Get good at sex – top three tasks

EdBennett — Thu, 17 May 2018 09:52:31 +0000

17 May 2018 - 10:52 | Tags: good in bed, good sex guide

There are certain things in life that we learn naturally without making effort in order to achieve them. No one really remembers having to try to learn to walk, or talk, but these are complex actions that require a lot of learning and co-ordination, yet we do them without thinking about them, and without considering the effort that went into the task of getting good at them.
Other things have to be learnt, but some people are naturals in different areas. Some people are naturally skilled at dancing or working with their bodies. Other people are naturally brainy, and do very well with tasks that require academic ability. Some people seem to always know where they can make the least effort and still get the highest reward… and this is a skill in itself!
Sex is something that should come naturally to us. It is hardcoded into our brains and our bodies, we have been doing it for thousands of years and who knows how many generations. I think that our bodies really do know what they want to do, and for the most part we can be guided by that, we should be guided by that. However, even the most “naturals” at something require a little practice to get good at whatever it is that they are doing.

The more sex that you have, the better you will get at it. It really is as simple as that. To good at driving, the more hours behind the wheel the better. The same is true for sex. The more hours that you spend having sex, the better you will get. There is no replacement for this.
However, there are ancillary tasks that you can do in order to help you be a better driver that you can do without being behind a wheel, such as studying the highway code, or reading up common mistakes, or even driving simulators on a computer. There are also things you can do to make you better in bed, that happen outside of the bedroom. Here are my top three tasks.

Kegel exercises

These are muscle strengthening exercises that work out the “sex” muscles. It is easy to do, I think everyone should be doing these. Healthy too!

Eating healthier

General health affects your sex drive and ability. Staying healthy makes a big difference to this, so try it!

Sleeping

Being tired is a sex killer. The more rested you are, the better you can perform. It really is as simple as that.

Remember, being better at sex is not only about being better for your partner. You will have a better time of it as well.

The 7 Signs that a sex partner is good in bed

EdBennett — Sat, 25 Oct 2014 11:11:25 +0000

25 Oct 2014 - 12:11 | Tags: good in bed

The stereotype of the perfect sex partner is usually the following:

- Good Looking
- Perfect body
- Willing to engage in whatever sexual fantasy you please

The truth of having someone who’s good in bed couldn’t be further from the stereotype. Your perfect sex partner might be tall, small, fat, thin, younger, older, hyper intelligent, a bit dim…none of those superficial things really matter. What actually matters is the amount of chemistry you have with them in the bedroom. So what are the signs we all look for?

1. He/She is clean
Sounds obvious but a clean body, no bad or strange smells down below and a well manicured look go a long way to turning most people on. The last thing we want is someone who has a weird body odour or who hasn’t cleaned their pubic regions.

2. Open to new ideas
Someone who’s willing to engage in new techniques, ideas and adventures is someone you want to hold on to. It could be whips and chains or a simple willingness to try anal.

3. They ace the Oral test
It’s surprising how many men and women underestimate the power of good oral sex and the power it can have on a sexual partner. If your woman treats your dick like it’s divine, flicking the tip with her tongue, using her hands and staring into your eyes as if you were the only thing in the world, then you’ve got a keeper. Similary ladies, if you can find a bloke who’s willing (and competently able) to spend more then 2 minutes treating your vagina like it’s the most exquisite wine ever then you might want to hold onto him for a bit.

4. They don’t rush you
Have you ever been with a really hot guy or girl who did all the right things sexually but for some reason it just didn’t satisfy you? There’s a good chance this person was rushing you to perform or putting pressure on you to do the same things they were doing to you. With a perfect sex partner you won’t be checking your watch or wondering how long you’ve managed to carry on.

5. You can go more then once a night
This sex partner is different to the previous sex partners. They make you want to fuck them again and again instead of just having one good throw and going to sleep.

6. They have a sexy shape that just gets you going
Contrary to what glamour mags would have us all believe, people are attracted to many different bodies. It means different things to all of us. Generally women who have ample breasts, full lips and a tight body are universally desired but very skinny and very voluptuous women are also highly sought after. Similarly men who are well toned and have a tight ass are generally desired but very skinny and very podgy and wrinkly men are highly sought after as well. Whatever the shape is that gets you going, don’t think twice about it.

7. They suggest new things to try
They don’t wait for you to bring some fantasy to the table because they’ve already made a list of their own. That’s a sex partner you want to hold onto.

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Get good at sex – top three tasks

Kegel exercises

Eating healthier

Sleeping

The 7 Signs that a sex partner is good in bed