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Try a different sex position for instant fun

EdBennett — Mon, 20 Feb 2017 19:30:41 +0000

20 Feb 2017 - 19:30 | Tags: sex positions, better sex

As humans we are creatures of habit. That is not something that we choose – it is hard wired into us. We learn that we can do “a” and “b” to get to “c”, and when we want to get to “c” again another time we just do the same sequence. It is a natural resource saving instinct, why spend energy trying to do something that we are unsure is going to work, when we can just repeat what we did last time to reach the same result? Think about it in cave man days, if we know that this particular fruit is tasty and delicious and leaves us feeling full and satisfied, why would we try to eat the fruit that may taste bad, or leave us feeling ill, or even poison and kill us? It makes no sense. So it is that we are creatures of habit, and on some level once we have a process in place rather than try new things we will just fall back on that old way of doing things. We do this unthinkingly, without questioning it. We just do it. Which is why I am writing this article, to try and encourage you to mix it up with your sex life.

You have a favourite go to sex position. This is not a question, this is a fact, and you know that I am speaking the truth here! Think about it, what is your favourite sex position? What is your go to sex position? For some people they are different, their favourite position is not always a go to position, particularly if it is a little difficult, complicated, or requires the girl to do a lot of hard work. The first time you sleep with a girl, you probably reach for your go to sex position rather than your favourite, especially if your favourite involves your fuck buddy to be upside down at the time!

There is no harm in this – we all do it. However, if you want to mix things up to keep things exciting and fun in the bedroom, then try a different sex position. It will be gladly welcomed by your partner – trust me! Even if it turns out it is not your favourite position after you try it, it doesn’t matter. When you go to a restaurant or eat out, you don’t want to have the same thing every time you eat out.

If you are a little nervous about change, then remember, you don’t have to even change the whole position, you can just change small things about the way that you are doing things now and it can make things better! For example, if you are using missionary position a lot, get the girl to put her legs together and then as the man put your thighs around hers, and squeeze. This will tighten her vagina, giving you a much tighter fuck, and for her your penis will feel much bigger. This is a simple way to high friction fun!

So mix it up, you won’t regret it.

Take breaks for multiple rounds of sex

EdBennett — Sun, 12 Feb 2017 19:33:55 +0000

12 Feb 2017 - 19:33 | Tags: better sex, sex tips, increasing stamina

All of us are subject to the way that films portray sex, we never made the conscious choice to watch them and then base our yardstick for sex on what we saw, it just got handed to us. The issue with this is that sex in the movies is totally unrealistic. It is all super smooth, with soft lens camera work and gentle music. The transition from the bar to the bedroom is instantaneous, and then sex is always amazing even though it is the first time that the people have slept together. For a lot of people the very first time you sleep with someone is rarely that good, nerves and insecurity can get in the way a lot especially for women it seems. Yet that is the picture that is painted for us. 2 people with endless stamina who are able to go at it till they are both screaming in delight. Yet most of us are not sex athletes, we do not spend our days ensuring that we are in the peak condition to have endless sex all night... yet it is of course lovely to be able to have great sex. So what do we do about it?

Stay reasonably fit

The fitter you are, the better at sex you are going to be. Period. It is a physical act, and so if you are physically out of shape, your ability to perform will be reduced. You don’t have to go super gym crazy, you just have to keep yourself at a reasonable functioning level. Just make sure that you are moving every day in some way and that will actually do everything you need. Walk the 30mins instead of taking the bus to the train station, that will do it. Just make sure you move. If you want to kick up your sex life, do some kegel exercises.

Take breaks during sex

The movies tell us that people start having sex, and they don’t stop till they have both come in a screaming heap of sweaty fuck buddy flesh. This is not the case, and there is no problem at all in adjusting to the real world. Feel free to take breaks between parts of the session. If a girl has just given you a blow job and it is in an awkward position, give her a couple of moments to re adjust to being released from that position. If you have just fucked a girl from behind and you flip her over to change positions, it is okay to take a few moments to breath. Taking breaks in between chapters is totally okay.

I hope this helps – now go and have some amazing sex!

Soundtrack your sex

EdBennett — Tue, 28 Jun 2016 10:38:01 +0000

28 Jun 2016 - 11:38 | Tags: sex tips, better sex guide, better sex

Having great sex is about more than just the actual act of having sex. Let us say for a moment that it is a given that you are going to get laid and do the actual act of having “the sex”. If you are a man you are going to put your penis inside someone else, and if you are a woman you are going to have something put inside you (most likely a penis – but we don’t like to judge here at f-buddy. As long as your aim is to have great sex and show the other person a good time you are welcome here!). So the physical side of this is guaranteed... so if it is on the cards and all sorted, why bother doing anything else? Why not just go home and get laid? The answer: quality.

Can you come?
The quality of the sex that you have is determined clearly by how well you have learnt to come. If you know how to come and come well, then you are ready to have a really good time. No one, no matter how good they are in bed can give that to you – so get this sorted first.

Can the other person come?
The same is true for them. If they don’t know how to come then they won’t. Your enjoyment to some degree is tied up in theirs, so it is important that they have this side of things sorted as well.

Are you on the same page?
Being on the same page when having sex is really important. If you know that the other person is totally on board with what is happening and into it, you can really let go and have a good time. This is where having a fuck buddy really comes into its own! The clear understanding of what you are all doing means that you can really let go and have a great time!

So once you have that.... go for music!
So once you have the basic building blocks in place, and you are looking to make the setting more exciting, the mood better, or something to enhance the sex, what should you reach for first? Many people think about toys, or alcohol, or other sex enhancers... but you have something even simpler right there. Music.

Soundtrack it like a film
We all identify with films – so soundtrack your sex like in the movies and it will push emotion higher. That kick directly affects your pleasure levels. So quickly put on some music – or better yet put together a sex soundtrack and see how easily things are more fun. This is your sexual quick win right here!

How you can have better sex this year

EdBennett — Tue, 13 Jan 2015 13:00:00 +0000

13 Jan 2015 - 13:00 | Tags: better sex, more casual sex, adult fun

So the New Year has arrived. Things are pretty much the same as they were last year. There are still wars going on. People still complain about politicians. Everyone bemoans not having enough money. And no one is getting enough sex! Well we aim to put that right this year. We’re here to help you get more sex. Not just any sex mind you. We’re here to get you great sex! That’s the whole point of our site. To help you all meet like minded horny partners who need a good fuck. We think everyone deserves a good fuck in 2015 so we’re going to share some tips for you to get it.

How to get laid properly in 2015

1. Take a Sex Class
No we’re not joking. The best way to increase your chances of getting laid and having mind blowing sex is to improve your skills. Try going to a rope tying class. Take a potential fuck buddy and see how much hotter the two of you get.

2. Buy new underwear for YOUR enjoyment
Instead of trying to impress a partner with your sexy new lingerie, how about you buy it for your comfort and pleasure? You’ll feel sexier because you’ve bought it for yourself.

3. Stay in Bed and shag
Instead of leaping out of bed early in the morning, why not lie in a little. You can cosy up to your partner and have some exciting early morning sex! It works every single time.

4. Try Yoga
They say flexibility is the key to improving your sex life. Having tried it I would agree. Your body becomes more flexible and you’re able to adopt positions in the bedroom that you wouldn’t have tried a year ago!

5. Be Sensible and Get Checked
Not as sensual a suggestion as the others, but ensuring that you have no nasty infections of diseases that could be transmitted through sex is a good way to ensure you have great sex in 2015.

6. Play around
Basically adopt a different personality when you’re about to have sex. Maybe you would be a naughty schoolgirl who’s been caught by her equally naughty teacher. She must be punished!

7. Try being celibate for a bit
If you’re one of those people who can’t keep their hands off their sex partner then try going without for a week. When you do eventually have sex you’ll find it much more mind blowing then before. Basically because you’re gagging for it and have an urgency that wasn’t there.