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How to find a hot date

EdBennett — Mon, 20 Jul 2015 11:40:18 +0000

20 Jul 2015 - 12:40 | Tags: casual sex, hot dates, how to get a hot date, hook up, dating, adult dating

I have dated women who at the time I thought were way out of my league. I’ve dated stereotypically hot eastern European women who all seem to look like they’ve walked off the cover of a bikini shoot. I’ve dated athletically good looking blonde former police officers. I even accidentally got drunk at a film premier party and ended up in bed with a very hot dancer the same night. I never thought I would ever come even close to dating let alone sleeping with women of this supposedly ‘high’ calibre. But I did.

What kind of person am I?

I would stereotypically be called a bit of a geek. I love science fiction and fantasy. I enjoy role playing. I love movies and I love reading. I’m not an athlete though I do go to the gym at least once a week to try and stay healthy and prevent middle age spread. I am not and never was the typical high school jock that had all the girls clamouring for his attention. It took me quite a few years to realise what my strengths were and how I could show them more in my personality. Eventually I realised the following about myself:

1. People think I’m funny and have a good sense of humour
2. I like meeting new people and chatting about no end of subjects
3. I’m intelligent
4. I have a full life with lots going on

Now when I look at that list now, I think “Wow! I actually sound like a pretty cool guy!” But I have never been able to think that about myself until the last few years. At school I got picked on, ignored and generally trodden on by students and staff alike. I never knew what my worth was because it had been engrained into my psyche that I had no worth beyond providing a few cheap laughs. Now I realise I had more worth than anyone else at school. It has helped me find myself and learn that I am a good person.

And that dear reader is the key to finding a hot date.

RECOGNISE YOUR AWESOMENESS - AKA - BE YOURSELF

Everyone is different and everyone has different strengths and weaknesses. Some people are more naturally athletic, some are more naturally funny, some are more naturally intelligent, and some are more naturally good natured. Whatever your strength is, tap into it and share it on your profile as much as you can. There will be a hot date out there who likes you for you. Anything else is a waste.

Do Looks Really Matter Online?

EdBennett — Sat, 18 Jul 2015 10:10:14 +0000

18 Jul 2015 - 11:10 | Tags: dating profile, photos, online dating profile, casual sex, hook up

The first thing that people look at when searching for an online date or hook up is the profile picture. Sorry to all those daters out there who hold onto the myth that ‘looks don’t matter’, but unfortunately they do. At least at first. Profiles that have no photo are 80% more likely to be ignored than profiles that do have a photo. But if you’re worried about how you look in your photos, then try either getting someone you trust to take pictures of you, or take some yourself. I know so many people who hate having their picture taken, but when it comes to online dating (especially adult online dating!) a decent couple of photos are essential to success.

Why?

Imagine your profile as your personal resume. Potential hook ups are going to view your profile in the same manner an employer views a resume. If your resume is badly written and presented, you are less likely to get an interview. Similarly if your dating profile is badly written and presented, you are less likely to get noticed, let alone sex with someone you like. The photo is the first thing people see on your dating resume. If you haven’t bothered to include one or worse put one in that doesn’t reflect who you are at all, then your dating resume will fail. Humans respond to visual stimulation at first encounters, which is why it is highly important to have a good photo in your profile.

A good photo showing you in your best light is your first and best chance at attracting the right kind of dater to your profile. If you fuck this up, then you only have yourself to blame if you get no positive results. Fortunately we never look as bad in photos as we sometimes think. Other people tend to like our photos more than we do. All you need is a decent shot of you looking at your hottest and most inviting. If you’re including your face in the photo we recommend smiling. A good smile goes a long way in attracting someone to your profile.

Naughty Photos

Everyone responds to different visual stimuli so it is up to you on what kind of photos you include on your profile. The kind of hook up you want to attract will respond differently to different photos so bare this in mind. If you’re someone who likes to tease before revealing all, don’t share naked photos or photos of your penis or vagina. It will attract the wrong type of hook up for you. If you’re someone who likes to show all and attract someone similar, than by all means share whatever you feel is appropriate for you.

The key to any photo you include is to have it reflect your personality and who you are. If your photos don’t do this, ditch them and pick some new ones.

Australian Sex Habits 2015

EdBennett — Sun, 24 May 2015 11:37:41 +0000

24 May 2015 - 12:37 | Tags: sex habits, australian sex habits, casual sex, sex, hook up

In 2014 a census was published by a dating site detailing the average sex habits of the average Australian. It turns out that what profession you’re in can have an impact on the amount and type of sex you have over your lifetime. The survey conducted across an array of different age groups and professions concluded that people in certain professions, had more sex than others.

The Breakdown
Aussies working in the legal industry are the most satisfied sexually according to the census, with 54.5% reporting that they enjoyed their sex life. At the other end of the pendulum, 44% of the IT and telecommunications industries reported being dissatisfied with their sex lives. It turns out that you shouldn’t work on computers or with mobile phones if you want to have better sex.

Estate agents have always had a pretty slutty reputation, but even I was surprised by 44.7% reporting that they had slept with at least 21 people over their lifetime. Must be all those viewings they do.

If you work in finance then you might be embarrassed to know that most of the respondents in this section admitted to lasting very little time at all during sex, with many attributing fatigue and stress at work as the main cause. Having met some accountants, I’m inclined to believe this.

Does it mean anything?
Well I always take the results of any survey with a pinch of salt. It is a cross section that the survey covers rather than the whole, and we all know that you can’t judge a population based on the actions of a mere few.

Should you worry?
Only you can answer that question. Whilst there are professions that seem to expose workers more to sex, it doesn’t mean they have the best sex there is to have. If you think you’re not getting enough sex, or not having good enough sex, then it doesn’t really matter what professions you’re in. Only you can do something about that. Being on f-buddy is a good start, but actions speak louder than intentions. Start messaging some buddies and see if you can strike up a connection.

Renee is looking for a Fuck Buddy!

jeni — Mon, 11 Mar 2013 20:37:00 +0000

11 Mar 2013 - 20:37 | Tags: adult chat, f-buddy, find sex in Australia, free dating site, fuck buddy, hook up, No strings attached, nsa, online dating, root

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