The best way to have standing sex with your fuck buddy

EdBennett — Thu, 29 Sep 2022 23:22:03 +0000

One of the best things about having a fuck buddy is that you can really explore different ways of having sex. When you are in a more traditional relationship, the focus of the relationship (or the purported focus) is not the sex. I think that many of us can acknowledge however that one of the foundational elements of any coupling is the physical aspects, especially if you are in a monogamous partnership. If you are sleeping with more than one person you have an opportunity to mix things up and the sex can be less important (as you are also getting it from elsewhere), however, when it is just one person then they have to be able to fulfil your desires to make it work long term. With a fuck buddy, you can talk about the sex and discuss what is good and bad. You have greater scope to refine how you treat each other and are with each other. Each time you make an improvement to your performance in bed, it is a win for the both of you! So it really is in both your interests to explore sex together. One of the things that you can play with is different sex positions.

Most sex positions involve you lying down. This is great. It is comfortable, it requires less energy and work, you don’t have to be as fit to pull off the moves, and you are in a perfect position to have a cuddle afterwards if you decide you would like to. Sometimes, it is good to mix it up. Standing positions can also be great for completely different reasons. If you want to try one out, I highly recommend the “ballet dancer” position… and the best thing is you don’t have to be a ballet dancer to do it.

The person being penetrated wraps one of their legs around the other. That is it! Easy right?! I will warn you though, this can get quote tiring if you are not used to it and you don’t have anything to hook it on. With that in mind, I highly recommend that you hook the leg on something. This could be a door jam, if you have them lean against a chest of drawers you can rest it on that. If their back is to a wall, you can (for some of it) have them press your leg against the wall as they lean back, holding it in place so you don’t have to… and for those few of you reading this that are actual ballet dancers, fo you, lift your leg all the way up and rest it against their shoulder instead!

So give this a go next time you want to mix things up. Good luck have fun!

Best Sex Positions...as voted by you!

jeni — Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:30:00 +0000

18 Jul 2013 - 09:30 | Tags: top sex positions

The weather has been a bit…well…spotty at best lately. Showers, some clouds and high humidity across large parts of the country have seen many people shut themselves away inside.

But that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun.

There are loads of other ways to keep yourselves amused on a rainy day so why not try some new sex positions with your fuck buddy?

Top Sex Acts as voted for by our users
We did a quick poll on a random selection of the users of F-Buddy. We specifically wanted to know what their favourite sex positions were and why they would recommend them to anyone looking to spice up their sex life.

1. The Butterfly / Modified Missionary
Forget what you’ve read in the all the sex mags about missionary being ‘so last century’. The classic position is still popular for a reason; it can feel so damn good! Especially when you change it slightly.

How to do it
a) Make sure the woman is on her back with her hips right at the edge of the bed.
b) She then puts her legs over the man’s shoulders and tilts her hips upwards

The man can then penetrate her deeply allowing for amazing cervical stimulation leading to deeper and multiple orgasms. If the man penetrates at a shallow angle he can stimulate the anterior vaginal wall and hey presto…hit the G-Spot.

2. The Sceptre
This is really simple and allows for greater sensitivity on the penis whilst helping to maintain an erection.

How To Do It
a)Whoever is on the bottom during sex has the best chance of performing this well. With your hand form a ring with your thumb and forefinger.
b) Place your ring around the base of the penis pulling the skin taut.
c) Start having sex and hold on tight

This will allow both of you deeper and longer lasting sexercise as it will increase blood flow to the penis making the man harder and much more able to fuck the woman harder.

3. The Counter Top
This just feels dirty whenever anybody talks about it…which is great!

How to do it
a) Choose a counter – any will do but a kitchen top or table is usually the best.
b) Sling the woman on her back on top of it and enter her deeply

Simple. Fun. Effective. You can sling whatever’s on the counter to one side – papers, plates etc. – creating a greater sense of urgency to the sex and making the session so much more enjoyable.

4. Coital Alignment
This may sound like a science experiment but it’s actually a clever way of helping a woman achieve a mind blowing clitoral orgasm.

How to do it
a) Start off in the missionary position
b) Once the man is inside, the woman shift her legs slowly together putting them between his.
c) The man then shifts his weight slightly forward so the shaft of his erection produces firm pressure and friction on the woman’s clitoris as he moves.
d) Keep going until you both come and come and come again!

Missionary gets a lot of stick, but it’s still popular with both sexes for the reasons above. We’ll explore some more exotic sex positions for you to try in the near future.

Until then, happy fucking!

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The best way to have standing sex with your fuck buddy

Best Sex Positions...as voted by you!