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My best sex dream

EdBennett — Sat, 22 Sep 2018 17:18:49 +0000

22 Sep 2018 - 18:18 | Tags: sex fantasies, sexual fantasy, sex dreams

The “wet dream” is a long standing male tradition. Men having been having wet dreams for generations. It is not something that is discussed much, but they happen and they are usually completely outside of the control of the guy. You never know when you are going to have one. Whether you have been single for a long time, or if you have 2 fuck buddies in bed with you at that exact moment, it seems to make no difference to your ability to have a wet dream. The actual dreams themselves can be really fun. They can guest star fictional characters from tv and film that don’t exist, things can be totally out of proportion to how they are in reality, and orgasms can be stretched out and last for what seems an orgasmic eternity. Sex dreams can be the best. The only down side is the “wet” part at the end of a wet dream. It’s somewhat annoying to have to deal with when you awake.

Women can also have wet dreams, though they are not called wet dreams, which is strange as they are capable of getting just as “wet” if not more so than men are! Their dreams, just their male fuck buddy counterparts, are varied and exciting. Having spoken to a few ladies when researching this article, here is a small sample of some of their top rated sex dreams.

The woman, let us call her Jane, has a cock. Jane is still a women in all other respects, she just now has a fully functional and connected penis. She masturbates till she comes. She told me that she actually orgasmed in real life when she came in her dream, and that the orgasm was particularly intense. It has left her with a desire to know what it really feels like for a man when he comes.

The woman in this dream was in the form of a trapped bird in a bramble bush. The man, wondering through the forest sees the bird and rescues it. When he holds the now free bird in his hands, it turns back into the woman, where he promptly kisses her. Kissing leads to a lot more(!).

The woman works in a white-collar office environment. She is in a tight pencil skirt and a white blouse. She is working late leaving just her and her boss in the office, as the sun goes down he takes her into the meeting room and does her over the table. As she cranes her head backwards where she lies on the table, she can see the view of the city out of the glass windows from the 10th floor of the building. It was the most unexpected of hook ups.

Sex dreams are varies and joyful… but nothing beats the real thing. So if you don’t already have a fuck buddy, why not grab one and see if you can turn one of your fantasies into reality. You’ll be surprised at how willing a good fuck buddy can be.

Sex in the library

EdBennett — Tue, 12 Apr 2016 18:38:02 +0000

12 Apr 2016 - 19:38 | Tags: sex fantasies, sexual fantasy, best sex stories

There are many people that have a fantasy about having sex in places other than the bedroom. My instinct was to say sex in “unusual” places, but in reality I do not think that having sex outside the bedroom is actually that unusual a thing! I think that most people have done it elsewhere at least a few times, and I certainly feel that the more memorable sex sessions that people have had in their lives often include at least one encounter simply because it was somewhere that was a little unusual. So what is the appeal in sex elsewhere?

The Taboo

One of the key things is the Taboo of it. We spend most of our lives being “good”, obeying the rules, observing social etiquette and social protocol. Ensuring that our actions do not impose upon other people in any way – we focus on not causing a negative outcome for others but this always actually spills over to stuff that would turn out to be positive were we to have the gumption to go ahead and take action to do them despite socially conditioned reservations.

Having sex in a location that is any way a shared space breaks a taboo – and that is exciting! It is a little “dangerous” as there is the danger of a backlash/repercussion if you were caught. The greater the level of danger the more exciting it is.

If you have never had sex in a public place or outside the bedroom I suggest that you start by just doing it in a room other than the bedroom, for example the kitchen. This is a great stepping stone. You can ensure that no one else is around and that you are not going to be interrupted, so that danger is removed, but your inner sense of Taboo will still kick in and you will get the benefit of the excitement of the unusually had sex.

Being Bad

This is a huge thing! Emotion is what lends power to experience, it doesn’t matter if that emotion is “positive” or “negative”, simply that the presence of strong emotion brings power. Being bad brings with it strong emotion that can bring extra excitement, fun and a higher level of being turned on and therefore orgasm. Doing it outside the bedroom for a lot of people is super naughty, and therefore “bad”. Being bad is good!!

It becomes a clothes rippingly, animal like sexually charged session
When you have sex with someone in the bedroom, it has a certain feeling of being planned. When you have sex with someone in an unusual place what it says to the other person is that you want them so much that you cannot wait till you get them home. You want their body so badly, that instead you are forced by your desire for them to rip their clothes from their body and take them there and then despite the odd place. Expressing that much desire for another human being raises the sexual tension to such a high degree, that it cannot help but become anything other than a most charged of sexual encounters.

If you haven’t cashed in on this before, time to get involved. If you have and are looking for something fun to bring some extra kick – this is a great way forward. If you are the master of this – keep doing what you are doing – good job!!!

The demand for dominance

EdBennett — Mon, 22 Sep 2014 17:16:27 +0000

22 Sep 2014 - 18:16 | Tags: sexual fantasy, BDSM

There is something often not talked about in the world of dating and that is the demand for dominance. One top fantasy that women report to have is around the dominant man. Now to anyone who has seen the figures for the massive success of cheesy badly written 50 shades of grey, (which is now due to have a film adaptation to be releases next year in February) this is not going to come as a massive surprise.
What is a less well known is it is also one of men top fantasies! In general the fantasy to submit to someone sexual ranks as one of the top fantasy with both men and women. Throughout the world there are thousands of self-proclaimed dominatrix’s earning ridiculous amounts of money catering to these men desires in a safe environment and earning a small fortune whilst they are at it.
But one thing is for sure there is a massive demand for dominant partners and a pitiful small supply.

So why is this? Well there is a numbers of problem let me list a few here:

Being dominant is not as easy as it sounds
Being dominant may sound great you can make demands and your partner needs to fulfil them. You get to laze around as your slave looks after your every need. Well that is not the reality, this person is your lover not your slave, you are taking on this role because it is a turn on to them. Their fantasy is not to service your every need whilst you eat take away and watch the telly.
The fantasy can manifest in multiple ways, but in general as the one with all the power in the situation and all the responsibility. You need to keep it sexy and interesting. Keeping up the attraction often requires a lot of skill, staying calm, demanding things, being able to talk dirty. It’s not that easy.

The fantasy and the reality often jar
As much as dominance is a really big turn on for a lot of people, it’s actually rarely lends itself to a healthy relationship. Good relationships are mostly built on compromise and understanding. What is a turn on in the bedroom can be a complete turn off in real life.
Added to this flipping between these roles, friend and partner and dominant lover rarely works well. Often this is why people use sites like this, it allow them to have a great vanilla relationship with the partner and then have a dominant lover. There is a whole cuckold scene which caters to this need.
Just remember 50 Shades of Grey is considered domestic abuse and sexual assault by the BDSM community the reality is very different. There's nothing sexy about Stockholm Syndrome.