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The Fuck Buddy Apocalypse is here!

EdBennett — Fri, 30 Apr 2021 00:41:10 +0000

30 Apr 2021 - 01:41 | Tags: find a fuck buddy, best times for sex, find sex

The last year has seen a dearth of sexual opportunity across Ireland. The coronavirus pandemic has seen the closing of bars and pubs, the restriction of movement and meetings, and the lack of new people coming into the area or country. All of this has meant that the last year has been a harder time than ever to hook and meet a fuck buddy. It has still been possible, it is always possible to meet someone for sex, it is too much a part of out basic human needs to ever be something that is removed from our reach, but it has been harder. Now those times have ended or at least are ending, and we are entering a new era where the lack of opportunity is going to lead to a wealth and abundance of sex for the coming summer. I am calling it the fuck buddy apocalypse!

The fuck buddy apocalypse is going to be an explosion of sexual opportunities, and it is about to happen if it is not already happening by the time that you read this. It is not going to be obvious, it is not going to hit the headline news, and for those people that are not single and not looking for it, they are never going to even know that it is happening. However, for those people that are on the look out for it, this is going to be a summer like no other. Whether you are a guy or a girl, everyone who is single is going to be extra pumped to find someone this summer. Dating apps are going to be oversubscribed, the pubs are going to be full of people that want to meet other people, and the air is going to be rife with hormones. As the weather gets warmer and the sun of spring comes in, out natural body rhythms are going to drive everyone to want to have more sex than at any other time of the year, and with the previous drought period, it will be crazy. The fuck buddy apocalypse is coming, and you want to be ready to take advantage.

So how do you take advantage? Firstly, don’t let the recent COVID-19 issues have left you unable to have good sex. That means getting some movement and exercise in the coming months. Have a body that is ready to have sex. The second thing is to take action. Go out and meet people, sign up to adult dating sites like this one, and have your meet ups planned in advance. The third bit of advice? Have fun!

Enjoy the fuck buddy apocalypse whilst it is here. It will pass.

Start having sex earlier for a better time

EdBennett — Mon, 15 Jan 2018 22:16:49 +0000

15 Jan 2018 - 22:16 | Tags: best times for sex, sex o'clock, sex in the daytime

When you go out on the razzle, there is always an instinct to finish up late. You go out, you get some food, you get some drinks, you go dancing… if you see someone you like often you will decide to wait for a whilst before doing something about it. It feels like it is easier to hook up with someone the later it gets. In some ways you are right, people get more drunk and thus are more open and interested in hooking up with someone… but if you are looking to go all the way, if you are looking to take someone home with you for a no strings attached night of fun, then you may be better off starting earlier in the night. Here is why.

Earlier in the night, people are more likely to come home with you

If you are want to take someone home, then later in the night is harder. Transport is more difficult to get hold of, any time spent out side in the colder air could put the person off and remind them to just go home instead. Even psychologically, it feels more dangerous the later it gets in the day. It generally feels more like there might be something dodgy, which makes people less trusting and brave. Whereas earlier in the night, the extra confidence and good feeling can manifest in a great chance of them wanting to come back to yours with you.

The sex is better

There are no two ways about this. The sex is better. Earlier in the night you have more energy, you are less tired, and you are more sober and ready to rumble! Alcohol whilst it may make you want to have sex more, it also reduces your ability to perform. You are less likely to orgasm fully if you are a little drunk, and so much more less likely if you are a lot of drunk! The extra sobriety is a good thing – trust me!

Less likely for buyers remorse

When someone comes back to yours late, whether they feel it or not, they are going to use the excuse of it being late to increase the chances of feeling buyers remorse. How this affects you is that they are so much less likely to want to come back to yours a second time. Now there is no problem with this, but I think it is always nice to have that as an option that you get to decide rather than relying on them, don’t you think?

So if you are planning on hooking up on a night out, consider making your moves earlier in the night rather than later in the night. You will find that you do a lot better over all.

Why break up sex is amazing

EdBennett — Fri, 28 Oct 2016 17:45:15 +0000

28 Oct 2016 - 18:45 | Tags: breaking up, breakup sex, best times for sex

No one likes to break up with someone else or be broken up with by someone else. It is as simple as that. Everyone can get that being dumped sucks, and that it hurts and is a mightily painful experience all around. However, most people don’t consider that this flows both ways. The person doing the break up has to go through a difficult process to reach that decision, then they have to really man up to make the break up happen, and then no matter the reasons they did the break up, they still share the feeling of loss on some level. On some part of their inner workings they too have lost a person from their life, from their sphere of being and existence. They will no longer see and hang out with someone that they have been intimate with, and let’s not underestimate the power of that intimacy. Even in the most clear of fuck buddy set ups, even when everyone knows that it is casual, that there are no strings attached and that the friends with benefits rules apply, even then a parting can be difficult on both sides. This is where break up sex comes into play, in all its glory.

Break up sex is amazing, and the actual sex itself can be some of the best sex that you have ever had, ever. If you haven’t done it, you need to get in on this action because damn it is really good. It has all of the elements that make up the best sex you could have:

It is emotional:

Having a strong emotion is key to great sex. The emotion doesn’t actually have to be positive or negative, it just has to be strong. Break up sex has extremely strong emotions when you have it. This fuels the passion.

The last time effect:

This is the last time you will ever have sex with this person. Ever. This means when you do it, you really do it. You fuck hard and with all the effort and strength you can muster, because it is the last time. You really make the most of each thrust and you savour each rush of pleasure.

It’s a huge release:

The tension is high, the air is tight with the break up – sex is the best tension release ever, and because you both need that release it happens together making it even more powerful, and the sex even better.

It’s a great way to end things

If you are going to finish, may as well finish whist coming. I highly recommend break up sex to anyone planning a split of any kind. It is amazing.

It is always awkward the first time: Feel the fear and do it anyway

EdBennett — Sat, 13 Feb 2016 11:05:56 +0000

13 Feb 2016 - 11:05 | Tags: anal sex for beginners, best times for sex

Recently I had a friend of mine, (well actually an F-buddy f mine) talk about one her friends that doesn’t want to tell his f-buddy that he likes her. What he said was that it feels uncomfortable to say it, so even though he feels it he doesn’t want to say it. This got me thinking – everything is uncomfortable the first time, you just have to push through and do it anyway! Let me expand on this.

Back when you were a wee little person and completely new to girls/boys, if you liked someone even talking to them felt uncomfortable. Eventually you got over it, but the way you got over it was that eventually someone or some situation pushed you into talking to the opposite sex. It was super uncomfortable the first time, but then after you did it the next time is was less so until it became normal.

Your first kiss – if you remember it – was guaranteed to be awkward! I would bet money that you as a reader had a not so great slightly uncomfortable first kiss. How do I know this? Because until you have done it – or course it is awkward! Once you have “done it anyway” only then can you move on with starting to really enjoy kissing and getting good at it.

Your first fuck – damn this was awkward! Of course it was! You were all nervous and fumbling around. You knew what you were supposed to be doing (kinda) but it was all theory and no practice. Your body new it wanted to have sex and do it, but you didn’t understand the mechanics so of course it felt odd... and here comes the key thing – you did it anyway! You pushed through and now you are a sex god! You know how to have sex and you are ready to dispense the blessing of your touch to all that wish to receive it – as long as they are hot enough. You would never have reached this unless you had pushed through and just done it anyway the first time.

What I am trying to remind you of is that you have already done this a bunch of times and felt the benefit. You have already felt the fear and done it anyway and your life is better for it. So if there is something that you want to try with your sexual partner but are a little too nervous of approaching it because it feels awkward, then get over it. Feel the fear of it, then do it anyway. You know that it will work out for you.

The best times to have sex

EdBennett — Mon, 18 Aug 2014 09:37:45 +0000

18 Aug 2014 - 10:37 | Tags: best times for sex

Are you an after dark sexual deviant or do you prefer a morning sexual alarm call? It’s amazing how varied we all are in what times we like best to have sex at. Personally I like sex at any time, but I do admit to enjoying a good morning romp before getting up for work or going out somewhere.

Let’s look at the varied views and opinions on this.

1. Best time to have a mind bending orgasm if you’re a woman
According to a lot of research that’s been done at various Universities and sexual health clinics the best time for a woman to have a powerful orgasm is right before her period! Blood accumulation makes the uterus heavy which makes contractions more perceptible. In addition the labial and clitoral tissue gets more sensitive as it retains more fluid. So if you want a mind blowing orgasm as a girl, wait just before your period.

2. Best time for sex to last longer
When there is no pressure on either of you to be somewhere else. This can be anything from holidays to weekends or even after work. If you want longer lasting sex then you need to be assured that neither of you are in a rush to be somewhere else. It calms you both down and ensures that you can take your time.

3. Right after you exercise
A session down the gym has your endorphin levels already flowing at a high level which is the best time to engage in sex. You’re already feeling flooded with good feelings and a long hard fuck will make you feel even better.

4. In the middle of the night
It’s easy to get complacent, even with casual sex. Set your alarm to go off at 4 in the morning and start having some early action whilst most of the world is asleep around you. Nothing can be more arousing sometimes.

5. In the morning
Whilst women aren’t always up for a morning session, men like nothing better then to get their fuck on before getting up. For one thing we’re already hard as a result of biology, and for another it has perks for the woman as well. The sex is more intense and the chances of bringing you off are high!

6. When you’re busy
Sounds counterintuitive, but having sex when you’re overloaded can be just the stress relief you need. Nip out at lunch for a quick hook up and you’ll be surprised by how refreshed you feel in the afternoon.