How to "instant date" your way to sex

EdBennett — Thu, 17 May 2018 10:03:40 +0000

17 May 2018 - 11:03 | Tags: dating in Australia, how to instant date, get laid fast

Our lives have never been busier, and we have never had less time to do the important things in life, like get laid. Our routines leave us very little time for recreation and fun. We get up in the morning bleary eyed from our alarms, we brush our teeth and eat cold cereal as that’s the fast way to have breakfast. Then we travel on average for an hour to somewhere we don’t like, to do a job we are not passionate about, so that we can then spend an hour traveling back home, tired from the day and unable to do much else.

The time left to meet romantic and sexual partners has plummeted, it has never been lower. If are dating “normally” this makes getting laid even harder. You have to meet someone, date them for a whole evening, and even then you may not like the person. Even if you do, you likely have to do that a few times before you are going to sleep with them, which means that’s several weeks of your life gone, given the amount of time you have to do that is pretty low.

One way to speed this up, is to instant date. Here is how it works.

You meet someone that you fancy. This could be at work, at a meeting, whilst out with friends. It could also happen whilst shopping or even when walking down the street. So the traditional thing to do is to chat them up, take a number. The issue here that it is both slow, and they may never meet up with you. It is hard getting people to come out after a single meeting. So why wait?

Instead, take them on an instant date! This can be a quick coffee, a short walk, a half an hour sandwhich lunch. IT can be anything. If you are out of an evening, it can be a walk over to the juke box to play a tune, a move to the other side of the pub to look at a picture or put some money in the slots. It could be a move outside for a smoke. The key elements of an instant date are:

Something where you move to a different location
Something involving just the two of you
You do it instantly there and then, you don’t wait for a “better” time, because the time is now.

If you have never done it, I highly recommend it! You’ll be surprised where this leaves you.

Is casual dating in Australia easier then everywhere else?

EdBennett — Fri, 21 Nov 2014 15:47:36 +0000

21 Nov 2014 - 15:47 | Tags: dating in Australia

That’s a hard question to answer. The US often boasts about their casual dating scene being top class with women and men each dating different people every week (some every night). The UK has experienced a huge internet dating revolution where even the shyest of poms can score several dates over the week. In Europe dating varies from country to country with Italians promenading up and down the streets checking one another out, whilst the Germans busy themselves drinking in groups and enjoying the nights seeing where they’ll end up. Australia has a reputation for being chilled out and relaxed with a casual atmosphere in place almost everywhere. But when it comes to casual dating Aussies do things a little differently to America and Europe.

Ozzie rules
In the US no one thinks anything of it when a guy asks a girl out on the street. In Australia however people look at you with a raised eyebrow and a quickened step if you ask them out on the street. We prefer things to grow a bit more casually in social settings. So what does that mean when it comes to sex?

Well the good news is that Aussies aren’t always looking for meaningful relationships. A study conducted by SheKnows Australia showed that 26% of men and only 13% of women are looking for a committed relationship. The casual trend is found mostly in the cities so if you’re looking for a quick hook up they are the places to head.

Drinking is pretty big in Aus as well. Most respondents to a survey we conducted cited drinking and hanging out in bars were among their top interests. So if you’re looking for a casual hook up then heading to a bar or club is a good bet. Interestingly though the top thing that Australian women want is for a guy to make the first move whether it comes to a date or sex. Many complain about Australian guys “taking forever” to ask a girl out or kiss her. It might also explain why Australian women have a reputation for being so forward.

With all this in mind here are a few guidance notes to help you out in casual dating:

DO make the first move. Women hate waiting.
DON’T come on too strong. Casual is key.
DO share costs if you go for dinner.
DON’T take yourself too seriously.

Dating isn’t harder in Australia. It’s just more casual and a bit different.

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How to "instant date" your way to sex

One way to speed this up, is to instant date. Here is how it works.

Is casual dating in Australia easier then everywhere else?