wall as they lean back, holding it in place so you don’t have to… and for those few of you reading this that are actual ballet dancers, fo you, lift your leg all the way up and rest it against their shoulder instead!

So give this a go next time you want to mix things up. Good luck have fun!

Top 5 Sex Positions Every Guy Loves

EdBennett — Thu, 26 Feb 2015 12:10:31 +0000

26 Feb 2015 - 12:10 | Tags: sex positions, best sex positions

Despite endless writing about the hundreds of different sex positions people use, there are several that most couples continually go back to because they work. Everything else is just a variation and everyone should worry less about whether or not they’re being ‘imaginative’ enough when it comes to sex. You can always try new things, but there are classics that are classics for a reason: they work. Below are the top sex positions that every man loves (whether he knows it or not).

1. Woman on Top
Not only does this give a guy the best view of his partner, it allows her to set the speed and control the penetration. We guys love this because we get to see your tits, play with them, kiss you and place our hands on your hips – again one of the sexiest points of a woman. Plus we tend not to come as quickly in this position if you’re controlling it right.

2. Reverse Cowgirl
There’s a reason we’re always staring at a woman’s arse – we love it! This position gives us the best view of your arse and lets us fondle your breasts too whilst you’re riding us up and down. Don’t be afraid to try this position more often as we love it!

3. Missionary
A classic for a reason: it bloody works! We get to penetrate a woman deeply or shallowly depending on our mood whilst seeing the look of pleasure on their face. Plus we get to fondle your tits, your legs, your hips, your stomach…pretty much everything we love about you.

4. Doggie Style
Nothing – and I mean nothing – feels quite as manly as fucking a woman from behind. We get to grab your arse, slap it and bite it if we’re in the mood. And all whilst doing you hard and slowly from behind. We can grab your breasts too if we want to.

5. Holding you up against a wall with your legs wrapped around us
This is primal. We get to hold your arse whilst thrusting you up against a wall and fucking you hard and fast. This has a very animalistic nature to it and it’s why we love doing it. We can’t do it all the time, but when we’re in the mood, we can lift any woman up and do her hard and fast. Sexy!

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The best way to have standing sex with your fuck buddy

Top 5 Sex Positions Every Guy Loves