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Foreplay for your male Fuck Buddy

EdBennett — Thu, 21 Jan 2021 00:48:04 +0000

21 Jan 2021 - 00:48 | Tags: foreplay for men, foreplay

As much as we all feel like sex is the goal of all sex sessions, actually, the more foreplay that we have the better the sex is ultimately. It is the build up to the sex that means that we come harder than if we simply just had sex straight away. There are all the obvious things to do in the run up to sex: kissing, touching, stroking. If you have a male fuck buddy and are looking to be a little more creative however, here are some top tips of things you can do to help your man get excited just before you get down and dirty with him.

The striptease

Let your fuck buddy see you undress – but don’t let them do too much until the last item is off. Do it slowly and tease them with each item as it comes off your body. Sometimes leaving essential small parts covered, such as the nipples so all they can see is the side boob, is more sexually tantalising that revealing all. So go slow, take your time, and tease him with each item as it comes off.

Club style dance in the house

When you pull someone in a club, there is a lot of grinding and rubbing whilst the clothes are still on. When you get a fuck buddy back to yours this tends not to happen, but there can be a lovely slow turn on that you can bring to your home if you use the same slow build club technique. Put on some music, start dancing, and grind on each other lie you are in the club. Put a time limit on it as well, so you are not allowed to take it further until at least 3 or 4 songs have passed, that way you extend the build up until you are both super horny from it all.

Be bold – meet him naked!

If you are meeting outside first, either for some food or a drink, or even a walk, meet him naked! Get a long trench coat, pop it on with nothing else on underneath, then go to the meeting. Make sure that you tell your fuck buddy at some point that you are naked underneath the coat, but at a point where you can’t rush back to yours immediately, thus making them wait till you have finished your meal/drink/walk. It will drive them nuts!

So engage in some imaginative foreplay for some sexy fun!

Foreplay and your Fuck Buddy

EdBennett — Sat, 29 Aug 2020 14:29:26 +0000

29 Aug 2020 - 15:29 | Tags: foreplay, foreplay for men

The importance of foreplay cannot be underestimated. No matter who your fuck buddy is, you are going to want to orgasm and they are too. We all know that the orgasm can happen during sex and most of us want it to happen during sex. There is something quite special about orgasming at the same time as the other person, though this is rare and takes time and a lot of practice to get right… luckily practising sex is never a chore! The orgasm happens in the body, but the brain also makes a big difference to the build-up. The fuck buddy that you are with is important, but what they do is almost more important than who they are. The big question here is, do you engage in foreplay? If you do not then you are missing out on a deeper longer orgasm.

People who think that are engaging with foreplay

Do you like foreplay? Yeah sure I hear people say… but it is astonishing how different people’s perception of foreplay is. For some people, foreplay is kissing a bunch and waiting at least a couple of minutes before penetrative sex. In my opinion, whilst that is technically foreplay, it is not taking it anywhere near as far you need to in order to get the benefit of it. Sure, it warms you both up a little, but foreplay can build tension is a way that you cannot once you start having sex.

What real foreplay is

Real foreplay can take hours, and I am no joking! It is spending time building sexual tension with the other person, and that can start when you are not even with each other. Sexting the other person, reminding them of waits for them that evening or even seeing them for a kiss full of promise then leaving are all ways to start pushing the tension up. Then, when you are in person, going out and doing other things that delay the sex whilst at the same time making it clear that it is what you both want, can build the tension even more. Then finally, when you get into the bedroom, spending time bringing your partner towards orgasm without getting there is amazing. Use everything, your hands, your body, your tongue… by the time you have sex you are both already on the verge of popping! This is real foreplay, and the best way to have and keep a fuck buddy.

So you find you are spending little time on foreplay with your fuck buddy, try and devoting more time in the build-up. You won’t regret it.

Wanna hot things up in the bedroom - Play with heat!

EdBennett — Thu, 12 May 2016 13:03:33 +0000

12 May 2016 - 14:03 | Tags: foreplay for men, sex toys, sex games

When it comes to sex, it is all about the sensations. I am talking very specifically here for a moment about the physical act of having sex. I am not talking about the emotional side, the spiritual side or even the logical thought based approach. I am talking about the raw, primal pleasurable side of it. I am talking about when you want to fuck.

When you take this approach and all you want to do is really fuck the other person / be fucked, then we are talking about tapping into the primordial drive that lives inside all of us. It is about channelling that, and then removing all the barriers that we have built up that stop that from manifesting. All the social conditioning, all the sense of politeness and propriety, all the prim and properness with which we live our day to day lives. We take all of those things, and we either carefully place them to one side, or more likely we allow them to be pushed to one side by the raging river of desire that we have unleashed when we open the flood gates within us. We all have that waiting and we have all tapped it. So when you are with someone whom you want to achieve this with, how do you hot things up in the bedroom for them in order to help facilitate this? Consider playing with heat.

There are an unlimited number of things you can do in the bedroom, from adding sounds through the form of music or soundtracks, to the more direct approach of images through the watching of porn together. I am talking about a much less used factor – heat.

Playing with temperature changes can be extremely powerful when it comes to making the body respond to your touch... and this is the key to it. It’s not about having the overall temperature high or low, it is about changing the relative temperature against the skin. So for example, if you ever want to quickly bring a nipple to a more erect position, place a hold hand/touch on it and you will quickly see it go from soft to hard. The opposite is true for the penis! A very cold touch on the penis will make it shrink and retract!

The use of ice cubes in the bedroom is a great way to play with extreme temperatures and the changing of temperatures really quickly. The easiest way to counter this is to also have some candles lit and to hand. Not only do they add great mood lighting to the room, they also allow you to simply hold your hand over them for a few seconds and boom you have a warm hand with heated skin ready to be deployed where ever you would like to strike.

So play with temperature – you will find it can really heat things up if used correctly.

The Moves He Wants Before

EdBennett — Fri, 05 Sep 2014 15:35:26 +0000

5 Sep 2014 - 16:35 | Tags: foreplay for men

Over on F-Buddy UK we recently talked about the things women want men to do before sex. Foreplay is all part of the fun of having sex and without it sex becomes a bit stilted and dull. The anticipation can be as great if not greater than the act itself. Women get all the media attention and focus when it comes to talking about foreplay, but what about the men? Do we just want to have sex and dispense with foreplay? Not so according to a survey we did…

TOP MOVES A MAN WANTS A WOMAN TO MAKE
1. Touchy Touchy
Contrary to popular opinion men really like a woman to touch them all over and not just on their penis. Whilst it’s nice to get a decent hand job 78% of men surveyed claimed to enjoy it when a woman stroked their chest, back and legs a lot before sex. So much for the old stereotype…

2. Deep Breath
They say the air itself can be sensual…especially when you’re blowing ever so seductively onto a man’s body. This excites all his nerves and if you finish off by blowing on his penis before slipping it into your mouth he’ll be putty in your hands.

3. Lapdance
Even if you think you aren’t any good a sexy little dance ending with you in your underwear on a man’s lap will drive him wild. Don’t underestimate it.

4. Get closer
When you start making out don’t just use your lips - use every part of your body to embrace him. Run your hands down his body and grab his bum. The more aggressive you are the more wild and ready to go he’ll become.

5. Touch yourself
Keeping close eye contact with him start touching yourself. Massage your body through your clothes before you start peeling them off bit by bit. If you’re feeling self conscious ask him to tie a blindfold on you whilst you do it.

6. Soft moaning
In whatever act you’re undertaking already add to the moment by producing some soft moans and groans. These noises will only stimulate your man further before you’ve had sex and guarantee that he’ll be gagging for you before you’re next moan.

Remember these are just a few pointers on the kinds of things a man likes during foreplay. Trust us when we say: men really do like foreplay.