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Having sex for the first time with a fuck buddy

EdBennett — Mon, 25 May 2020 16:03:07 +0000

25 May 2020 - 17:03 | Tags: first time sex rules, sex on the first date

Everyone has a first time. It is not about how much sex you have after that, it makes no difference if you become the Casanova of your town, the Romeo to every girl around… that first time you have sex will always be remembered and always be a certain type of sex that you will never have again. Some people have the attitude that they want to have sex for the first time in a relationship that is really special, where there is a high chance of the relationship lasting. There is nothing wrong with this, the way that your lose your virginity is an entirely personal choice and I would encourage everyone to do what is right for them. What I will say, is that there are some big advantages to losing your virginity to a fuck buddy rather than someone that you are in a relationship with. To anyone that has yet to have sex for the first time, I would like to highly recommend it as an option. Here is my reasoning why having sex for the first time with a fuck buddy is a great idea.

Honesty about where you are at

For a lot of people, it is very hard to be sure that you are in a relationship that is going to last. There also comes a point where many people feel that they cannot progress the relationship without having sex. This can sometimes lead people to have sex under false pretenses. The lovely thing about having sex for the first time with a fuck is the honesty. You can be completely clear about where you are at emotionally and in terms of commitment. It is extremely liberating and can help to ensure that there is no “buyers remorse” afterwards.

Reduced pressure

There is a lot of pressure the first time that you have sex. Most of this is placed on us by ourselves, but we cannot help it. There is pressure to perform, pressure to “be good”, pressure to have a mind-blowing time whilst also rocking the other person’s world, pressure to go for a long time, pressure to come… the list is rather long! When you have sex for the first time with a fuck buddy, this pressure is removed. The extra level of honesty that is provided by the open nature of the relationship also means that there is a greater level of generosity. This can remove a lot of the pressure, causing you to have a much more positive experience.

A really great time!

With a fuck buddy, the focus is on the sex, not the relationship. This means that both of you are really looking at what will make the sex better. The first time you have sex you are feeling your way. This means that it will never be amazing. The honest conversations you can have with a fuck buddy about what is good/bad can quickly lead you to becoming a proficient lover and thus have a much better time in bed.

Having sex for the first time with a fuck buddy is a great choice. I highly recommend it.

Tips for sleeping with a fuck buddy for the first time

EdBennett — Tue, 31 Mar 2020 17:44:49 +0000

31 Mar 2020 - 18:44 | Tags: first time sex rules, fuck buddies, casual sex tips

Welcome to the fuck buddy website, the place we help you find a no string attached relationship. Adult dating has become more acceptable by society as time has gone on. In this time of social distancing and the Coronavirus, having someone that you can hook up with, without having to devote time and resources to outside of the bedroom, has become more important than ever. We all need sex, it is an important part of a healthy and happy life. However, we don’t necessarily need all the attachments that traditional society tells us come with that sex. If you want a relationship, you can have one, but you do not need to have a relationship to have sex. Having a fuck buddy or a friends with benefits relationship gives you all the bedroom time you need with none of the winning and dinning unless you want that part of it.

For some people, this is a new concept for them to get their heads around. Many people have been brought up indoctrinated to think that the relationship and sex go hand in hand. This is simply not true. The only way to break this is to do it. Once you have had your first successful hookup, once you have slept with your first fuck buddy, the shackles of your previous thinking drop away leaving you free to make the choices that are right for you.

For those of you who have never had a fuck buddy, it can seem like a daunting prospect. Fear not, it is easier than it feels right now. To help you out, here are my top tips for sleeping with a fuck buddy for the first time.

Put aside your expectations

You will go into any sexual meeting with expectations. Try your best not to. Put aside your preconceived notions about what your partner will or will not want. The thing that is most likely to be holding you back is a sense that it will go wrong, that it will not work out. Put that to one side and try and expect it to go well instead! Remember, they want to sleep with you as much as you want to sleep with them, so they want it to go as well as you do!

Fortune favours the bold!

They say you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. In the case of a fuck buddy, if there is someone you like, the only way to 100% guarantee that you will not have sex with them is to not try. If you try, it may not work out, but it also might! The only way to be sure is to try! So give it go. If you see someone, see if they want to hook up. Fortune favours the bold!

Use a condom

Always use a condom. The first time you sleep with someone, the best thing to do is to be safe. No matter what they say about whether they have been tested for STI’s or that they are on the pill… always use a condom. It is the only way to be sure.

Have fun! The first time you have sex with a fuck buddy is a night to remember.

Your first fuck buddy

EdBennett — Wed, 26 Feb 2020 20:52:35 +0000

26 Feb 2020 - 20:52 | Tags: first time sex rules, finding your inner fuck buddy

They say there is a first time for everything, and this is, of course, true! Your first steps, your first word, your first school, your first crush, your first kiss, and yes, even your first fuck. The first time that you have sex, it is never great. There is excitement and insecurity and a massive lack of skill and knowledge that is required to have objectively good sex. That being said, it can often be really special. The first time that you have a fuck buddy can be a similar experience.

When you are a virgin, you probably spent a long time thinking about sex before actually having it. You talked to your mates about it, you imagined it, you probably even took some tips from the internet. The same is true with a fuck buddy. The idea of having a no strings attached relationship can be very exciting. All the benefits of sex with none of the downsides that come with the long term relationship. Most people think about it, perhaps talk to their mates about it, probably look to the internet to find out more about it which may be why you are reading this article! Thinking is good, but nothing can happen until you take action.

Taking action to get your first fuck buddy can be daunting. Doing something new is often difficult as it involves stepping outside of your comfort zone. You have to take a bit of a leap of faith. Jumping in and trusting that there is everything to gain and nothing to lose by trying it. Once you have a fuck buddy, you will find out if it is for you.

For many people, one of the big nerves about having their first fuck buddy is whether it is “okay” to do it. Many people have been raised to think that sex should be in a monogamous relationship only. Getting over this in order to open the door to having something that is a booty call and nothing more can be hard. The only way to really prove it to yourself is to do it. After the first time you have sex with a fuck buddy, you will realise that everything is alright! The world has not ended, all that has happened is joy between two consenting adults.

If you have never had a fuck buddy, now is the time to give it a go. The first time you booty call someone (or are booty called by someone) is a very special moment. Like the first time you had sex you will always remember it.

Why having sex for the first time was never good, no matter what people protest!

EdBennett — Fri, 07 Sep 2018 15:51:07 +0000

7 Sep 2018 - 16:51 | Tags: first time sex rules, first time

We all like to talk about the first time that we had sex. It was a big turning point in our lives, the moment that we opened the door to a world of pleasure and ecstasy never before tasted. The first time that we had sex was a milestone in our journey to adulthood. It is something that we will usually remember fondly, and whilst we may not remember the specifics too closely, we are very likey to remember in detail the person, the situation, how old we were… all the factual details around it. We also are likely to look bac on in it and think we had a really good time the first time that we had sex. The reason for this is that after you had sex your friends would have asked you what it was like, and you would have said it was good. You may not remember what it was actually like, but you will remember what you said. Here is the surprising thing, the first time you had sex, it probably was not that good. You were lying to your friends and you are lying to yourself right now by saying that it was good. Let us examine the evidence.

The first time you have sex, you are nervous. It is new, you don’t know what is going to happen or how it is going to happen, so you are extremely unsure. The key to a superb orgasim is to relax, and stress is a pleasure inhibitor. If you are stressed out you are not going to have a good time. The first time, whether you like it or not, you were stressed out! This means you probably did not have a great time.

It takes time to get to know your own body and what you need to orgasm deeply, and without that you do not. Unless you masturbated a lot before having sex, you probably were not familiar enough with your own body in order to have a full orgasm.

You had nothing to compare it to – it was your first time! This means that you both did not know the best way to have sex, and when you said afterwards that you had a good time, you have no context to make that claim! You might have had the worst time ever, but you have no way of really knowing at all!

Your first time was probably not all that great… so now is the time to mak

The Sex Just gets better

EdBennett — Thu, 22 Sep 2016 10:27:00 +0000

22 Sep 2016 - 11:27 | Tags: first time sex rules, first time, sex is healthy

Do you remember your first orgasm – the first time you came? Maybe you do... and if you do it is likely that it was whilst you are alone. You were probably lying in bed having a wet dream and in a delightful explosion of sperm / fluid, you came. When you woke you weren’t quite sure what had happened, but you liked it. The other likely way was you had your first masturbation session. What you used whether picture, erotic fiction or likely just pure imagination doesn’t matter. You learned that you could make yourself feel a certain way, and it was pretty good! The one exception to this is if you are a girl and you rode horses through puberty... in which case you had your first orgasm whilst riding a horse, it was amazing, and at the least through your teenage years you loved horses to a near obsession level and wanted to do nothing but ride horses for your whole life.

Do you remember the first kiss you had? It was exciting, and scary and definitely a little weird. I mean the act and feeling was weird. The kudos you got from your friends from doing it was brilliant, but the actual kiss itself was a bit rubbish. I mean how could it be good? You were new to it, and you had no idea what you were doing... so you rode it out and as time when on it got better. YOU got better at it, because you were just doing it. That’s how you get good at anything.

Do you remember your first lay? The first time you actually had sex with someone? First times are rarely great. I know a few people who said it was “good” - but that is rare and I think that many of those people are exaggerating... heavily exaggerating! The first time was like the first kiss – but magnified by one hundred. Increased by a thousand. It was scary, you were super nervous, you had no idea at all what you were doing despite having talked about it loads with your friends and probably researched it and read about it. You probably had even seem pictures of it... but in the moment none of that helped. You again got applauded afterwards by your friends for making it happen, but the actual act itself wasn’t the mind blowing thing you had been led to believe that it was. It was... alright.

...but then it got better. A LOT better. I mean it became amazing! It just took some time and practice. It took you learning what you really like and what you don’t like. It took finding out how to make the other person come, and how to help them make you come, and when it all came together is a glorious explosion of, well, come it was all worth it.

The Sex just keeps getting better – as infact everything (overall) in terms of YOU keeps getting better over time. So keep doing it, living it and experiencing it, and your life can only be more joyful. Now go get laid.

First Time Sex: Guidelines for the Guys

EdBennett — Wed, 03 Sep 2014 09:46:50 +0000

3 Sep 2014 - 10:46 | Tags: first time sex rules

You know what it’s like when you have sex with someone new. You’re both excited but nervous at the same. A load of ‘what ifs?’ can have a terrible habit of causing a lot of mental discomfort that won’t be good for either party. Here on f-buddy it’s highly likely that you’re going to be having sex for the first time with several different people. So we thought it wise to come up with a short guide on the things you should avoid.

1. Silent yet Sensitive
Too much talking before first time sex can actually kill the mood. Limit your word count and see how much you can let your eyes and body do the talking.

2. Finger sensitive
The clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings. 8,000. If you’re jamming your fingers against it like sandpaper what kind of reaction do you think that’s going to illicit? Take it slowly and gently.

3. Kissing after oral
If she’s willing to give you a blow job and wants to kiss after you really have no right to say no. I don’t care how ‘icky’ you feel about having your own man jam taste in your mouth. You want more sex from this woman, then suck it up and kiss her right back.

4. Safety comes first
If you haven’t brought a condom to your first encounter then you’re a fucking idiot and deserve to be kicked out. Not only does packing condoms show your respect towards her, it shows that you have respect for yourself. Despite this basic lesson being hammered home again and again many first timers still do skin on skin action. If you want to catch an STD or be an unplanned parent go right ahead…otherwise sheaf up.

5. Don’t act like a porn star
It’s not clever or cool and you’ll look like a world class prick because guess what hot shot? You’re not a porn star and neither is she.

6. Performance Anxiety
We all know that the first time you have sex with someone things aren’t always going to go according to plan. You just don’t know enough about the other person’s body to guarantee 100% success. Our advice? Don’t stress. Just lie back go with with the flow and you’ll end up enjoying yourself a lot more.

7. Don’t forget to cuddle after
Okay so you might want to run to the bathroom and clean up straight away, but it’s best to let her snuggle into your arms for a bit and enjoy the afterglow of the sex you’ve just shared. Cuddling does not mean you’re about to commit monogamously. It just means you’re mutually enjoying the physicality of one another.