Why death is an aphrodisiac

EdBennett — Fri, 29 Nov 2019 22:10:15 +0000

29 Nov 2019 - 22:10 | Tags: sex and death, things that turn you on, sex turn offs for guys

When it comes to having sex, we are nearly always driven by factors outside of our control. We have the ability to decide not to have sex, to chose to control and repress our desires so that we do not fuck someone’s brains out. So we can supress the desire, but we have very little control over the appearance of that desire. So much of it is out of our control. Some of it comes from the time of year, we are more horny in spring tham we are in winter. Some of it comes from when we last had sex. If we just spotted seeing a regular fuck buddy you are more driven to have sex than if you have not had sex for 6months or more, by which time you have become accustomed to it. Where you are also affects this. If you are in a club surrounded by scantily clad people of the gender that you are attracted to, you are going to want to hook up with one of them much more than if it is 8am on a Sunday morning and you tired waiting for a bus to take you back from an over night flight. The events around us can also affect this. Weddings are a good one for encouraging people to hook up.. but the other one that people do not think about are funerals.

There is something about death that is a natural aphrodisiac. The presence of it makes you want to hook up, it drives you to find a fuck buddy harder than many other things. From my understanding, the reason that death is such an aphrodisiac comes back to when we were a lot less evolved.

When you are facing death, there is a drive to procreate, to leave something behind. When we have kids, in some small way we transcend death by leaving someone of us behind in that child. Their genetic seed comes from us so they are a mini version of us and the person that we had sex with to create the child. If we raise them, we can also encourage them to have the same values and standards like us. This really can mean you leave behind a legacy in the form of someone that is the next “version” of us. When we have death around us, we are at a funeral or we have been involved in a road traffic accident, our brains and body have the possibility of our mortal coil ending placed at the very forefront of their considerations. Thus, our bodies and brains conspire to try and help us have kids whilst we still can. The best way of doing that? It releases hormones that make us horny, it makes us want to have sex. This means that not only are we more driven, if we do have sex, that sex seems deeper, stronger and better!

There are many ways that you can use this information, but I will leave you to interpret that. Understanding that death is a strong aphrodisiac is a an important part of your sexual education. If I have helped increase that, I have put you one step closer to living a life of sexual abundance where you are never without a fuck buddy.

What Guys Don't Want In The Bedroom

jeni — Wed, 20 Mar 2013 23:06:00 +0000

20 Mar 2013 - 23:06 | Tags: sex turn offs for guys

There are some things that we all like during sex. However there are also many things that we all differ on when it comes to sexual preferences. What position is best for her? Should I be going down on him more? I’m not sure if she’ll like me throwing her against the wall and taking her from behind?

All these questions and more plague our minds every now and then especially when we’re meeting up with a potential new playmate. So having conducted a survey we can now reveal what the biggest turn offs in the bedroom for guys are. Hopefully it should give you a clue over what to try and what to avoid. Pay attention ladies! You might be guilty of one or more of them….

Top 5 turn offs for Guys - Ladies Pay Attention!

1. Crying. We’re not joking. This happens more often then you think. Not only is it a general sexual faux pas it will send your bloke running for the hills. No one wants to come off as neurotic. If you’re feeling teary, best not to take your lingerie off.

2. Laughing. Oddly enough women like men laughing or having a chuckle in bed, but when it goes the other way the results can be devastating. A bloke won’t know what to think. ‘Is she laughing at the size of my penis?’ ‘Was it not good?’ ‘Was I not strong enough?’ ‘Do I look weird?’ We are all insecure when it comes to sex sometimes, but men can take it as a direct blow to their masculinity if a girl starts to chuckle for no reason. If you are the giggly type in the sack try to focus on something serious unless you want to have a seriously bad lay.

3. Faking It. Everyone wants to orgasm and women have the best…but not all the time. If you can’t orgasm then lying about it will do neither you nor the man you’re with any good at all. For a start guys can usually tell when a woman is having a real orgasm despite reports to the contrary. Also what kind of message does that send to your partner if you’re faking it all the time? He’ll never know how to please you if you keep lying. If you can’t come simply tell the truth and tell him ‘I really want you to come now!’ Watch the smile on our face grow.

4. Shy. If you’re a naturally shy person don’t pretend otherwise. Telling a guy you’re into kink and dirty talk only for him to discover you’re into neither and like having more sedate sex, will soon spell an end to that encounter. If you’re shy in the bedroom, be honest about it. A lot of the time we love being able to lead a woman in the sack and you telling us you’re quite shy can be a massive turn on.

5. Go blank. ‘How do you like it? “….I don’t know.” Worst. Response. Ever. If we’re asking you this chances are we’re a bit nervous and want some guidance. You know your body better then we do so give us a little hand. Don’t instruct – guide. If you’re drawing a blank regularly then maybe you need to get in touch with yourself in more ways then one to find out what it is you do like. That way you won’t have any problems the next time a guy asks.

In the interests of gender equality, we will also publish a list of the top 5 turn offs for women soon.

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Why death is an aphrodisiac

What Guys Don't Want In The Bedroom