If you break – always have break up sex

EdBennett — Wed, 28 Mar 2018 17:39:20 +0000

28 Mar 2018 - 18:39 | Tags: breakup sex, breaking up, friend with benefits

Breaking up with a fuck buddy is never easy, even if you are the one doing the break up. It is hard, you are insulting the other person’s identity in a way that can never be cushioned. Even with a strict no strings attached relationship, there can be a moment of hurt. It is easier in this setting, because you were clear about it when you signed up to it in the first place, that does not stop it from still being a difficult thing to do / have done to you.
There is on clear silver lining when ending a fuck buddy, you can hook up with them again one last time, and you can have break up sex.

We love unique things

As humans we love it when something is unique and different from everything else that we have done in the past. It is excellent if it is new. We love special edition releases of films, 1st edition books are worth far more than their less rare later counterparts, due to their rarity. When going to restaurants, we love to try new food and new dishes. A change is as good as a break. The same is true with sex. We change the time, the position, the strength and voracity of it, the roughness, the speed and the feel. We have happy sex, frustrated sex, unstoppable lust driven sex. The one thing that most people don’t have is angry sex. When you are in relationship, if you are angry you are simply not having sex.

Break up sex is authorised angry sex

You can be really angry with the person, and have sex with them, and that is acceptable. It is the one time that you can both ride that emotion, and you can do it for real. You can try and fake it, but that never works. If the anger is real whilst still in a hook up setting, then you don’t have sex. What allows the sex to still happen, is that you are never going to see each other again, so you make an exception.

Great sex is emotion – and this is emotion on speed

The emotion of a break up is huge. It is so massive, so overwhelming, it heightens everything. This includes the sex. You can have a sexual experience unlike any that you have ever had in your life before. Every been slapped then fucked the girl? Well here is your chance.

So if you have a break up, take advantage of it. Have break up sex.

How to make someone a Friend…With Benefits

jeni — Thu, 28 Feb 2013 12:45:00 +0000

28 Feb 2013 - 12:45 | Tags: f-buddy, friend with benefits, friends with benefits, how to make a friend with benefits

No strings attached.

At some point in our lives, that is the ultimate sexual fantasy. It can be, and is a reality in many of our lives and as long as you play safely and understand the rules, easier to do then you think.

What is a friend with benefits?
It’s quite simple really; a friend with benefits is someone you like and get on with and who you can also have a sexual relationship with no strings attached.

That’s it.

How do I know if this is right for me?
That’s a more complicated question but the answers are fairly straightforward. If you’re not looking for a serious relationship, want to have sex on a regular basis, but would prefer to do it with someone you like rather then a complete stranger, then getting a friend with benefits may suit you.

If that’s still a bit unclear then try following this brief guide on how to get a friend with benefits. It should help clarify the differences as well as the advantages of having this kind of relationship.

1. Find someone you like
It sounds so simple…and it is! Sex with someone you like is always going to be 10 times better then sex with someone you’re not that into. If you know someone who you like and are attracted to then they are the first person to approach.

2. Sound them out and joke about making out with them
It’s no use hoping for a sexual relationship with someone if they’re not interested. Have a flirt and laugh when talking with your friend to see if there’s any spark. Make jokes about making out with them – it will plant the idea in their head and help you to find out if they see you more as a ‘brother’ or ‘sister’ or as someone they like and can have a lot of fun with.

3. Communicate
The importance of this can never be underestimated. So many misunderstandings and arguments arise from poor communication. Unless you talk with your friend about things, you will never know. Text and chat messages are a great way to find out if your friend is interested in pursuing a FWB relationship but has the added benefit of you playing it off as a joke if they’re not.

4. Meet up and make out
If you’ve gotten on well chatting to your friend online or in person, then arrange a safe place and time for you both to meet up and have some fun. Make out and see if there are as many sparks as there have been when chatting. If there are, then you can take the encounter on. If there aren’t, then no harm done.

5. Set the ground rules mutually and make them clear from the start
This is supposed to be harmless fun with someone you like. Make sure you are both happy with the parameters of the friendship from the start. If one party starts asking for things outside of what was agreed, then you might want to look for someone else. Setting and being mutually comfortable with the ground rules from the start avoids any upset or anger later on.

6. Do not have expectations
It sounds a bit obvious, but the whole point of a friend with benefits is that you’re not looking for something serious. If you are then this is not the way for you. You can end up hurting yourself and your friend and that is no good for either party. Go in with no expectations and you may be pleasantly surprised by what comes out.

Beneficial for Both Parties
What’s so interesting about this method is that as long as you establish rules very early on, then you can enjoy a healthy and positive relationship with none of the complicated emotional ties that come with a romantic relationship. Things like jealousy, anger and paranoia can be instantly eliminated.

These simple rules will help you find the right friend from the get-go. You may find that you add more or less rules as friendships develop, but following this simple guide provides the blueprint for finding that ideal friend...with added benefits.

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If you break – always have break up sex

We love unique things

Break up sex is authorised angry sex

Great sex is emotion – and this is emotion on speed

How to make someone a Friend…With Benefits