How to last longer in bed for men

EdBennett — Fri, 26 Nov 2021 18:02:42 +0000

26 Nov 2021 - 18:02 | Tags: erectile dysfunction, better fuck buddy, better sex guide

When it comes to sex, pretty much everyone would benefit from having more of it. Many people are raised thinking that men want sex more than women do. This is simply not the case. Men and women both desire sex just as equally, and in fact, I would argue that women actually have the capacity to develop a desire and drive for sex far more compelling than any men. Why you ask? Of all the men I have spoken to on the subject, I have never had a man tell me that they found themselves left uncontrollable shaking and moaning on the bed following sex, unable to think or understand where they are or what is going on. The same cannot be said for some of the women I know. I have the impression that whilst women are much harder to please and men have a much easier time orgasming, when a women does orgasm, it can be a deeper and stronger experience than any man has ever felt during sex. I live to be proved wrong on this of course, and I would be glad to be proved wrong given that I am a man!

When men do have sex, one of the things that can reduce the pleasure of the sex for both the man and the women is the length of time that the man “lasts”. Yes it shouldn’t matter and we live in a more inclusive world now, but ultimately, lasting for a longer time as a man before orgasming can give you more time to be into it and more time for the woman to come to her orgasm point as well. Many men think there is nothing that can be done other than take drugs. Yes, medication is an option, but here I would like to outline a few ways of lasting longer in bed without having to resort to taking Viagra or another performance enhancing drug.

Masturbate before sex

For men, following orgasm and ejaculation, there is something known as the refractory period. Think of it like a reset period. This means that if you masturbate before meeting up with your fuck buddy, when you get to having sex this will be the second time that evening you are having sex and you are much more likely to take longer to come. There is plenty of evidence behind this, so give it a go.

Kegel exercises

Kegel exercises are a great way to exercise and tone the “sex” muscles. A good set of muscles will allow you to better control your orgasm. So get to the sex gym and get working out, you will reap the rewards in bed!

Breath deeply

Orgasm is linked to excitement, and we can all calm ourselves down with deep breaths (which is why we are told to breathe deeply in stressful situations, it calms us). If you are having sex, consider changing your breathing to longer deeper breathes. This will calm you and slow your progress to orgasm.

So there are my top tips on how to last longer in bed. Have fun!

What to do if you can’t…perform

EdBennett — Sat, 07 Feb 2015 11:10:34 +0000

7 Feb 2015 - 11:10 | Tags: erectile dysfunction, problems performing, casual sex, f-buddy australia

It happens to every bloke at some point in his life. You’re making out with a really hot woman be it your girlfriend/wife/fuck buddy and enjoying yourself. You get her clothes off, you get your clothes off and then, all of a sudden…nothing. You think ‘What the hell is going on?’ You’ve been kissing and stroking and groping for the last however long and now just when it counts, your cock lets you down. Or rather your cock let’s itself down. How can this happen? You ask yourself ‘What’s wrong?’ Well, sometimes there might be something wrong physically, but most of the time it’s in your head.

Causes
Erectile dysfunction – no they’re not dirty words – can strike at any point in a man’s life. The way to recover from it quickly is to deal with it quickly. Any number of the following things can affect your erection:

• Alcohol
• Bad diet
• Medication from other illness
• Stress
• No spark with partner
• Tiredness
• Age related fatigue
• Allergic reaction
• Guilt

So how do you solve the problem?

Solutions
A one off is nothing to worry about too much. You could just be tired, stressed and in need of a good night’s sleep. Sex is exercise at the end of the day, but sometimes your body just needs to relax. If you’re experiencing more than a ‘one off’, you might want to start looking at other areas of your life for the solution. For example if you’ve been eating a load of crap – pizza, chips, burgers, fatty cheese – a lot of the time, then you should start thinking about cutting down. Try eating some healthier foods. Green vegetables and fruit prepared properly can taste amazing.

If you’re healthy and not suffering from fatigue then your problem is most likely in your head. So it’s your head that you need to look at. Why do you think you can’t get it up? Do you feel stressed at work/home for example? Or is it that you just don’t fancy your partner? That’s okay if you don’t by the way. We always encourage our members to have sex with someone they fancy and not just have sex for the sake of having sex.

Look at the causes first and the solution will follow. Don’t just go and buy a packet of Viagra.

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How to last longer in bed for men

Masturbate before sex

Kegel exercises

Breath deeply

What to do if you can’t…perform