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The VR Fuck Buddy has arrived

EdBennett — Sat, 30 May 2020 14:55:03 +0000

30 May 2020 - 15:55 | Tags: virtual sex, porn, photos

In the time of the coronavirus and the COVID-19 pandemic, the number of users of online porn and sex sites have spiked as much as the spread of the pandemic! As more and more people were confined to their homes, people’s natural need and desire for sex started to drive them to virtual and digital sources for respite. In this regard the usual sources of sexual stimulation are all thriving. Online porn sites and google searches for explicit content have increased, and with the flood of extra visitors and revenue, companies have been investing in expanding the technology in order to be able to provide a fuller service. The most popular trend in recent times is the expansion of live video chat rooms. The traditional business model was of course live sex channels on television. Now though, sex chat rooms allow you entrance for free, the fee to tip the “performer” or pay extra for private time or access to pre-recorded private videos is how they make money. This must be a successful model as it has been widely adopted across this area of the industry. Where the industry is pushing into brand new areas is in VR.

VR stands for virtual reality. The current way to access this is by placing a headset that fully covers your eyes, and this then projects the 3D images for you to view. Turning your head turns the pictures that you are seeing, allowing you to “look around” at the virtual pictures or landscape, and giving you the real sense that you are where the virtual world is purporting to take you. This has been used to create virtual landscapes, virtual journeys to famous places around the world, virtual computer games, and now the latest addition are virtual fuck buddies.

With a virtual fuck buddy or sex friend, the VR headset helps to give you the sense that the virtually projected image of your fuck buddy is in the room with you. You can look around and move your head to check their body out properly. Certain triggers will have them undressing for you, dancing for you, and performing all manner or sexually exciting acts for your pleasure. The experience you has been shown to be far superior to that of standard 2-dimensional porn.

The technology is growing fast and they are creating more content for the virtual headsets the more that people use them. Adult dating websites are also starting to engage with them as well, offering free content to entice users. If you haven’t given it a try yet, it is worth checking out. Nothing beats having a real fuck buddy, but whilst the coronavirus is causing issues with having hook ups, it is an excellent way to fill the gap.

Why use porn when you can have the real thing?

EdBennett — Sat, 21 May 2016 19:04:46 +0000

21 May 2016 - 20:04 | Tags: porn in casual sex, porn, casual sex problems

Why? WHY!??! I thought I would start this article with what would have been the end of the article. I am here to talk about porn, and the fact that we use it instead of the real thing. I want to start by telling you my conclusion. There is nothing wrong with porn, and actually I would encourage people to look at it and use it – both men and women that is. What I would say is that the balance is to ensure that whilst you are using porn, be aware to not allow porn use to replace your desire for the real thing – more importantly don’t allow porn use to reduce the amount that you do the real thing. It is really good to have actual real sex. It is healthy, makes you happy, and the act as far as I can tell can never really be replaced by anything at all. So *do both*. Yes use porn, and enjoy using it in a guilt free fashion for know that you are doing nothing wrong! However – make sure that you *also* keep having real sex with real people.

So now allow me to back track a little and talk through the thinking.

Porn is great. There is something about it that fills an instant need. We love looking at it, and it is also really morish. Once you have had a little, rather than sate your appetite, it actually leaves you hungry for *more* rather than less. There is nothing wrong in this, and actually since it leads to masturbation this is actually a good thing. If you want to be able to come and orgasm in the bedroom, you first really need to know how to come and orgasm by yourself. It actually takes a little practice, and the best way of getting that practice is by doing it yourself.

The danger is that too much porn can leave you with unrealistic expectations of how sex is and what the other people that you are having sex with are like in bed. For men especially, it leaves expectations that you are going to last in the bedroom for far longer than is natural for most people, and that the women/men you are sleeping with are mostly super subservient and with literally porn star looks. Most women do not look like the women in porn films, and most men do not last the length of time that they do in the video clips.

So this can then lead to you have less actual sex. Getting off to porn is easy, safe and without any possibility of rejection or problems. Don’t fall into this trap.

So use porn – but also keep having real sex.

What’s it like to be a porn star?

EdBennett — Thu, 06 Aug 2015 08:48:52 +0000

6 Aug 2015 - 09:48 | Tags: porn, casual sex, fantasy, sex fantasy

Loads of our members enjoy porn. Hell, the reason the industry is so big is because of the sheer volume of people who view porn. Often seen as a seedy industry, proper pornography can be just as complex to film and edit as a Hollywood blockbuster. Male actors have to stay hard in extraordinary situations, female actors sometimes have to deep throat a dick for hours on end and the camera crew can get exhausted trying to get as many angles as possible on film. Porn to us is a useful fantasy aid to have when masturbating or when with a fuck buddy. But what’s it actually like to be a porn star?

1. For male actors, erections can be hard to achieve

That scene where the dude is banging the chick for what seems like hours on end, can take an eternity to get right. The camera has to be in the right positions, the female actor has to be properly lubed and both actors have to stop and start when filming different shots. Maintaining an erection is expected, but as we all know, that’s just not possible without physical and mental aids. Everything from Viagra to injections in the dick are used to help male actors stay hard. Not fun.

2. For female actors the mouth can get tired

When going down on a guy, you’d normally expect the blow job to last a maximum of 10 minutes in the real world. In the porn world a blow job can go on for literally hours. Again getting a good shot is everything (no pun intended), so the actors have to stop and start again and again. Imagine having a guy’s cock in your mouth for that long? Might be fun at first, but eventually your jaw gets tired, and your mouth can get sore.

3. The bits that look like the ultimate fantasy are not that awesome for the performers

That scene where the guy is fucking the girl from what seems like an impossible angle may look incredibly hot, but if you were to try this in the real world, the sex would not be that fun. Having a dick pounding parts of the vagina that were not meant to be pounded can be uncomfortable at best and painful at worst. Now imagine both actors having to maintain the illusion of pleasure on their faces throughout. Not fun.

4. Anal sex is difficult

We’ve already talked about anal sex a lot, so it should come as no surprise that porn stars have to take more precautions than most. A butt is a butt at the end of the day, so if you’ve not cleaned out your anus, the results during sex are going to be messy and uncomfortable. Porn actors who do anal have to have regular enemas in order for the anal sex to be achievable. Not great.

5. Fetish often earns stars more money

It should come as no surprise that fetish has personal and financial rewards. Actors sometimes don’t even have to have sex to earn a cool $2000 per session. Many people just like to watch someone dressed up as a nurse or schoolteacher (insert relevant fantasy here) to get off. Fetish can be a big earner in the industry.

6. Competition is huge

Due in large part to the internet boom, anyone who’s anyone thinks they can now be a porn star. The industry pros are right to tell us that it’s simply not that simple, but increased belief has meant increased competition within the industry to stay relevant.

So remember, porn can be fun to watch and enjoy, but it’s not that simple when you’re working within the industry.

Porn: Healthy or Unhealthy?

EdBennett — Mon, 08 Dec 2014 12:52:37 +0000

8 Dec 2014 - 12:52 | Tags: porn

Pornography has been around for centuries. Don’t think that porn only became prevalent with the rise of video and the internet. From Victorian England to Ancient Greece and Rome, porn has been a part of human culture since we first learnt how good sex can feel. Images and role playing fantasy was first brought to notoriety by ancient Greek philosophers and if you think some of today’s hard core porn is strong, you have no idea how hard core the Greeks were. But is porn healthy? And if it is, when does porn become too much porn?

Using Porn as part of sex
Two studies published in 2008 and 2009 revealed that many people viewed porn as having beneficial effects in a relationship. Couples who viewed pornography together either as a precursor to or during sex reported on feeling more sexually satisfied than those who did not view porn. From this perspective porn can be a positive experience and healthy for the human libido. But what if you view porn as a single person?

Using Porn when single
Believe it or not an equal amount of men and women have viewed porn in the past decade. The studies concluded that singe people who view porn on a regular basis sometimes have difficulty in developing significant intimate connections with a potential partner. Whether or not this is due to reality proving different from fantasy is contentious. However using porn to explore developing sexual desire (for example during puberty) can be helpful in settling on sexual preferences. Anything from homosexuality to polygamous relationships can be explored with the aid of porn.

Too much of anything can be bad
Like anything using porn too much can have a significantly negative impact on your life. It can become an addiction as serious as any other and like any other it can be treated. The trick is in knowing and then admitting to having a problem. Porn addicts become unable to establish physical and emotional connections with other people so if you think you can still have lots of sex with other people when you’re watching 8 hours of porn a day, think again. It severely affects the libido.