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After almost two (2) years of drought, sex is easier to find

EdBennett — Sun, 20 Feb 2022 23:05:05 +0000

20 Feb 2022 - 23:05 | Tags: having sex when depressed, easy sex pickings

The covid-19 pandemic was devastating to our way of life. Businesses closed, social gatherings were banned, and you could only meet up in limited numbers. It was a tough time for all involved and the reduction in our interactions did not just end with an inability to be able to go to for a drink, it also had a huge impact on the number of sexual partners we were meeting.

People reduced the amount of sex they were having for a number of reasons. In many cases, this was caused by an inability to meet lots of other available people face to face. With the social gathering places shut down and the difficulty in finding other people raised, there were simply fewer people available in our “pool” that we might reach out to and connect with. This was then made worse by other facts. Covid has a depressive effect on the mental health of the population as a whole, to a greater or lesser extent depending on the individual. When we do not feel good our libido is generally reduced. No matter how much we like sex, stress kills desire. Depression and other mental illnesses reduce it. So the population as a whole were less driven to have sex.

There was also the issue of infection. As we became used to being warry of contact with others for fear of catching covid, this spilt over into a hesitation to be intimate with others as well. Sharing ones body with another became a risk that some of the population were unwilling to take. These people removed themselves from the sexual pool entirely, further reducing the number of people that were available as potential fuck buddies.

Times are finally changing. It remains true that covid is still an ever-present factor in our lives. It remains real, something that can still cause huge problems and poses a danger to the health and wellbeing of all the population, but particularly those that are more vulnerable. However, now things are finally settling, we are coming out of a sexual drought. This means that people are going to be keener than ever to meet other partners. They are going to be driven to find a fuck buddy stronger than they were previously.

So, if you were thinking of trying to find someone, now is a perfect time. After two (2) years of sexual drought, there are a lot of thirsty women and men out there.

Feeling lonely? Feel a fuck buddy!

EdBennett — Thu, 26 Sep 2019 17:27:48 +0000

26 Sep 2019 - 18:27 | Tags: make it happen, feel like a fuck, having sex when depressed

Life is far from perfect. There are always ups and downs to everyone’s lives. There are times when things are good and times when things are bad. That is the nature of things. In some parts of our lives this is easy to measure. In work, you can look at how much money you are earning and use that as a yardstick. With your family you look to see how often you are invited to things or called on the phone, then think about how much fun and joy you take in the company of your loved ones and base it on that. When it comes to relationships, the easy currency to measure things by is sex.

Generally, the more sex you are having, the better your romantic relationships are. You can be having less sex and still be in a great place, but if you are not frequently sleeping together, then you also might be in a worse place. If you are having a lot of sex, then you are highly unlikely to be in a bad place. People who are getting on with their partners do not have lots of sex! In fact, sex is one of the first things to drop away in the event of things turning sour.

This means we all have times in our lives where we lack sex. This could be because we are not sleeping with our partners, or it could be because we are single. This can lead to feelings of inadequacies and loneliness. This in turn can reduce your libido, removing the drive to have sex, further perpetuating the problem. The answer? Don’t feel lonely, feel a fuck buddy instead.

You are not alone. There are a large number of people of the appropriate gender and sexual orientation who are looking for you just as much as you are looking for them! They are feeling lonely too and are waiting for someone like yourself to come and solve their issues. Finding a fuck buddy means both of you are serviced with the sex that you need to pull yourself out of these feelings of loneliness. Once you are sleeping with each other, both of you will find that your libido increases, your desire to seek sex will drive you out of your loneliness. If you are in a relationship, your fuck buddy will help you find your mojo again so that you can bring that back to the bedroom to the benefit of both you and your partner.

If you are feeling lonely, stop. Feel a fuck buddy instead.

Is it a good idea to have sex when you’re feeling low?

EdBennett — Thu, 05 Jun 2014 14:44:28 +0000

5 Jun 2014 - 15:44 | Tags: having sex when depressed

One word answer: Yes.

End of post.

Only kidding!

That was a very flippant and lazy response to an awkward question.

Vulnerability
The one consistent thing that always happens when you’re not feeling 100% is that you feel vulnerable. Being physically and/or emotionally exhausted means that you’re more open to suggestion then you usually are. When it comes to sex this can lead you in strange directions. It’s a bit like when you’re a student for the first time and you have this sudden freedom with low to no consequences. All of a sudden casual sex becomes an easy way to feel wanted.

Is this a good thing?

Well, it can be (which is why I flippantly said ‘yes’ to the question earlier). Just because you’re having sex with someone who isn’t a boyfriend/girlfriend/husband or wife doesn’t mean that it is bad for you. From a physiological perspective sex is an excellent way to increase the endorphin count in your bloodstream making you feel instantly better and more relaxed. From an emotional perspective…it really does depend on the kind of partner you’ve chosen to have sex with.

If you have sex with someone who is fun and easy going, then the chances are you’re going to enjoy the sex whole heartedly with no issues. If you have sex with someone who is as low and vulnerable as you, then you might have a problem. Having sex with someone like this can lead to increased emotional problems for the both of you. You’re both feeling low and you both will have a tendency to start asking internalised questions that are no good; What does this mean? Does he/she want more because I’ve just slept with them?

You might also start regretting sleeping with the other person. This is bad as it can lead to feelings of guilt and hurt for both parties.

Recommendation
Having casual sex when you’re feeling low 9 times out of 10 can be a very healthy and fun thing to do. However you have to choose your partner carefully. Make sure you pick someone who is in a good place emotionally. Make sure they’re fun and can help show you how to have a good time with a minimum of worry and awkwardness. If you have any doubts about the mental state of the person you’re about to have sex with, then our recommendation is to never go through it. You’ll only end up feeling worse and possibly making the other person feel worse.