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Hooking up in Ireland this Christmas

EdBennett — Sat, 24 Dec 2022 07:54:27 +0000

24 Dec 2022 - 07:54 | Tags: Christmas makes women hornier, Christmas sex, alone at Christmas

Christmas in Ireland is such a lovely time to be there. The lights come out, the pubs have more people in them, everyone is in a better mood. Christmas is also a great time to find a fuck buddy in Ireland. Why and how you might ask? Well all me to explain it to you.

More people want to find a fuck buddy during this time

At Christmas we are bombarded with pictures of people having a great time, Christmas films about people finding other people to sleep with, the whole kissing under the mistletoe thing suddenly comes out in force. Christmas is a time of being inside, in the warm and having sex, whether we talk about it or not that is part of the Christmas package. This means that if you are currently not having sex you become more aware of it. You find yourself surrounded by people walking around holding hands and making obvious public displays of affection to each other. This is in the context of billboards and adverts which push the whole “couple” thing really hard at Christmas. This means that people are more insecure. They are made more aware of their singleness and it is not healthy at a general level… but it is helpful on a motivational level. People are generally more motivated to want to find a fuck buddy. This means that it is easier to do so!

There is more opportunity

The opportunities to then go and meet people also increases. We discussed last month a little about how it can be a numbers game to some degree, but that this is not the be-all and end-all of the matter. In this case, there are more numbers. This is partly driven by more people being open to hooking up. This is also driven by more people being in the same place! If you go to Dublin on or about the 8 December, all the rural-dwelling hot girls and guys are there doing their Christmas shopping. You have a choice. You can go to Dublin to shop for things or you can go to Dublin and shop for a person! Meeting someone on the street or in a shop is very real and happens much more than you think it might, and that could be you!

So if you are single at the moment, take advantage of this easy time to hook up and, well, hook up!

Find a fuck buddy for Christmas

EdBennett — Wed, 25 Nov 2020 14:19:57 +0000

25 Nov 2020 - 14:19 | Tags: Christmas sex, alone at Christmas, Christmas makes women hornier

Today, the 25th November 2020, we are exactly one month away from Christmas. It is coming around fast and will be here before you know it! Christmas is a great time. Friends, family, food and hopefully someone to fuck at the end of it! We all want someone to kiss under the mistletoe, even if it is just for that night, and there is nothing wrong with a Christmas hook up. Many people will be actively searching for something more at Christmas, a relationship rather than a friends with benefits set up. I am here to tell you that at Christmas time you are much better off finding a fuck buddy than a full-time relationship. Allow me to explain why.

At Christmas time not having someone to have sex with seems worse than a lot of the other times in the year. Most of the year if you happen to have a dry spell it is not a big deal. You have plenty of other things happening and going on, and you have time to still find someone and make it happen. However, at Christmas time you end up spending time with a lot of couples whether you want to or not. This means that being “single” at this time brings on accentuated feelings of loneliness. So what difference does this make to whether you are looking for a hook up or a full time relationship you may ask?

The issue becomes one of sustainability. When you are in the Christmas vibe and you are just looking for someone to fill the gap, people make poor choices about who they get together with. In the context of a relationship, this can mean “committing” to someone that is just not right for you, someone who happens to just be there. The problem with this is that you then spend the next 6 months trying to make something work because you thought that it was what you wanted and that there was real vibe when really it was just a little Christmas magic that quickly fades.

Instead, if you aim to find a fuck buddy or get together on a no strings attached basis none of these problems occur. You can have just as good a time when you are together but when the ‘Christmas spirit’ fades you both understand what has happened and where you stand and no one minds! You both have a fucking great x-mas and then you also get to have a great rest of the year without any of the long term issues or fall out.

So this Christmas find a fuck buddy because remember, a fuck buddy is just for Christmas and not for life!

Get Kinky this Christmas!

EdBennett — Fri, 14 Dec 2018 18:49:47 +0000

14 Dec 2018 - 18:49 | Tags: Christmas makes women hornier, no sex at Christmas, alone at Christmas

Christmas is coming, and there has never been a better time to make someone come! The holidays provide lots of time to get down and dirty, and the dark days with twinkly lights only makes everyone look that little bit sexier. Dark, mood lighting makes everyone more attractive. The early sunset also means the night starts early, so you can booty call a fuck buddy much earlier than you might usually. It is also a great excuse to do something different, to mix it up a little. Why not give your fuck buddy something a little special this Christmas by getting a little kinky in the bedroom? You can do this in so many ways. In this article, I would like to take you through a few tips to make sure that you and your fuck buddy have a Christmas to remember.

Sex under the Christmas tree

There is something intrinsically kinky about having sex outside the bedroom. The more taboo, the more people feel like they are pushing things. Push it too far, and you will be too stressed out to be able to have a good time, but it is easy to take yourself a little out of your comfort zone to the benefit of you and your fuck buddy. My top tip, have sex under the Christmas tree. If you can decorate the tree together first, then get “distracted” and end up ripping off each other clothes in a way that feels completely spontaneous that would be ideal. After that, any time you are around the tree, you will remember the session you had, which will trigger more sex later in the holidays.

Give a kinky gift

Giving gifts is traditional at this time… so why not give a gift that will benefit you both? Gifting a sex toy of some kind is a great way to invite the other person to come and use it with you. An easy thing to go for is a pair of Christmas fur handcuffs! It is a sure winner and comes with the playful, fun get out that it can be considered a joke if it is not welcomed warmly. You can go further of course and may be surprised at how a vibrator or even something a little stronger may be warmly received.

In transit booty call

You may find that with a fuck buddy, you are both busy with family etc on Christmas day. However, this often involves travelling from one place to another, perhaps going from the house to a family house for dinner, or starting the morning with one family then moving to see someone else later. If this is the case, why not see if you can arrange a sneaky booty call with your fuck buddy in between without telling anyone? The sneaking around will only make it more fun.

The Christmas Hook Up – Don’t worry if you haven’t got one

EdBennett — Wed, 25 Dec 2013 09:00:00 +0000

25 Dec 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: alone at Christmas, no sex at Christmas

If you’re reading this today – Christmas Day – then you either

a) Haven’t got a casual hook up planned for today.
b) Are desperate to evade the awkward family day of arguments, awkward questions and have hidden in front of your computer or phone
c) Are bored
d) All of the above

Christmas is always a holiday that splits emotions down the middle. Especially when it comes to sex and dating. For me the worst part are the thousands of advice columns, websites, magazine and more all harping on about how we should all be enjoying Christmas sex like it’s going out of fashion. Now yes, this is an adult dating site. And yes we encourage all our members to go out and hook up with each other in a safe and responsible manner where possible. And yes, we are sometimes just as guilty as those thousands of advice columns, dating sites and magazines for making you feel guilty and lonely just because you don’t have a partner or fuck buddy right now.

At least we’re honest about it.

But what if you don’t actually need a partner to enjoy some Christmas sex with?

Go it alone
Sex is great when it’s with someone you connect with. We encourage all our fuck buddy’s to have sex with another member they actually like and fancy rather then with someone who just wants to have sex for the sake of it. Personally that kind of sex is never much fun. Feel free to prove me wrong members…but I doubt you will.

In any case what if despite your best efforts, you’ll be spending Christmas Day fending off the intrusive questions from friends and family, the classic being ‘So how’s your love life? Have you met anyone special?’

“No Aunty Molly, I haven’t found anyone special, and to be honest even if I did you wouldn’t be the first person I’d share it with as let’s be honest, it’s none of your business and I’d really like it right now if you’d just fuck off and leave me alone. Okay?”

You can avoid this by simply removing yourself from the situation. Now I know everyone has commitments at Christmas, but just because you don’t have a partner or fuck buddy to hand, doesn’t mean you can’t make your own sex fun for today.

Masturbate
This is still treated with the same disdain Catholic schools drummed into the thousands of sexually repressed adults walking around in the world today. But it is one of the best ways to relieve some excess stress. So if you can find some time to enjoy yourself without being interrupted by an annoying family member or friend. Christmas is your time too.

Write down 5 sex positions that you want to try in 2014
A bit like a New Year’s resolution, but this is a great way to get your mind primed for searching for someone new and keeps you open to new possibilities. It’s much healthier then just getting drunk and being miserable.

Positive reinforcement - Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you are a good attractive person
Again this is a good way to gain a measure of yourself and how you think other people see you. A lot of people don’t like looking at their own reflection, but you need to do this to remind yourself that you are a good person, are attractive and can get a partner or fuck buddy any time you want. Positive reinforcement works best when other people are doing it to you, but to be truly effective you have to start by believing it yourself. A useful exercise at any time of the year, this can be especially useful at Christmas.

Write down 5 things about yourself that you like
If you like them, someone else will too as people pick up on the passion and confidence you have when you talk about what you like.

So remember, if you’re by yourself this Christmas it doesn’t have to be a total bust. Just take a deep breath, and maybe try some of the suggestions I’ve made.

Happy Christmas!