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Tips for sleeping with a fuck buddy for the first time

EdBennett — Tue, 31 Mar 2020 17:44:49 +0000

31 Mar 2020 - 18:44 | Tags: first time sex rules, fuck buddies, casual sex tips

Welcome to the fuck buddy website, the place we help you find a no string attached relationship. Adult dating has become more acceptable by society as time has gone on. In this time of social distancing and the Coronavirus, having someone that you can hook up with, without having to devote time and resources to outside of the bedroom, has become more important than ever. We all need sex, it is an important part of a healthy and happy life. However, we don’t necessarily need all the attachments that traditional society tells us come with that sex. If you want a relationship, you can have one, but you do not need to have a relationship to have sex. Having a fuck buddy or a friends with benefits relationship gives you all the bedroom time you need with none of the winning and dinning unless you want that part of it.

For some people, this is a new concept for them to get their heads around. Many people have been brought up indoctrinated to think that the relationship and sex go hand in hand. This is simply not true. The only way to break this is to do it. Once you have had your first successful hookup, once you have slept with your first fuck buddy, the shackles of your previous thinking drop away leaving you free to make the choices that are right for you.

For those of you who have never had a fuck buddy, it can seem like a daunting prospect. Fear not, it is easier than it feels right now. To help you out, here are my top tips for sleeping with a fuck buddy for the first time.

Put aside your expectations

You will go into any sexual meeting with expectations. Try your best not to. Put aside your preconceived notions about what your partner will or will not want. The thing that is most likely to be holding you back is a sense that it will go wrong, that it will not work out. Put that to one side and try and expect it to go well instead! Remember, they want to sleep with you as much as you want to sleep with them, so they want it to go as well as you do!

Fortune favours the bold!

They say you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. In the case of a fuck buddy, if there is someone you like, the only way to 100% guarantee that you will not have sex with them is to not try. If you try, it may not work out, but it also might! The only way to be sure is to try! So give it go. If you see someone, see if they want to hook up. Fortune favours the bold!

Use a condom

Always use a condom. The first time you sleep with someone, the best thing to do is to be safe. No matter what they say about whether they have been tested for STI’s or that they are on the pill… always use a condom. It is the only way to be sure.

Have fun! The first time you have sex with a fuck buddy is a night to remember.

Even more top sex tips for men

EdBennett — Fri, 17 May 2019 09:42:52 +0000

17 May 2019 - 10:42 | Tags: top sex tips, dating tips for men, casual sex tips

So you already have your fuck buddy, or you are very confident of getting one. You know that it is only a matter of time again before you are in the sack getting it on with someone lovely. It could be that you have a friend who you are eyeing up to turn into a friend with benefits. Perhaps you have a couple of coffee meets lined up through the f-buddy website already. Or maybe you even have a threesome planned. What ever the reason, you know that sex is on the table.

So now you turn your attention to having better sex. This is so that you are more likely to have more sex with the same people, but even more importantly it is so that you can have fun! Welcome to even more top sex tips designed for me.

Help prepare your woman through relaxation

Most men like to get excited in the run-up to sex. We want the drive the chase, the build-up to the victory of having sex. Women like to relax. It is easier to make them come if they are feeling stress-free. So help both of you out by helping her to relax. This could be a gentle dinner, a massage, a hot bath. Take a few actions to help her to chill out and her explosion will be yours.

Never, ever skip the foreplay

The more you know someone the more comfortable you are and the more likely you are to be tempted to skip foreplay and go straight to sex. Do not do this! Science has proven again and again that foreplay contributes to stronger orgasms and better sex. Even if you are super excited and just want to do it, resist! You will have a better, stronger orgasm for putting that little bit of extra time into the build up!

Put yourself In their shoes

The best way to know how to wow your audience is to think like your audience. In this case, think like a woman, your woman! Put yourself in her shoes and consider the things that she would like or not like. Pay attention to the things that she really enjoyed and think about how much extra you are going to get by just giving a tiny bit of extra attention to those areas. If you can tease her more and more in the build up to sex, she will explode at the first thrust.

Found a fuck buddy? Five top tips to have better sex

EdBennett — Tue, 26 Feb 2019 19:50:07 +0000

26 Feb 2019 - 19:50 | Tags: better sex guide, casual sex tips, dating tips for men

Welcome to the fuck buddy website, the place where we help you find the fuck buddy that is already out there seeking you! All we do is help you meet up, from there nature will take its course and before you know it you will be having to budget separately for condoms to ensure that you can afford them and still pay the rent!
So you have found your fuck buddy. Here are some tops tips for men on how to have better sex with them.

Talk about sex, a lot

There are moments when we might find ourselves trying to communicate the most subtle and intricate of instructions, but we find ourselves doing so through grunts or moans! Try to get someone to slow down a little, applying a tiny bit more pressure and keep doing that but in a clockwise direction… that is never going to come across from a sexual moan no matter how expressive that moan is! The best thing to do is to tell your fuck buddy. So be honest, talk to each other and a better sex life you will have.

Have a healthy diet

Your body is your main tool when you are having sex. Keeping that tool in a good, sex ready condition means looking after it. Eating in a healthy way is very important when it comes to sex. If you are undernourished, and lacking in stamina from a lifestyle that involves no physical activity, then you are not going to be at your best with your fuck buddy.

Be a gentleman

It doesn’t take much to be a gentleman. Open doors, hold out chairs, offer your coat when she is cold. This take almost no effort but can buy you bags in bed.

Get enough sleep

If you are tired and fatigued, you are not going to be in the mood for sex in the same way as if you are well rested and ready to go. You want to have a certain amount of energy when it comes to having sex, and that means having slept. So make sure you sleep between visits from your friends with benefits.

Always have foreplay

Foreplay gets everyone in the mood and ready to go. Even when you are both really turned on and already ripping each other’s clothes off, always make time for foreplay. In times of low levels of horniness it allows you to build the other person up ready to squirt, in times of high horniness it has been proven to strengthen and deepen orgasm. It is also fun! So get involved.

Temperature and sex – how to use hot and cold to your advantage

EdBennett — Sat, 20 Jan 2018 09:08:36 +0000

20 Jan 2018 - 09:08 | Tags: casual sex tips, being sexy, staying hard

There are many things that will affect your ability to have sex, and your enjoyment of the sex. This is always different for different people, so I am going to highlight the usual and often seen fluctuations – but remember that everyone is wonderfully different, so you may find yourself on very different ends of the scale!

Timing

Sometimes the time of day can make a really big difference. Some people are morning people, most people due to lifestyle are used to having sex in the evening. The one thing that I know can screw you over (and not screw in the positive sense) is if you leave it too late. The body gets tired, and as it gets tired it’s ability to have and enjoy sex diminishes. Different people have different stamina levels, so for some people they can have sex a lot later and it still be well within the window of a good time, but this effects everyone universally. So watch out.

What you eat

Being hungry or underfed puts the body out of its optimal performance. This affects your ability to think, perform physical tasks, and have sex. There are certain foods that enhance the sex drive that can actively help, but at the least make sure that you have eaten enough food. You need your strength, big boy!

Temperature

This is a really big one. In short it can have a massive affect on your ability to perform and enjoy sex, so this is really one to watch. I am going to split it into hot and cold.

Too Cold

If it is “too cold” your body will spend more time and energy keeping itself warm, and will have less energy to have sex. Remember, “too” cold is relative to the person. For some people, it has to be really cold before it affects them, but ultimately there is a tipping point. For me particularly, if you are cold your body tries to keep warm by keeping everything close in – this means getting and maintaining an erection is really hard, so watch out.

Too hot

Now, this is much harder to hit! It is easier to have sex when it is too hot than when it is too cold. Too much heat can cause lethargy and a lack of motivation to do, well, anything. This includes sex. It is easier to have sex in the heat, but the heat may reduce your enjoyment of it.

So watch out for these elements, optimisation of them can really help keep your sex life “hot”.

Hooking Up Tips for Men from Women

EdBennett — Fri, 30 Jan 2015 11:00:41 +0000

30 Jan 2015 - 11:00 | Tags: hooking up, hooking up tips, casual sex tips, dating tips for men

Believe it or not, there are still a surprisingly high number of men fucking it up when trying to approach women for casual sex. Some guys still think that sending a picture of their cock is an all access pass to a woman’s vagina. Some guys still think that it’s attractive to talk about how rich they are. Some guys think that if they jack hammer a woman’s vagina she loves it.

Well we’ve received some tips from women who use this site for men that use this site. Follow these tips well guys and you might just stand a better chance of hooking up tonight.

1. Don’t send pictures of your cock
It rarely works especially as an opening line. If you must do it, at least already be sleeping with the woman you’re going to send it too. It just doesn’t work on 99.9999% of women. The 0.0001% of women it does work on are probably not women you want to be having sex with.

2. No selfies
It’s not hot. You just look like a retard. Or someone who’s in love with himself. Not attractive.

3. Girls don’t like being called ‘Bitches’
It’s not cool. It’s disrespectful. Even if you think it’s funny, no one else will and you’ll be going home alone dickwad.

4. Don’t talk about how rich and successful you are
It’s not attractive in ANY WAY. You just sound like an arrogant asshole. Why would we want to sleep with an arrogant asshole? Eughhh!

5. If you’re shy, fake confidence
We like it when a guy takes charge and leads. If this isn’t you, don’t worry – we like the sensitive quiet guys too. Just pretend you’re confident at first, and then feel free to be Captain Sensitive once you’ve got us back to yours! We love that!

6. Compliment me when I’m wearing clothes and when I’m naked
Women are paranoid about the way we look. A few well aimed compliments about how good we look when dressed and naked will go a long way to getting you laid.

7. Don’t try to make a woman jealous
If you’re insecure that’s your problem, not ours. We don’t find anyone who tries to make us jealous by flirting with other women at all attractive. We’ll just leave you to it. No sex from us. Bye!

8. Don’t talk about how many women you’ve fucked
We don’t give a shit. All we care about is how well you can fuck us. Proof should be in the pudding so to speak. Less tell, more show please.

Blow Like A Pro –Top Tips on the Best Blowjob

EdBennett — Wed, 28 Jan 2015 18:25:27 +0000

28 Jan 2015 - 18:25 | Tags: blow job tips, oral sex, giving head, casual sex tips

Men have feelings too believe it or not. We feel a lot about the everyday things; what’s going to happen at work today, I wonder what I’ll have for dinner and so on. We also like sex. A lot. Preferably with that very attractive lady sitting/standing in the corner of the bar/shop/street/café/park/dating site smiling at us (i.e. – you). When it comes to blow jobs and hand jobs we have a lot of feelings on the matter too. For example; did you know that simply tugging repeatedly at a guy’s cock is not going to make him want you more? He already wants you. Yanking his manhood is just going to make him yelp in pain. Stroking is the key to a good hand job. And don’t tell us “Well no one’s ever complained about my hand/blow jobs before line” because we know that no guy will ever complain about any girl giving him a bad hand/blow job. Why? Because we get to have sex with you and don’t want to risk not having sex with you by telling you give really bad blow jobs!

So to aid you ladies we compiled a list of the best tips on giving a guy a phenomenal blow job. It is believe it or not an art form.

Top Tips on Blowing His Mind

1. Good Oral Lubrication
Don’t spit, but don’t just assume that bobbing your head up and down without lubrication is going to get us going. It doesn’t. Would you want us entering your pussy without it being wet first? No. So make sure when you’re giving a guy head, you’ve got enough saliva to back it up.

2. Pretend to enjoy it even if you don’t
Even if you don’t like giving head, you should at least pretend to enjoy it for our sake. Nothing is sexier for both guys and girls than the other partner visibly enjoying themselves. If you grudgingly go down on a guy we don’t even want you to go down.

3. Don’t look at us during
Sorry, but it’s just weird seeing you staring at us intently with our dick in your mouth. Please just attend to our cock.

4. Initiate
We LOVE IT when a woman initiates sex. So initiate a blow job once in a while too. It turns us on and you’ll get better sex effort from us. Win win.

5. Don’t bite our dick
Some women like to use their teeth as blow job aids. This can be fine as it produces an interesting sensation and can be really stimulating, but too many women over do the teeth. Our cocks are not cocktail sausages. Treat them with respect please.