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Top two things that cause a low sex drive

EdBennett — Fri, 24 Sep 2021 22:38:21 +0000

24 Sep 2021 - 23:38 | Tags: sex drive, casual sex problems, problems performing

Having a high sex drive, especially on the adult dating circuit, is really important. The primary reason that your fuck buddy is spending time with you, is for the sex. They want to sleep with you, and they want to sleep with someone that wants to sleep with them! Having sex with someone who is super into it is a completely different experience to sleeping with someone who is just, well, putting up with it. Sex when you are going through the motions is terrible. It is one of the great things about having a fuck buddy. You are both there for the sex, so you are both super into it. If you weren’t, you would just leave. There are many long term relationships, particularly marriages, where one person is there for other reasons and they are just “putting up” with the sex. That is a terrible place to be for the person who is sex deprived! Luckily, this is simply never an issue with a fuck buddy or a friends with benefits set up. So you will want to keep your sex drive nice and high for all of this. How do you do this? Well, the first thing is to eliminate the issues that are causing you to have a low sex drive. With this in mind, here are my top two things that cause a low sex drive.

Pain

If you are experiencing any pain during sex, this is going to prevent an easy orgasm and take you out of the moment. This in turn will reduce your sex drive. The answer? If you are experiencing any pain, do not ignore it. Deal with it. Talk to your fuck buddy if needed and explain what is causing it, usually, they will be very ready and willing to help alleviate it! Note – there is an exception here as there can be types of pain that are welcomed, and if you are one of those people, then this will not reduce your sex drive.

Disease and illness

If you are ill your sex drive will usually suffer. The main thing to do here is to accept and acknowledge it. Don’t try and fake it. Concentrate on getting better, then when you are back to full health, at that point arrange a weekend with your fuck buddy and go crazy with each other! Until then, I highly recommend that you ride it out.

So, there are my top two reasons that people have a low sex drive. Deal with these if they arise and you are good to go.

Sexual Performance Anxiety can be helped with a fuck buddy

EdBennett — Thu, 27 May 2021 17:12:52 +0000

27 May 2021 - 18:12 | Tags: problems performing, casual sex problems

Welcome to the fuck buddy website, the place where we help you find the fuck buddy that you are looking for because, thought you don’t know it, they are looking for you just as hard as you are for them! Today we are going to be talking about sexual performance anxiety and how having a fuck buddy can be a great way to help get over it, or at least, manage it.

Sexual Performance Anxiety

Sexual performance anxiety is where you are more than just nervous about sex because all of us get nervous about sex. It is where those nerves go on to hamper our life choices and actions. Many people suffer from anxiety in all sorts of areas, sexual performance anxiety is where the sex is the trigger for the anxiety. Unfortunately, this can lead to a number of problems and manifest a number of symptoms. These include (but are not restricted to):

the person finding it much harder to, well, get hard
a psychological block that stops them getting involved in sexual activity that they otherwise would
a much-reduced sex drive and reduced sexual urges, caused by the anxiety
an increased level of respiratory activity and elevated heart rate
and when things get bad, they can lead to panic attacks which manifest outside of the control of the one experiencing them

Sexual performance anxiety is bad, no one wants it, and those that do have their lives badly impacted by it. So what can be done about it you might ask? Well, the first thing to do is identify the cause.

Cause of sexual performance anxiety

Sexual performance anxiety can be caused by a number of facts as listed below. It can happen to anyone, both men and women, both young and old.

Being unhappy with how they look
A large amount of stress from other areas of their lives
It can be triggered due to prior experiences that have left scars
The fear of being rejected remains a strong reason why many people experience this
The fear of being unable to perform in bed can, ironically, lead to performance anxiety and thus mean that they are unable to perform in bed, confirming their beliefs in this regard.

How a fuck buddy can help this

Having a fuck buddy is a great way to work through these issues. With a long term relationship, there is so much invested that the stress levels are increased, fear of rejection or fears surrounding performance are abound. With a fuck buddy both parties know that this is but temporary, there is no pressure. This also leads to an increased level of honesty, and talking to your sexual partner about your issues is a great way to work through them. The more you have sex, the more you acclimatise to the anxiety, find ways of spotting and dealing with the triggers, and the happier you get.

So if you are experiencing performance anxiety, I would strongly suggest getting a fuck buddy. It will do you wonders.

What to do if you can’t…perform

EdBennett — Sat, 07 Feb 2015 11:10:34 +0000

7 Feb 2015 - 11:10 | Tags: erectile dysfunction, problems performing, casual sex, f-buddy australia

It happens to every bloke at some point in his life. You’re making out with a really hot woman be it your girlfriend/wife/fuck buddy and enjoying yourself. You get her clothes off, you get your clothes off and then, all of a sudden…nothing. You think ‘What the hell is going on?’ You’ve been kissing and stroking and groping for the last however long and now just when it counts, your cock lets you down. Or rather your cock let’s itself down. How can this happen? You ask yourself ‘What’s wrong?’ Well, sometimes there might be something wrong physically, but most of the time it’s in your head.

Causes
Erectile dysfunction – no they’re not dirty words – can strike at any point in a man’s life. The way to recover from it quickly is to deal with it quickly. Any number of the following things can affect your erection:

• Alcohol
• Bad diet
• Medication from other illness
• Stress
• No spark with partner
• Tiredness
• Age related fatigue
• Allergic reaction
• Guilt

So how do you solve the problem?

Solutions
A one off is nothing to worry about too much. You could just be tired, stressed and in need of a good night’s sleep. Sex is exercise at the end of the day, but sometimes your body just needs to relax. If you’re experiencing more than a ‘one off’, you might want to start looking at other areas of your life for the solution. For example if you’ve been eating a load of crap – pizza, chips, burgers, fatty cheese – a lot of the time, then you should start thinking about cutting down. Try eating some healthier foods. Green vegetables and fruit prepared properly can taste amazing.

If you’re healthy and not suffering from fatigue then your problem is most likely in your head. So it’s your head that you need to look at. Why do you think you can’t get it up? Do you feel stressed at work/home for example? Or is it that you just don’t fancy your partner? That’s okay if you don’t by the way. We always encourage our members to have sex with someone they fancy and not just have sex for the sake of having sex.

Look at the causes first and the solution will follow. Don’t just go and buy a packet of Viagra.