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The best way to have standing sex with your fuck buddy

EdBennett — Thu, 29 Sep 2022 23:22:03 +0000

One of the best things about having a fuck buddy is that you can really explore different ways of having sex. When you are in a more traditional relationship, the focus of the relationship (or the purported focus) is not the sex. I think that many of us can acknowledge however that one of the foundational elements of any coupling is the physical aspects, especially if you are in a monogamous partnership. If you are sleeping with more than one person you have an opportunity to mix things up and the sex can be less important (as you are also getting it from elsewhere), however, when it is just one person then they have to be able to fulfil your desires to make it work long term. With a fuck buddy, you can talk about the sex and discuss what is good and bad. You have greater scope to refine how you treat each other and are with each other. Each time you make an improvement to your performance in bed, it is a win for the both of you! So it really is in both your interests to explore sex together. One of the things that you can play with is different sex positions.

Most sex positions involve you lying down. This is great. It is comfortable, it requires less energy and work, you don’t have to be as fit to pull off the moves, and you are in a perfect position to have a cuddle afterwards if you decide you would like to. Sometimes, it is good to mix it up. Standing positions can also be great for completely different reasons. If you want to try one out, I highly recommend the “ballet dancer” position… and the best thing is you don’t have to be a ballet dancer to do it.

The person being penetrated wraps one of their legs around the other. That is it! Easy right?! I will warn you though, this can get quote tiring if you are not used to it and you don’t have anything to hook it on. With that in mind, I highly recommend that you hook the leg on something. This could be a door jam, if you have them lean against a chest of drawers you can rest it on that. If their back is to a wall, you can (for some of it) have them press your leg against the wall as they lean back, holding it in place so you don’t have to… and for those few of you reading this that are actual ballet dancers, fo you, lift your leg all the way up and rest it against their shoulder instead!

So give this a go next time you want to mix things up. Good luck have fun!

Try a different sex position for instant fun

EdBennett — Mon, 20 Feb 2017 19:30:41 +0000

20 Feb 2017 - 19:30 | Tags: sex positions, better sex

As humans we are creatures of habit. That is not something that we choose – it is hard wired into us. We learn that we can do “a” and “b” to get to “c”, and when we want to get to “c” again another time we just do the same sequence. It is a natural resource saving instinct, why spend energy trying to do something that we are unsure is going to work, when we can just repeat what we did last time to reach the same result? Think about it in cave man days, if we know that this particular fruit is tasty and delicious and leaves us feeling full and satisfied, why would we try to eat the fruit that may taste bad, or leave us feeling ill, or even poison and kill us? It makes no sense. So it is that we are creatures of habit, and on some level once we have a process in place rather than try new things we will just fall back on that old way of doing things. We do this unthinkingly, without questioning it. We just do it. Which is why I am writing this article, to try and encourage you to mix it up with your sex life.

You have a favourite go to sex position. This is not a question, this is a fact, and you know that I am speaking the truth here! Think about it, what is your favourite sex position? What is your go to sex position? For some people they are different, their favourite position is not always a go to position, particularly if it is a little difficult, complicated, or requires the girl to do a lot of hard work. The first time you sleep with a girl, you probably reach for your go to sex position rather than your favourite, especially if your favourite involves your fuck buddy to be upside down at the time!

There is no harm in this – we all do it. However, if you want to mix things up to keep things exciting and fun in the bedroom, then try a different sex position. It will be gladly welcomed by your partner – trust me! Even if it turns out it is not your favourite position after you try it, it doesn’t matter. When you go to a restaurant or eat out, you don’t want to have the same thing every time you eat out.

If you are a little nervous about change, then remember, you don’t have to even change the whole position, you can just change small things about the way that you are doing things now and it can make things better! For example, if you are using missionary position a lot, get the girl to put her legs together and then as the man put your thighs around hers, and squeeze. This will tighten her vagina, giving you a much tighter fuck, and for her your penis will feel much bigger. This is a simple way to high friction fun!

So mix it up, you won’t regret it.

What different sexual positions mean: Missionary VS Doggy Style

EdBennett — Sat, 28 Nov 2015 10:33:26 +0000

28 Nov 2015 - 10:33 | Tags: sex positions, sex is great

Once you have found your f-buddy, generally after a meeting you will find yourself moving to the bedroom unusually quickly - quite often on the first date. Some of you may be used to this by now, but for some of the newer members of this website you may be less comfortable with going straight back and having sex the first time you meet someone.

One of the ways to make this more comfortable is having clear choices made about what you are going to do and how you are going to do it. In this article we are going to be looking at the different sexual positions and what they mean, in order to better put you in a position to choose.

The missionary position

This most traditional of sexual positions puts you in a place where you can see each other in the face. It has many advantages, you can see the other persons reactions and therefore in a first sex encounter it allows you to gauge the level of enjoyment or pleasure that they are getting from whatever you are doing.
It is also a more emotional position. By seeing each other face to face, by looking at each other in the eye the whole time it allows you to connect on a deeper level. This can be something you do want, it can also be something you may not want, and if so this position could be one that you actively choose to avoid for this reason.

Doggy Style

I have always felt that the name of this position did much to undermine its popularity, which is a real shame as it is a really good option to have in your repertoire of sexual positions. In this position you are not in any way looking at each other’s faces. It can make it less personal and less emotional. It can also physically mean that the penis can actually penetrate much deeper - which can result in stronger orgasms.
This is much more of a “Grr I want you I am going to take you / Grr I want you take me now” of a position. It can tap into / reflect a drive from a real carnal base desire, and can express both deep rooted desire for sex or the other person. This is generally always a good choice of position, as it also is likely to result in good sex.

The Results:

If you are concerned about performing well, want to be able to gauge what is going on with the other person or just take things a little slower - go missionary. However, if you are looking to get into some good sex and are feeling confident, go straight for doggy style.

Top 5 Sex Positions Every Guy Loves

EdBennett — Thu, 26 Feb 2015 12:10:31 +0000

26 Feb 2015 - 12:10 | Tags: sex positions, best sex positions

Despite endless writing about the hundreds of different sex positions people use, there are several that most couples continually go back to because they work. Everything else is just a variation and everyone should worry less about whether or not they’re being ‘imaginative’ enough when it comes to sex. You can always try new things, but there are classics that are classics for a reason: they work. Below are the top sex positions that every man loves (whether he knows it or not).

1. Woman on Top
Not only does this give a guy the best view of his partner, it allows her to set the speed and control the penetration. We guys love this because we get to see your tits, play with them, kiss you and place our hands on your hips – again one of the sexiest points of a woman. Plus we tend not to come as quickly in this position if you’re controlling it right.

2. Reverse Cowgirl
There’s a reason we’re always staring at a woman’s arse – we love it! This position gives us the best view of your arse and lets us fondle your breasts too whilst you’re riding us up and down. Don’t be afraid to try this position more often as we love it!

3. Missionary
A classic for a reason: it bloody works! We get to penetrate a woman deeply or shallowly depending on our mood whilst seeing the look of pleasure on their face. Plus we get to fondle your tits, your legs, your hips, your stomach…pretty much everything we love about you.

4. Doggie Style
Nothing – and I mean nothing – feels quite as manly as fucking a woman from behind. We get to grab your arse, slap it and bite it if we’re in the mood. And all whilst doing you hard and slowly from behind. We can grab your breasts too if we want to.

5. Holding you up against a wall with your legs wrapped around us
This is primal. We get to hold your arse whilst thrusting you up against a wall and fucking you hard and fast. This has a very animalistic nature to it and it’s why we love doing it. We can’t do it all the time, but when we’re in the mood, we can lift any woman up and do her hard and fast. Sexy!