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When choosing a fuck buddy – aim high!

EdBennett — Fri, 30 Apr 2021 00:11:48 +0000

30 Apr 2021 - 01:11 | Tags: how to get the best sex, find a fuck buddy

Outside of the adult dating forum in the more vanilla walk of life, there are so many pressures that mean people “settle”. They want kids, they want security, they are too scared to push harder for what they really want. They are happy with some aspects of the relationship so they settle on the rest. There are parts of the relationship that they would like to change or improve, but they are too scared of risking the whole thing to address it, so that element never gets addressed or fixed. I am here to give you one clear message in this article. When you are choosing a fuck buddy, aim high, because you can!

With a fuck buddy, you both know why you are there. You are there for the sex and you are not interested in the strings that usually get attached to long term relationships. There is also no expectation of it lasting any more than one night. That is not to say that it will not last more than one night. Many do, and the longer you are together the better the sex gets so it is worth doing if you are with someone you like having sex with, but there is no expectation of it. This brings the pressure right down, it means that there is less holding you back from being honest because you are not invested in the outcome. You can be in the moment and true to how you are feeling. So what does this mean? It means you can aim high!

If you are not having the best sex of your life right now, with a fuck buddy you can make that happen. You are both there for the sex, so it is easy and legitimate to have conversations with the other person about the sex. You can talk openly about what you like and don’t like. You can express your preferences and kinks. You can even talk about your fantasies and secret sexual desires… and you can do all of this because ultimately if they are not into it, it does not matter. The whole coupling was always temporary anyway so you lose nothing by taking the risk of trying to make things amazing. I think that is the best part about it, you really can take risks with your fuck buddy, the kind of risks that you might hesitate to take with a long term relationship.

So with your fuck buddy, aim high! You might well get there.

Five reasons a fuck buddy is better than a girlfriend

EdBennett — Fri, 28 Aug 2020 16:10:36 +0000

28 Aug 2020 - 17:10 | Tags: girlfriend to fuck buddy, how to get the best sex

Finding a fuck buddy is one of the best things that one can do. They can change your life. Even if you are someone that has a good life, a fuck buddy can up your happiness and life game. Maybe you have a great job, a fantastic set of friends, a family that love you and are really nice to you… have someone you can booty call is the best thing ever. You may be thinking, ‘but I can get a girlfriend for that’ and you would be right to a degree, but you would be wrong to think that a girlfriend was anything near as good. Allow me to explain why as I lay out for you, the five reasons that a fuck buddy is better than a girlfriend.

A fuck buddy always puts out

With a girlfriend, there are a lot of other factors that are tied into the relationship. You have dates, dinners, family and friends. You are trying to fulfil each other’s needs emotionally as well as physically. You and your girlfriend also have to get each other's friends and families to like you, and you have to support the other through both careers and other big life processes… that can sometimes means that sex does not happen! It could be because of an argument or other stress factors, but it does happen! With a fuck buddy, they always put out. The purpose is for sex, you both want it, so you both get to have it. It is perfect.

You don’t have to do stuff you don’t enjoy

If your girlfriend loves going to see soppy films or the theatre and you hate it, you might find yourself sitting through things that you do not enjoy just to keep her happy. You do not have to do any of this with a fuck buddy, and your fuck buddy won’t mind! They will go and do the things they love that you hate with the people that also love it. You will both be happier for it!

It is cheaper!

Yes you heard me, it is cheaper! No longer do you have to wine and dine you hook up for the whole evening, you can get to the bedroom much quicker and without the rituals of restauranting. It is incredibly liberating.

A level of honesty that leads to better sex

The best way to have the best sex of your life is to be honest with the other person. Whilst there are times where the best thing to do is to fake it till you make it, the best long term strategy is to be honest about what you do and don’t like. As the focus is the sex, you can be frank with a fuck buddy sexually in a way that you cannot with a girlfriend. There is no fear that anything you suggest will result in your being judged. This is one of my favourite things about adult dating.

You can have more than one

What is better than one good thing? It is two! Whilst a girlfriend might get upset if you have more than one of them, a fuck buddy rarely will. They understand the ‘no strings attached’ nature of the relationship and they won’t throw your stuff out of the window if you decide to share your love with more than one person.

So there are my top 5 reasons that a fuck buddy is better ha a girlfriend. Whether you decide to go for a girlfriend or not is of course up to you, but I would strongly advise you try both before deciding.

Emotion and sex

EdBennett — Tue, 12 Dec 2017 20:17:46 +0000

12 Dec 2017 - 20:17 | Tags: emotions and casual sex, how to get the best sex

There are many things that drive us to have sex, and many things that will alter the quality and the intensity of the sex. It is about so much more than the actual act of having sex. It is about what it is happening underneath all of that, all the elements that come together to form your sexual experience go so much further than that of just the physical aspects.

Emotion is motion

One of the biggest elements that lie underneath it all is your emotion. Emotion is fundamental to how we connect with people, how we see the world, how we interact with the other humans that cross out paths. It is our emotional connection to people that make us want to see them, spend time with them, fuck them. Emotion is at the core of all of this, and for the most part we cannot control this aspect.

We don’t choose

We do not get to choose how we feel about people, for the most part. We can alter it, we can choose how we express that, but we do not get to make a logical choice about it. We just feel a certain way. So what I am going to talk about here, is what we do about it. How we can use it.

When you feel an emotion about someone, ride it

If you are available, either because you are single or you are in a friends with benefits situation that leaves you open to meeting other people, then if you find a strong emotion about someone you need to use it. If you see someone that you are attracted to, that you see and you think you would really love to fuck, you need to go over there and hit on them. You might think that this sounds scary, but I can assure you, if you are riding a genuine emotion, then you will find that the emotion itself will help to drive you. The other person will find it super attractive, for there is nothing sexier than being wanted. If your emotion is real, they will know it.

Emotional sex is the best

If emotion is behind everything, it stands to reason that it is also underneath sex too. The more emotional you are, the more you will “feel” when you are having sex. High emotions will cause a deeper experience, and a more connected sexual experience. So if the emotion is there, whether it is you or them, ride it (or ride them, or have them ride you etc!).

Boost your Bedroom Confidence

EdBennett — Sat, 21 Mar 2015 11:28:28 +0000

21 Mar 2015 - 11:28 | Tags: bedroom confidence, how to get the best sex

If you’ve ever worried about performing when you first have sex with someone new, this post is for you. There are simple ways to improve your confidence when it comes to having sex. All you have to do is try them out and see how it goes. The best way to start is by trying. If you don’t try you don’t learn. Take on board what we say and you’ll soon be sleeping next to the fuck buddy of your dreams satisfied that you have given them a night to remember.

Tips for success in bed
1. Watch some porn
Music to a guy’s ears right? Partly. Porn helps us indulge in sexual fantasy and primes us for sexual activity. You have to be careful not to let your porn habit go to your head – whacking off a dozen times a day is not necessarily healthy. But the casual and regular use of porn can go a long way to activating your libido in the bedroom.

2. Get to know your body
One of the best ways for someone else to know what you like in bed is for you to know what you like in bed. The best way to do this is to practice by yourself before you sleep with someone else. Knowing what you want and what you like is a great way to boost your confidence when asking a partner what you want them to do.

3. Dress to impress yourself
Even if this means wearing underwear you know you look good in even if no one else does, the feeling of specialness it creates will get you psyched up for sex faster than anything else. Don’t dress to impress someone else; dress to impress yourself. You’ll feel all the better for it sexually.

4. Big yourself up
We are our own worst enemy sometimes. Constant fears run through our heads like unwanted ants questioning our ability and skill. The best way to boost your confidence in this area is to talk yourself up. Do it in front of a mirror or to an empty room. Make yourself feel good by reminding yourself of how awesome you are.

5. Focus more on your pleasure
Stop worrying about what your fuck buddy is thinking; worry about your own pleasure. They’re more likely to have a good time if you’re having a good time.

The Best Sex Ever: How to get it

EdBennett — Mon, 27 Oct 2014 20:18:04 +0000

27 Oct 2014 - 20:18 | Tags: how to get the best sex

You know what they say about having good sex? You have to lose yourself to it totally. If you go in planning things like a military commander then any spontaneity will be lost. And spontaneity is essential to having the best sex ever. Here are a few ways to ensure a good encounter with your fuck buddy.

1. Girls: Keep your panties on
“A few months ago I kept my panties on and had my partner just move them to one side when he entered me. The way he pulled them aside caused them to rub on my clitoris which felt amazing!”

2. Boys: Set an alarm for 6am
“My partner once set the alarm clock for 3 hours before either of us had to get up. After she hit the button to turn the alarm off she started stroking my leg before eventually going down on me. It was the hottest sex I’ve ever had.”

3. Girls: Get a mirror and have your man fuck you doggy style in front of it
“We did it doggy style in front of my full length mirror standing up. Seeing our own expressions on each of our faces made us want it so much that we both came at the same time!”

4. Both: Have sex when other people are around
“We had sex at my friends’ house a while ago. The walls were paper thin and we could hear them making breakfast. We had virtually silent sex but the intensity and the fear of being heard or caught was so much that we had multiple orgasms.”

5. Girls: Keep your legs rigid and straight as he enters you
“This one time my boyfriend grabbed my legs and pointed them straight together just to the left side of his face. The tight entry felt amazing and I came so hard that I thought the bed was going to break.”

6. Boys: Let the girl go on top
“I love being on top and pinning my man’s arms over his head whilst I ride him. It’s so sexy to be in charge.”