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How to give the best blow job (fellatio)

EdBennett — Fri, 20 May 2022 22:54:13 +0000

20 May 2022 - 23:54 | Tags: blow job tips, oral sex

This article is aimed at two people. Perhaps you have recognised that becoming great at giving blow jobs is a life skill that will serve you well for the rest of your life, so you looked this up on google, found this, and are ready to make sure that no fuck buddy ever wants to see you leave them! In the alterative, perhaps you are with a fuck buddy that gives bad blow jobs and, for both your sakes, you would like to help them out! If you are that person, you should forward this article to them right now. So whether this information is for you or for a friend (with benefits!) here is what you need to know about fellatio and how to give the best bow jobs.

The basics

If you are new to giving head, it is worth mentioning that the only thing you need to really be concerned about is STIs. No one can get pregnant from being involved in a blow job, but there is an exchange of fluid so good to be aware of sexual health in that regard.

The other thing to acknowledge is that it is okay to be nervous. When you are with someone new or doing something new then this is natural, so breath into it.

Deep Throat

This is not for beginners, so be warned, but again it can e a skill that takes you to the next level. Deep throat is where you are able to take the mans penis into your mouth all the way. This means allowing the penis to enter your mouth and then into your throat. This can be difficult because the human body, thinking that something is going where it shouldn’t, will activate the gag reflex to cause you to push out of your mouth the very thing that you have deliberately put in there. This can be overcome, but it does need to be practiced. The best way of doing this is with something other than someone’s dick. Fruit is always a good choice, but I will leave the choice to you. Just practice it first. If you can master it, it will be worth it!

Use product

One of the issues that some people face is that they don’t like the taste. If that is you, add some product! There are plenty of flavoured lubricants on the market, why not grab one and add it into the mix. If it makes your experience of giving a blow job better, you are more likely to get better at it and do it more.

So go forth and give oral sex to your fuck buddy. Don’t forget to ask them to return the favour!

The problem with blow jobs Part one – the Angle

EdBennett — Sun, 06 Dec 2015 10:03:59 +0000

6 Dec 2015 - 10:03 | Tags: blow job tips, oral sex

This article is intrinsically negative as you can tell from the title. So in order to make sure that my position on the value of blow jobs is not misunderstood; I want to start by saying that blow jobs are unequivocally awesome. A good blow job can take a hardening penis and make it solid as a rock – to the benefit of both parties. A well timed tickle of the tongue on the tip (just below the head) can be enough to push a man over the edge into complete carnal desire, to the benefit of both parties. A blow job delivered in an unusual place, a lift, the cinema, from under the office desk whilst the man is still at work and trying to keep a straight face so that their colleges don’t notice that he is infact on the verge of shouting in extasy, can put a huge amount of zing and excitement into a relationship, to the benefit of both parties. So let me start by being completely clear on this. Blow jobs are amazing – if you are not getting them / doing them, you need to sort that out right now. Log into your account, so a search for someone who likes to give / receive blow jobs and get involved. This is not a suggestion, this is an order. Trust me, your life will be better for it.

So the problem with blow jobs... is simply that whilst to the layman it seems straight forward, people have extremely different tastes in terms of how they like them delivered.

Angle

For this article I am focusing on the angle. The position of the “giver” can make a huge difference. Is the receiver lying down on a bed, standing up or sitting down? The angle can make a huge difference both in terms of technique and overall effect. If someone is standing and the giver is on their knees, they will naturally pull the penis down to a horizontal position, putting a downward pressure on the shaft. Some people love this, other people are a LOT less keen. If you love it happy days, if you don’t then this can cause you to loose your hard on – that is bad for both of you.

There is also a question of view. Remember what you see can make a huge difference to how you feel – hence why we try and sleep with people we visually fancy. Some people really love the upward angle of the givers eyes looking up at them from their kneeling position, others like to see nothing but the top of their heads. Sometimes someone who is beautiful can be rendered ugly all of a sudden because actually they have a lumpy head – something you *never* noticed before being given your first blow job from them!

Regardless of you or your partners preference – remember that there is preference. Be aware of it and try and tailor your blow job to that.

Next time we will be discussing the actual blow job techniques.

Rimming: Pros & Cons

EdBennett — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 12:02:54 +0000

6 Jun 2015 - 13:02 | Tags: rimming, oral sex, casual sex

Let’s face it; we’ve all been waiting for another instalment on sex positions. What’s the use in having a fuck buddy if you can’t enjoy all the different things casual sex offers? To start off the season on sex positions, we thought we’d begin with the topic of rimming. Many people still get a bit unnerved about rimming mostly because it’s not often talked about. Yet we have so many members who cite rimming as one of their most favourite things to do! But what about those among us who don’t know enough about rimming? We compiled a list of the pros and cons when it comes to rimming. It should help you decide whether or not rimming is for you.

The Rimming Essentials

PROS

1. The Bum/Butt is a hugely erogenous zone
There are a lot of nerve endings on the anus making any kind of stimulation down there potentially orgasmic.

2. You Can Use Flavoured Lube
Let’s face it in any kind of oral sex, there’s going to be a smell. Flavoured lubricant can add passion to the fire.

3. 69
The classic oral sex position allows both parties access to their erogenous zones at the same time. With rimming this is the perfect starting position as you can access the butt almost as much as the penis or vagina. Pleasure heaven waits.

CONS

1. You use your mouth
At the end of the day this is an area where poo comes out. The idea of getting your mouth anywhere near the bum can be a huge turn off for people.

2. Higher risk of infection
There are many bacteria and germs in this area. Infection is an increased risk with rimming if you don’t clean yourself properly before and after

3. Can be painful
Any kind of oral sex can be uncomfortable if you’re not prepared for it. The anus is controlled by powerful muscles. If you’re not relaxed enough than there’s a high chance you can experience a high degree of pain when someone is trying to perform oral sex on your bum.

Blow Like A Pro –Top Tips on the Best Blowjob

EdBennett — Wed, 28 Jan 2015 18:25:27 +0000

28 Jan 2015 - 18:25 | Tags: blow job tips, oral sex, giving head, casual sex tips

Men have feelings too believe it or not. We feel a lot about the everyday things; what’s going to happen at work today, I wonder what I’ll have for dinner and so on. We also like sex. A lot. Preferably with that very attractive lady sitting/standing in the corner of the bar/shop/street/café/park/dating site smiling at us (i.e. – you). When it comes to blow jobs and hand jobs we have a lot of feelings on the matter too. For example; did you know that simply tugging repeatedly at a guy’s cock is not going to make him want you more? He already wants you. Yanking his manhood is just going to make him yelp in pain. Stroking is the key to a good hand job. And don’t tell us “Well no one’s ever complained about my hand/blow jobs before line” because we know that no guy will ever complain about any girl giving him a bad hand/blow job. Why? Because we get to have sex with you and don’t want to risk not having sex with you by telling you give really bad blow jobs!

So to aid you ladies we compiled a list of the best tips on giving a guy a phenomenal blow job. It is believe it or not an art form.

Top Tips on Blowing His Mind

1. Good Oral Lubrication
Don’t spit, but don’t just assume that bobbing your head up and down without lubrication is going to get us going. It doesn’t. Would you want us entering your pussy without it being wet first? No. So make sure when you’re giving a guy head, you’ve got enough saliva to back it up.

2. Pretend to enjoy it even if you don’t
Even if you don’t like giving head, you should at least pretend to enjoy it for our sake. Nothing is sexier for both guys and girls than the other partner visibly enjoying themselves. If you grudgingly go down on a guy we don’t even want you to go down.

3. Don’t look at us during
Sorry, but it’s just weird seeing you staring at us intently with our dick in your mouth. Please just attend to our cock.

4. Initiate
We LOVE IT when a woman initiates sex. So initiate a blow job once in a while too. It turns us on and you’ll get better sex effort from us. Win win.

5. Don’t bite our dick
Some women like to use their teeth as blow job aids. This can be fine as it produces an interesting sensation and can be really stimulating, but too many women over do the teeth. Our cocks are not cocktail sausages. Treat them with respect please.