F-Buddy.com - online dating algorithms

Is a virtual fuck buddy only a matter of time?

EdBennett — Sun, 31 Mar 2019 14:08:27 +0000

31 Mar 2019 - 15:08 | Tags: virtual sex, online dating algorithms, fuck buddy

When it comes to having sex, as a species we have been finding ways to simulate it for as long as modern memory remember. We have been using our hands to jack off or pleasure ourselves for generations, and whilst we have no firm evidence of it, I am sure that we have been experimenting with rubbing ourselves up and down inanimate objects for just as long! There is a species of monkey that is famous for allowing fruit to “go bad” then eating it, because then the fruit has actually begun to ferment which means they get drunk off it! They are also the same species that are well known for giving themselves hand jobs. As humans, are we really so different? We like to drink and imbibe alcohol, we like sex and we use other ways of simulating it. The modern world has brought a brand new edge to this possibility. Technology.

Modern technology has brought with it huge improvements. We can now talk to someone on the other side of the world at almost any time from any where by sending our voice into space and back down again via a satellite. We can travel the globe in metal ships that fly through the sky at speeds never before thought possible. We have tools and chemicals that allow us to heal and fix a multitude of illnesses. We have just recently official created an “iron man” suit that allows you to fly just like iron man from the movies. Technology is progressing fast! So will this lead to the creation of a virtual fuck buddy? Are the days of trying to hook up with a human fuck buddy on their way out, replaced by the easier option of ordering one via a computer? Let’s look at the elements.

Speech:

Sex chat bots have long existed, but recently they have started to get really good. It has gotten to the point where it is hard to tell the difference between a bot and a human. As the algorithms creating speech get better and better, we are moving towards a virtual fuck buddy that can flirt with us as realistically as any human.

Visuals:

This is the sticking point at the moment. There are sex dolls. The new sex doll blow job cafe opening in London is a great example of this growing in acceptability. They do not look human however. Reports indicate that the feeling is getting very realistic, but they still do not look right.

Holograms are the answer:

Augmented reality allows us to put the image of a hologram over something in the real world. This is the answer to a virtual fuck buddy. If we can impose a real looking image over that of a doll then we can combine feel with image. With the speech run by an ever more intelligent sex bot, we are close to it all working out.

I think that a virtual fuck buddy is only a matter of time… how much time remains up for debate.

Playing the numbers game – from sex to soul mates

Visitor — Sat, 12 Sep 2015 17:48:26 +0000

12 Sep 2015 - 18:48 | Tags: sex, online dating algorithms

Thanks to television and films, mostly romantic comedies, we believe that finding someone to sleep with or even date is an act of fate. It is something that will just come along and we need do nothing to help it happen. Wrong. This is the lie that we are sold. Whether it is sex we are looking for or a soul mate, some of this is a numbers game.

I saw this short film recently called “Less than one” which I will embed below. It is about finding a “soul mate” – the interesting thing about this is that it charts the numbers game, and this is something that you need to do too. Not everyone that you meet in life is going to want to hang out with you, just as not everyone that you talk to on this website is going to want to sleep with you. People are all so different, and some people make the mistake of thinking that the solution to this is to try and change into someone that the person will want to sleep with. Again, wrong approach. The answer is in finding the people with whom you can connect with, where there is chemistry for both of you. This is where the numbers game comes into play.

Say one in twenty people are going to find you attractive, and I think that is a reasonable number. This works both ways so now let us say that of those people you are only going to also fancy one in twenty back. This means that the odds of finding someone that drives you completely nuts is only one in four hundred. You want to meet someone who makes you want to grab them and throw them against a wall, who brings out the primal inner hunger to not just have intercourse, but have real down and dirty sex, to do not just in the bed, but on sofa, against the hallway wall, down on the floor because you couldn’t contain yourself long enough to make it to the bedroom. Equally they want to find someone that makes them feel exactly the same. That makes them want to tear your clothes off and have theirs ripped from their bodies equally as fast.

Finding this level of chemistry is indeed a numbers game. If you have to expose yourself to 400 people to find it at this level, then doing so in day to day life seems near impossible... which is where this website comes into its own. When you start messaging people focus on getting your numbers up, because if you persevere and keep messaging people till you find someone that you *really* want to have sex with, then you will find some measure of real ecstasy your shared nights together.

The Attraction Algorithm

jeni — Fri, 08 Mar 2013 18:30:00 +0000

8 Mar 2013 - 18:30 | Tags: online dating algorithms

Believe it or not, we don’t just match you with random buddies that crop up on our site. We do actually take the time to see what matches we think will suit you the best. How do we do this? We do the same thing all online dating sites do, we have an algorithm that helps determine your ideal match. The starting point is gathering data.

Data
The first thing we need before anything happens is data. When we talk about data we mean things like where you live, how old you are and so on. The more data we get, the more accurate the match will be.

A study conducted in San Francisco recently concluded that the ways men view a dating profile is very different to the ways women view a profile. On average men spend 65% longer looking at pictures then women do. On the other side, women spend around 50% longer reading the text on a profile. So if you’re a guy looking for a female f-buddy you might want to think about padding out your interests a bit more. Words can be more sexually powerful for a woman then a well muscled photo. The more data you give us, the higher your chances of success.

Honesty
This is the point that data can be manipulated and will affect the matches you receive in your inbox. We advise all of our members to be as honest as possible when entering their preferences for an f-buddy. The more honest you are with what you like and don’t like sexually, the greater the chance of you meeting up with your ideal buddy.

Should I lie?
We all lie. It would be pointless in denying it. The question is should you? I would always recommend ‘no’ especially when it comes to casual sex and encounters. The worst case scenario is that you meet up with someone who’s posted photos and preferences that end up being the opposite to what they actually look like and want.

There are ways to increase your match % based on the algorithm and they generally fall into two categories.

1. Be as honest with your sexual preferences, interests and desires as possible. The algorithm will convert this data into far more accurate matches for you and a potential partner.
2. Match your preferences, interest and desires to the maximum amount of women’s/men’s desires that can be found on site.

Both of these approaches have advantages, but the first edges the second a fair bit for one reason alone:

If you’ve lied what’s to say they haven’t lied either?

You could both meet expecting your ideal fantasy only to be confronted and caught out by the grim reality of lying.

Honesty + Algorithm = Ideal f-buddy
Online dating algorithms can help you find exactly what you want, but they rely on the data you give us. If we get flawed and inaccurate data then the algorithm is not going to be able to help us help you get laid.