Sex in the library

EdBennett — Tue, 12 Apr 2016 18:38:02 +0000

12 Apr 2016 - 19:38 | Tags: sex fantasies, sexual fantasy, best sex stories

There are many people that have a fantasy about having sex in places other than the bedroom. My instinct was to say sex in “unusual” places, but in reality I do not think that having sex outside the bedroom is actually that unusual a thing! I think that most people have done it elsewhere at least a few times, and I certainly feel that the more memorable sex sessions that people have had in their lives often include at least one encounter simply because it was somewhere that was a little unusual. So what is the appeal in sex elsewhere?

The Taboo

One of the key things is the Taboo of it. We spend most of our lives being “good”, obeying the rules, observing social etiquette and social protocol. Ensuring that our actions do not impose upon other people in any way – we focus on not causing a negative outcome for others but this always actually spills over to stuff that would turn out to be positive were we to have the gumption to go ahead and take action to do them despite socially conditioned reservations.

Having sex in a location that is any way a shared space breaks a taboo – and that is exciting! It is a little “dangerous” as there is the danger of a backlash/repercussion if you were caught. The greater the level of danger the more exciting it is.

If you have never had sex in a public place or outside the bedroom I suggest that you start by just doing it in a room other than the bedroom, for example the kitchen. This is a great stepping stone. You can ensure that no one else is around and that you are not going to be interrupted, so that danger is removed, but your inner sense of Taboo will still kick in and you will get the benefit of the excitement of the unusually had sex.

Being Bad

This is a huge thing! Emotion is what lends power to experience, it doesn’t matter if that emotion is “positive” or “negative”, simply that the presence of strong emotion brings power. Being bad brings with it strong emotion that can bring extra excitement, fun and a higher level of being turned on and therefore orgasm. Doing it outside the bedroom for a lot of people is super naughty, and therefore “bad”. Being bad is good!!

It becomes a clothes rippingly, animal like sexually charged session
When you have sex with someone in the bedroom, it has a certain feeling of being planned. When you have sex with someone in an unusual place what it says to the other person is that you want them so much that you cannot wait till you get them home. You want their body so badly, that instead you are forced by your desire for them to rip their clothes from their body and take them there and then despite the odd place. Expressing that much desire for another human being raises the sexual tension to such a high degree, that it cannot help but become anything other than a most charged of sexual encounters.

If you haven’t cashed in on this before, time to get involved. If you have and are looking for something fun to bring some extra kick – this is a great way forward. If you are the master of this – keep doing what you are doing – good job!!!

What’s the best sex you’ve ever had?

EdBennett — Fri, 27 Jun 2014 08:00:00 +0000

27 Jun 2014 - 09:00 | Tags: best sex stories

Everyone, everywhere at some point has had this question bounce around their head. It can be equally fun and ridiculous to think about. It’s surprising the amount of people who lie about it as well (usually so as not to offend or upset a current or ex lover)

It is a hard question – in both senses of the word – for all our members to figure out. I actually tried to think of my best time when pondering the question and I admit to being a little stumped. There have been some great experiences for me and ones that like most people I would rather forget. It’s difficult to choose a favourite. So what I’ve done is collate a short list of my own top sex experiences to inspire you to create some more of your own.

My Top Sex Experiences
1. The Underground Entry
I was in an underground bar in London with my girlfriend at the time. She was a little tipsy and kept leaning in (so none of our friends around us could hear) whispering “I just want to suck your cock!” I laughed and went to the loo a few minutes later (just to go to the loo) and found her waiting outside when I came out. She pushed me back into the toilet (the gents was a separate single unit which had a lock but gaps at the top and bottom which was weird) unzipped my flies and immediately set to work. She always gave an amazing blow job but this was better then normal as I was genuinely terrified we were going to be caught by someone – if nothing else someone waiting to use the toilet. After a while I pulled her up, kissed her and then undid her trousers, pulling down her knickers before turning her around, leaning her against the sink and entering her from behind. The risk factor made the experience one of the best and most memorable I’ve had. I still get hard whenever I think about it…excuse me a moment…

2. Party Time
This was a one night stand (though neither of us knew it at the time). I had taken this girl along with me to a friends’ party. I had fancied her for ages but despite several close encounters nothing had happened yet. After everyone had gotten too drunk and either gone to bed or passed out in another room, it was just the two of us left alone. She said she’d sleep on the chair. I told her to stop being so ridiculous and told her she could sleep on the sofa with me. With her spooned up against my chest after a while I reached around and started stroking her hand. She reciprocated and this went on for a good few minutes. Our skin was so sensitive to one another’s touch that we could both feel our hearts pounding – something was going to happen it was now just a question of when. Eventually I had enough, pulled her round to face me gently and kissed her. The kissing grew more aggressive and we started biting each other. My hands were down her back, on her arse (she had such a nice pert bum) and then in her knickers stroking her pussy. She got so wet that her knickers got soaked. I had to take them off before throwing her on her back and entering her deeply right there on my friend’s sofa. I hadn’t even taken off her top or bra and to this day still don’t know what her breasts looked like. A pity, but she was so hot and sexy that I really don’t care. It wasn’t the most satisfying sex I’ve had – we were both drunk – but it was one of the most electrifying experiences I’ve had.

3. Fair Cop Guv
Second date sex? Fine by me! I’d met this pretty blonde girl online funnily enough but didn’t realise she lived so far away from me at the time. She was an ex-copper turned teacher (that’s 2 fantasies rolled into one hot woman!) When we’d both figured it out we decided to meet up anyway as we’d been chatting for a while. It was clear after the first coffee that we wanted to meet up again. So I went down to see her the following weekend. She wasn’t ready to go out when I arrived and was still in her dressing gown and hair curlers. Embarrassed that she wasn’t ready, I smiled and kissed her straight away – I wanted her to know that I didn’t care and that I though she looked sexy anyway. We actually made it to the cinema and back without ripping one another’s clothes off but the moment we got back to her flat and into the bedroom I began massaging her breasts under her pyjama top. Her nipples got so hard and her breathing so deep that it just turned me on even more. I went down on her for nearly half an hour – she was completely bald down below which turned me on even more (no pubic hair to pick out of my teeth) and we had this amazingly long and passionate sex session which ended up with both of us passing out limbs all over each other. The following morning she woke me up with a handjob, ordered me to get a condom and pulled me up to enter her from behind whilst we were lying down. That was hard, fast, intense and we both came at the same time – something which is really hard to do when you don’t know someone that well.

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Sex in the library

What’s the best sex you’ve ever had?