Being Responsible on F-Buddy

EdBennett — Sat, 15 Feb 2014 10:00:00 +0000

15 Feb 2014 - 10:00 | Tags: safety, casual sex ground rules

We’ve been receiving some email from members who have been asking some questions that lead us to believe that not everyone is certain of the rules when it comes to messaging and meeting up with fuck buddies.

As a result I would like to take you through some recommended ‘grind rules’ (if you’ll forgive the pun. It’s important that everyone has a great experience on F-Buddy and we want to help you to hook up in a safe and fun environment. After all what’s the point if you can’t do that?

THE F-BUDDY GRIND RULES

1. Be Responsible
This can cover a wide range of rules, but in general if you can remember this phrase above all, then everything should follow along neatly. Be responsible when you’re meeting a play mate or fuck buddy. Respect their wishes, desires and when someone says ‘no’ it means ‘no’.

2. Protect yourself
I’m not just talking sexually (although you should definitely be doing that as well!), I’m talking about keeping in touch with a few close friends to let them know where you are.

3. Meet in a public place before fucking
Would you just go round to someone’s house before you even met them? Would you be comfortable having someone coming to your house before you even met them? Okay some of you might be, but in general I would always advise meeting in a coffee shop or anywhere public before getting down to some fucky fucky business.

4. Trust your instincts
If someone seems awesome…go for it! If someone seems dodgy, do not meet up with them. Trust your gut…it rarely steers you wrong.

5. Do not tolerate harassment
If another member starts bombarding you with messages or texts before or after an encounter, report it to us. We will investigate and if necessary suspend or terminate their membership. In extreme cases we will refer matters to the appropriate authorities and/or provide guidance and advice for you over what to do.

6. Safe Sex ALWAYS!
We’ve said it before, but we’ll say it again…PRACTICE SAFE SEX! STDs are easily caught often without someone’s knowledge. It’s easy to get carried away, but we would recommend to ALWAYS WEAR PROTECTION!

7. Communicate clearly with each other
Being certain about what you both desire and want will save any embarrassment or discomfort later on. Be honest and open and you’ll have more fun.

If you have any questions or comments about the site or how we can help make your experience better please don’t hesitate to contact us!

In the meantime, happy fucking!

Bondage: The Rules Every Playmate Should Follow

jeni — Sat, 13 Jul 2013 08:00:00 +0000

13 Jul 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: bondage, rules, safety

Bondage is not for everyone, though we’d wager a good proportion of users on our site have at least experimented with it at some point. However no matter how light or heavy the bondage there are some vital rules everyone should follow. Kinky sex can bring great orgasms and pleasure. It can also bring great injuries and pain.

Below is a list of rules compiled from some bondage professionals we have consulted in providing our members with as much safety information as possible. Follow the rules and have fun!

Bondage: A brief definition
Before we plough on with the rules, we thought it would be wise to fully define what we mean when we say ‘bondage’. Not everyone (even those who participate in it) is fully aware of what it means in a sexual context which is why accidents can occur.

So simply put bondage is the tying, restraining or binding of another person for the sexual and/or psychological pleasure of the parties involved.

Rather a cold definition isn’t it? But an accurate one.
Bondage can be amazing. But it does carry risks and we want you to be aware of them.

THEMS THE RULES!

1. Learn and perfect every bondage skill BEFORE using it on a partner. Risk is unavoidable but can be greatly reduced when you know what you’re doing.

2. Anticipate the obvious. Interruptions can occur at any time (beds breaking, neighbours or friends calling etc etc), so be prepared for you begin your session.

3. Learn the basic pulse sites of the human body. This allows you to position ropes and restraints accordingly lowering the risk of injury to either party. For reference: pulse points are located on the wrists, inner-upper thighs and throat.

4. Ropes/Restraints should be snug NOT tight. You should be able to slip a finger underneath the rope or restraint.

5. Learn how long each bondage restraint can be endured and time it. This will help reduce the risk of injury.

6. Submissives: Never let anyone you don't know tie you up or restrain you. You are literally putting your life in someone’s hands during bondage so trust is a crucial factor.

7. Safewords. Agree them and practice them before you begin.

8. NEVER use a chain or rope around the throat.

9. Ensure you have a heavy pair of scissors ready to cut ropes and restraints should something go wrong.

10. ALWAYS observe a bound submissive when restrained. Check constantly for skin discolouration, numbness, and cold skin. These symptoms will present as blood circulation deteriorates.

Follow these rules and you will enjoy bondage a lot more.
Trust us. And remember it is all about trust.

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Being Responsible on F-Buddy

Bondage: The Rules Every Playmate Should Follow