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Why death and danger are a sexual turn on

EdBennett — Mon, 29 Jul 2019 20:06:49 +0000

29 Jul 2019 - 21:06 | Tags: sex and death, sex and danger, how to turn each other on using words

There are many things that can increase our sex drive and desire for sex. Food is a really well-known example. People spend all sorts of money on expensive oysters or strange and exotic foods in order to increase the desire for sex and enhance their fuck buddy’s sexual experience. Chocolate, champagne, certain types of squid, these are all purported to increase the desire for sex and enhance libido. One of the scientifically studied areas is danger and death. In this article, I would like to talk about the connection between danger, death and sex, and how you might use this information to either increase the chances of hooking up with someone, or having an amazing sexual time with either your fuck buddy, friend with benefits, or one night stand.

Danger equals death

The first thing to establish is that the threat of danger, to the brain, brings the possibility of death. So for the purposes of this discussion, danger equals death. The higher the danger levels, the greater the chance of death, the stronger the effect.

It does not have to real

To the brain, the perception of danger is the same as the danger being real. If your brain *thinks* that you are in danger the same chemical reactions happen as if you are in that danger. Horror films, and fairground rides are great examples. All the danger has been removed, but your brain does not understand this so you go through the same thing.

When you have the perception of a threat of danger (which the brain interprets as death)

So we have a very strong survival mechanism inbuilt into us. We want to live. So in the moment itself you just want to live. This manifests as one of five reactions: fight, flight, freeze, flop, friend. After the perceived danger is over, in the immediate aftermath, your brain perceives that you nearly died. The larger the perceived danger, the stronger the experience. Procreation being a key survival act for the species, your body is drive to procreate there and then. You have to have sex and pass on your genetic seed. What if you die before you can have kids? So you are suddenly sexually more awake. The higher the danger, the more turned on you are going to be after. If there was fear involved, and there usually is, the sex also provides a really good escape as well, as you move out of your brain and into your body instead.

How this can be “used”

When you are next meeting a potential or actual fuck buddy or looking for a hook up, consider going to somewhere there is a brain perceived danger. A science experiment involving a woman asking men questions first on a bridge across a chasm and then on a safe pavement showed that the people were much more attracted to her for being somewhere there was some perceived danger. So do that. Go see a horror film, take him/her to a fairground. A really nice one is to go to a roof top bar really high up and then have drinks near to the edge. You are completely safe, but the gentle reminder of impending doom from the drop will drive you and your fuck buddy to want each other more.

Good luck, and more importantly, have fun!

Sexting – the art of dirty texting

EdBennett — Sun, 20 Dec 2015 09:44:36 +0000

20 Dec 2015 - 09:44 | Tags: sexting, messaging, how to turn each other on using words

We all want to have amazing sex. We all want to have our minds blown to another place entirely when we get involved with the act of sleeping with someone else. Either we want to really fuck someones brains out, or we want to have our brains fucked out of our skulls by someone else. Either way – a good hard fuck is defiantly on the menu.

There are many ways that we can achieve this, and many methods to build up to this. In this article I want to talk about sexting – the art of texting dirty!

The build up

It is not just about the actual sex itself, a lot of good sex is in the build up, and one of the easy ways you can ensure a good build up is with a decent amount of sexting. The more you can get the other person thinking about sex in the run up to it the better the sex will be. Remember it is all about getting them wanting to have sex – the build up. The more you can do that the closer you get to a mind blowing fuck.

When to start texting

Timing is important. Unless you are super skilled I wouldn’t start more than 8 hours before the time you are going to see them. You want it in the back of their head – but a 24 hour tease is really hard to pull off unless you are really skilled. So to start with go for sending your first text 8 hours before.

What to send

Start slow. You are thinking about them... allude to thinking about what may happen later in the evening. Going sensory is a really great idea. Sights, smells, touch... comment about the things you genuinely love about having sex with them. The feeling of their legs wrapped around your body, the way their breath on your ear as they moan really turns you on. You can be as explicit as you like – building up to the more explicit things is a good way of doing it.

Get them involved

Make sure you get them involved. If you can get them to message you back, to text you what they like, what turns them on – then you have got them 100%! Once they have bought into it and are sexting back, they are fully engaged with thinking about wanting to have sex, and you are winning.

Avoid!
Things to avoid are:

Getting scared and be too tame. The bolder you are the better
Mis types / auto corrects that ruin what you are saying
Bad spelling can be a killer – big difference between wrapping a girls legs around your “waist” and your “waste”.

Go forth and sext!

Tales to Turn You On

EdBennett — Wed, 27 Nov 2013 09:00:00 +0000

27 Nov 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: sexy bedtime stories, erotic literature, how to turn each other on using words

If you go into any bookshop in the world (online or off) they’ll always be a section labelled ‘romance’ or ‘erotic’. It’s usually segregated off from the main fiction and biopic displays, and in many cases is often hidden at the back like some dirty little secret. But stories that involve a lot of graphic sex are hugely popular! Why? Because sex is hugely popular!

Yet we hide these stories like they’re something to be ashamed about.

Well no more.

A Story for Bedtime
Everyone is always talking about sex. Everyone is always describing sex either to a friend or fuck buddy or partner. We talk dirty to each other on the phone and in bed…but how often do we read or tell truly sexy stories to get us all turned on and in the mood?

Today we’re going to share with you some sexy stories that have been sent to us by members that they have used or experienced to help them get in the mood for some heavy sex sessions.

“Lightning” by S.Masters
Tonight he fucked me like I’ve never been fucked before. The sex was electrifying. It started with a passionate kiss that caught me completely off guard, grabbing my neck with his hand and pulling me forward until his lips were pressed hard against mine. It felt like a car crashing into a wall in slow motion.

Pure electricity.

The kiss sent a bolt of lightning down my body making every pore of my skin tingle with anticipation. I could feel waves of pulsing electric heat flow through my vagina filling it up until all I wanted was for it to engulf his penis. And then he went inside me with his fingers, stroking, flowing in rhythm with the pulses I could feel throughout my body. It was all I could do not to scream out in ecstasy…every sensation was causing me to burn with desire and barely contained passion.

How many seconds went by I don’t know but very soon I could feel my body begin to peak towards a full orgasm and I had to have him inside me now! I pushed his hand away and pulled his neck down to my face with one hand whilst with the other I grabbed his penis and plunged it inside my vagina until he was deep within me. My body cringed with happiness and lightning was flowing throughout my body. My orgasm was instant. He can’t have been inside me for longer than 10 seconds and I was already moaning loudly, my entire body heaving with pleasure and excitement. He thrust and swirled inside me faster and faster maintaining my initial orgasm for longer than either of us anticipated.

It was the best sex I had ever had.

And it began with a kiss of lightning…

?!?!?!
…there’s not really much else to say except…shit…really have to go and text a fuck buddy now…

Happy fucking!