Get Kinky this Christmas!

EdBennett — Fri, 14 Dec 2018 18:49:47 +0000

14 Dec 2018 - 18:49 | Tags: Christmas makes women hornier, no sex at Christmas, alone at Christmas

Christmas is coming, and there has never been a better time to make someone come! The holidays provide lots of time to get down and dirty, and the dark days with twinkly lights only makes everyone look that little bit sexier. Dark, mood lighting makes everyone more attractive. The early sunset also means the night starts early, so you can booty call a fuck buddy much earlier than you might usually. It is also a great excuse to do something different, to mix it up a little. Why not give your fuck buddy something a little special this Christmas by getting a little kinky in the bedroom? You can do this in so many ways. In this article, I would like to take you through a few tips to make sure that you and your fuck buddy have a Christmas to remember.

Sex under the Christmas tree

There is something intrinsically kinky about having sex outside the bedroom. The more taboo, the more people feel like they are pushing things. Push it too far, and you will be too stressed out to be able to have a good time, but it is easy to take yourself a little out of your comfort zone to the benefit of you and your fuck buddy. My top tip, have sex under the Christmas tree. If you can decorate the tree together first, then get “distracted” and end up ripping off each other clothes in a way that feels completely spontaneous that would be ideal. After that, any time you are around the tree, you will remember the session you had, which will trigger more sex later in the holidays.

Give a kinky gift

Giving gifts is traditional at this time… so why not give a gift that will benefit you both? Gifting a sex toy of some kind is a great way to invite the other person to come and use it with you. An easy thing to go for is a pair of Christmas fur handcuffs! It is a sure winner and comes with the playful, fun get out that it can be considered a joke if it is not welcomed warmly. You can go further of course and may be surprised at how a vibrator or even something a little stronger may be warmly received.

In transit booty call

You may find that with a fuck buddy, you are both busy with family etc on Christmas day. However, this often involves travelling from one place to another, perhaps going from the house to a family house for dinner, or starting the morning with one family then moving to see someone else later. If this is the case, why not see if you can arrange a sneaky booty call with your fuck buddy in between without telling anyone? The sneaking around will only make it more fun.

The Christmas Hook Up – Don’t worry if you haven’t got one

EdBennett — Wed, 25 Dec 2013 09:00:00 +0000

25 Dec 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: alone at Christmas, no sex at Christmas

If you’re reading this today – Christmas Day – then you either

a) Haven’t got a casual hook up planned for today.
b) Are desperate to evade the awkward family day of arguments, awkward questions and have hidden in front of your computer or phone
c) Are bored
d) All of the above

Christmas is always a holiday that splits emotions down the middle. Especially when it comes to sex and dating. For me the worst part are the thousands of advice columns, websites, magazine and more all harping on about how we should all be enjoying Christmas sex like it’s going out of fashion. Now yes, this is an adult dating site. And yes we encourage all our members to go out and hook up with each other in a safe and responsible manner where possible. And yes, we are sometimes just as guilty as those thousands of advice columns, dating sites and magazines for making you feel guilty and lonely just because you don’t have a partner or fuck buddy right now.

At least we’re honest about it.

But what if you don’t actually need a partner to enjoy some Christmas sex with?

Go it alone
Sex is great when it’s with someone you connect with. We encourage all our fuck buddy’s to have sex with another member they actually like and fancy rather then with someone who just wants to have sex for the sake of it. Personally that kind of sex is never much fun. Feel free to prove me wrong members…but I doubt you will.

In any case what if despite your best efforts, you’ll be spending Christmas Day fending off the intrusive questions from friends and family, the classic being ‘So how’s your love life? Have you met anyone special?’

“No Aunty Molly, I haven’t found anyone special, and to be honest even if I did you wouldn’t be the first person I’d share it with as let’s be honest, it’s none of your business and I’d really like it right now if you’d just fuck off and leave me alone. Okay?”

You can avoid this by simply removing yourself from the situation. Now I know everyone has commitments at Christmas, but just because you don’t have a partner or fuck buddy to hand, doesn’t mean you can’t make your own sex fun for today.

Masturbate
This is still treated with the same disdain Catholic schools drummed into the thousands of sexually repressed adults walking around in the world today. But it is one of the best ways to relieve some excess stress. So if you can find some time to enjoy yourself without being interrupted by an annoying family member or friend. Christmas is your time too.

Write down 5 sex positions that you want to try in 2014
A bit like a New Year’s resolution, but this is a great way to get your mind primed for searching for someone new and keeps you open to new possibilities. It’s much healthier then just getting drunk and being miserable.

Positive reinforcement - Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you are a good attractive person
Again this is a good way to gain a measure of yourself and how you think other people see you. A lot of people don’t like looking at their own reflection, but you need to do this to remind yourself that you are a good person, are attractive and can get a partner or fuck buddy any time you want. Positive reinforcement works best when other people are doing it to you, but to be truly effective you have to start by believing it yourself. A useful exercise at any time of the year, this can be especially useful at Christmas.

Write down 5 things about yourself that you like
If you like them, someone else will too as people pick up on the passion and confidence you have when you talk about what you like.

So remember, if you’re by yourself this Christmas it doesn’t have to be a total bust. Just take a deep breath, and maybe try some of the suggestions I’ve made.

Happy Christmas!

F-Buddy.com - no sex at Christmas

Get Kinky this Christmas!

Sex under the Christmas tree

Give a kinky gift

In transit booty call

The Christmas Hook Up – Don’t worry if you haven’t got one