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Friends with benefits 2011 film

EdBennett — Thu, 15 Oct 2015 15:53:26 +0000

15 Oct 2015 - 16:53 | Tags: friends with benefits, fuck buddies

The 2011 film friends with benefits with Justin Timberlake and the oh so hot Mila Kunis was billed when it came out as a RomCom. Having now seen it, I would call it more of a ComRom if anything! The focus is on the comedy elements and infact the film itself does a really good job of taking the micky out of Romcom’s as a genre. During the film they have a section where they watch a romantic comedy, which is a heightened version of one. It is infact the worst most over the top romantic comedy ever, with all the cliche’s you would expect from the meeting under the clock at the train station to the chasing the girl with flowers and turning up just before she is about to leave for some other place. It even has a white carriage in it!

For all the film is Hollywood heightened it also does a good job of normalising something that should always have been considered normal. Sex.

There is a taboo when it comes to sex, always has been in our lifestyle. What the film does do is bring across a world where actually it can be normal and healthy. The two main characters, who are friends who effectively meet through work, set up a friends with benefits type of agreement after both being dumped by their respective partners. They start sleeping together on a sex only basis. One of the best things about this is the first sex scene.

When they first jump into bed they are both so adamant to keep emotions out of it, they both feel completely free to be and say what ever they want. They are wonderfully honest with what they want, “Grab my ear” “kiss my neck”. It means that their first time is probably the best first time they have ever had! They are both guiding and helping the other to be the best lover for them that they can be. This level of honesty is something that I think that we could all learn from. If you want to have the best sex you have ever had – a high level of honesty is one of the key things that will help you achieve it.

They also have a really healthy friends with benefits set up. It is neither controlling nor stifling, it is in no way forced. It is completely consensual on both sides of the table, and they both benefit from it.

I am not a fan of romantic comedies by any means, I would say if you are going to force yourself to watch one for some reason, you would do pretty well by choosing this one.

James marries his F-buddy!

EdBennett — Wed, 07 Oct 2015 18:30:35 +0000

7 Oct 2015 - 19:30 | Tags: success stories, friends with benefits

Whilst we don’t get too many stories like this, we were so pleased by this one we decided to share it!

We were recently emailed by “James” (real username removed for privacy reasons, so for the purposes of this we are going to call him James for the rest of this article). James wanted to thank us for providing such an “effective” service (as he liked to put it). He told us he was leaving the website and deleting his profile, but wanted to make it clear that he was doing so for the *best* of reasons. He was leaving it because the service had been excellent, so good in fact that it had ended up taking him down a completely unexpected path!

James joined the website just over a year ago. Like many people who are new to online dating sites, whilst it only took him only a few moments to get an active profile together, it took him a few months to get up to courage to meet up face to face with one of the girls that he had started to chat with online. That first meeting began a chain reaction that changed the course of his year, and potentially his entire life!
He met up with the girl, and after a nervous introduction and some small talk, they moved to a second pub where a second drink helped him to relax into the situation. Once that happened he became more open to the needs and desire of the woman he was with, and suddenly a revelation dawned on him. All this time he had been under the false impression that deep down inside, men wanted loads of sex and that it was their “job” to convince, pursued, trick or cajole women into having it with them. Faced with the openness of this woman, he suddenly realised that in fact she wanted to sleep with him even more than he wanted to sleep with her.
Putting small talk aside and deciding to discard the falsly pressured assumption that one must spend a certain amount of time with someone before being able to make a move, James stepped up and asked her to come back to his. She almost seemed relieved by the invitation, it seemed she was worried that he didn’t like her enough to ask! They quickly finished their drinks, headed back to his and he lead her straight to his bedroom.

Having had such an amazing night, he set up a friends with benefits agreement with her, then over the year went on to boldly sleep with a number of woman, each of whom expanded his horizons of what could be done in the bedroom for fun. Throughout this that first girl he met never left his mind... till one day he realised that he had formed a bond over the year, and that he wanted to marry her!

He proposed last week, and after a tearful yes, they are now looking to tie the knot. We will be sad to see James go, but we wish him all the best for the future.

Start with Sex then date afterwards – The RIGHT way to do this

EdBennett — Sun, 20 Sep 2015 14:33:55 +0000

20 Sep 2015 - 15:33 | Tags: sex, sex is great, friends with benefits

People are doing this the wrong way around. They are dating then having sex afterwards. I say have the sex first then move to the dating second, and here is why.

Traditionally the standard male to female courting process goes like this:

• Zero Hour: See a girl that you like

• Month One: Approach the girl, try and be nice to her whilst hiding your nerves

• Month Two: You are now on comfortable speaking terms, try and get the courage up to ask her out, failing each time to get to the point, despite your best rehearsed-in-the-mirror plans to do so.

• Month Three: Finally pluck up the courage to ask the girl out to dinner and she says yes, or failing that you've gone out on a social night, you get drunk and eventually kiss the girl! Either way you have made it to the point where you are now clear that you like the girl and she has agreed to graciously allow you to spend your money buying her dinner.

• Month Four: You go on multiple dinner dates, you are building a really nice rapport and connection, and you both love spending time with each other. You haven’t got to the point of sleeping with each other yet, and you are hesitant to be too pushy about it as you want to be a nice guy and not scare her away.

• Month Five/Six: You finally do it! You have sex with each other! And it is....
... and this is where it gets interesting. Perhaps it is great sex, in which case stop reading now there is no issue. However what is more likely is that you are sexually incompatible and it wasn't that brilliant.

The issue here is that people find change hard. There is an old cliché “I love you now change” . People do not change that easily, and if you end up with some with whom you cannot have not have a mind blowing night with, then this relationship is now in trouble. In a standard monogamous relationship, you can only sleep with each other, so now if you keep dating this person you are committing to bad sex for potentially the rest of your life. The worst part of this is that it has taken you up to 6 months to get there and find out!

Start with the sex first. If it doesn't work for you in bed, then you know nice and early and both you and your partner can move on before you have invested months into trying to build a relationship that was doomed to failure from the start.

Sex with a Friend: 6 Ways to Avoid the Awkward

EdBennett — Tue, 02 Jun 2015 10:09:06 +0000

2 Jun 2015 - 11:09 | Tags: casual sex, friends with benefits, sex with a friend, avoiding awkwardness

We’ve all done it or will do it at some point during our lives. That friend you’ve been friends with for a while or for a long time. That friend you’ve always fancied. One morning you roll over in bed and find them lying in bed next to you naked as the day they were born. The question is; do you roll back thinking "Oh God! What have I just done?!" Or do you roll back thinking “Damn! That was fun! I’m looking forward to doing it again?”

How do you manage any potential awkwardness after sleeping with a friend? There is no trick, no cheat, no special way of talking to someone. The answer is all in how you approach the situation. And there are 6 sure fire ways you can avoid any awkwardness.

6 Ways to Avoid the Awkward

1. Agree That You Both Want to Have Sex
Let’s be honest, most of us are wasted when we hop into bed with a friend. There really isn’t much thought put into the consequences until the following morning. Awkwardness can be avoided by being honest and talking about it as friends first. You can still drink, but it’s a good idea not to be off your face before having sex anyway.

2. Be Exciting
Also translated as ‘be adventurous’. Let your friend see a side of you that they would otherwise never get to see. As your friends they already know all about you so it’s fun to let them see another side of you in the bedroom.

3. Hang Out Afterward
The easiest way to avoid any friendship difficulties afterward is to hang out like you normally would. So you’ve just had sex! Great! Now watch TV, go see a movie or just chat like you normally would. Normalizing the experience will make it nice for both of you and maintain your friendship.

4. Do It Again!
If you’ve had sex with each other once, you should do it again if you enjoyed it. Great sex isn’t easy to find so don’t let outdated morals stop you from enjoying your friend’s company in as well as out of the bedroom.

5. Joke About It
Humor relieves the tension in almost all awkward situations. Avoid awkwardness the following morning/hour/day by cracking a joke. High five your friend…do whatever you can to make the both of you feel great about what just happened. It will relax them too.

6. Don’t Let Emotions Get Involved
It is essential that you both go into the situation knowing you are friends. If one of you secretly has been hoping for something more the worst thing you can do is sleep with your friend and not tell them how you feel. It’s not fair on either of you and someone (probably you) will get hurt.

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jeni — Mon, 29 Apr 2013 14:50:00 +0000

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How to make someone a Friend…With Benefits

jeni — Thu, 28 Feb 2013 12:45:00 +0000

28 Feb 2013 - 12:45 | Tags: f-buddy, friend with benefits, friends with benefits, how to make a friend with benefits

No strings attached.

At some point in our lives, that is the ultimate sexual fantasy. It can be, and is a reality in many of our lives and as long as you play safely and understand the rules, easier to do then you think.

What is a friend with benefits?
It’s quite simple really; a friend with benefits is someone you like and get on with and who you can also have a sexual relationship with no strings attached.

That’s it.

How do I know if this is right for me?
That’s a more complicated question but the answers are fairly straightforward. If you’re not looking for a serious relationship, want to have sex on a regular basis, but would prefer to do it with someone you like rather then a complete stranger, then getting a friend with benefits may suit you.

If that’s still a bit unclear then try following this brief guide on how to get a friend with benefits. It should help clarify the differences as well as the advantages of having this kind of relationship.

1. Find someone you like
It sounds so simple…and it is! Sex with someone you like is always going to be 10 times better then sex with someone you’re not that into. If you know someone who you like and are attracted to then they are the first person to approach.

2. Sound them out and joke about making out with them
It’s no use hoping for a sexual relationship with someone if they’re not interested. Have a flirt and laugh when talking with your friend to see if there’s any spark. Make jokes about making out with them – it will plant the idea in their head and help you to find out if they see you more as a ‘brother’ or ‘sister’ or as someone they like and can have a lot of fun with.

3. Communicate
The importance of this can never be underestimated. So many misunderstandings and arguments arise from poor communication. Unless you talk with your friend about things, you will never know. Text and chat messages are a great way to find out if your friend is interested in pursuing a FWB relationship but has the added benefit of you playing it off as a joke if they’re not.

4. Meet up and make out
If you’ve gotten on well chatting to your friend online or in person, then arrange a safe place and time for you both to meet up and have some fun. Make out and see if there are as many sparks as there have been when chatting. If there are, then you can take the encounter on. If there aren’t, then no harm done.

5. Set the ground rules mutually and make them clear from the start
This is supposed to be harmless fun with someone you like. Make sure you are both happy with the parameters of the friendship from the start. If one party starts asking for things outside of what was agreed, then you might want to look for someone else. Setting and being mutually comfortable with the ground rules from the start avoids any upset or anger later on.

6. Do not have expectations
It sounds a bit obvious, but the whole point of a friend with benefits is that you’re not looking for something serious. If you are then this is not the way for you. You can end up hurting yourself and your friend and that is no good for either party. Go in with no expectations and you may be pleasantly surprised by what comes out.

Beneficial for Both Parties
What’s so interesting about this method is that as long as you establish rules very early on, then you can enjoy a healthy and positive relationship with none of the complicated emotional ties that come with a romantic relationship. Things like jealousy, anger and paranoia can be instantly eliminated.

These simple rules will help you find the right friend from the get-go. You may find that you add more or less rules as friendships develop, but following this simple guide provides the blueprint for finding that ideal friend...with added benefits.

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jeni — Mon, 25 Feb 2013 12:42:00 +0000

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jeni — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 15:30:00 +0000

6 Dec 2012 - 15:30 | Tags: adult, australia, chat, free, friends with benefits, fuck buddy, No strings attached, sex

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