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Finding The O

jeni — Mon, 22 Feb 2021 08:00:00 +0000

22 Feb 2021 - 08:00 | Tags: finding orgasms, making women orgasm

As a guy having an orgasm is pretty easy. Hell, we can probably jerk ourselves off twenty times before breakfast and still have enough left in the tank for brunch. Making a woman have an orgasm – and we mean a proper orgasm – has often been likened to climbing Mount Everest, with a car strapped to your back, wearing nothing but a pair of swim shorts in minus 30 degrees. Basically it often feels like an uphill struggle with a massive weight of responsibility coupled with performance anxiety that can leave the woman cold.

But is it really that difficult to make a woman come or are we just being selfish pricks?

Getting the girl off
The number one concern most guys have when trying to please a woman is whether or not they’ll be able to maintain an erection long enough to give her the huge O she’s gagging for.

Newsflash fuck fans; many women regularly don’t orgasm during intercourse so don’t blow a load if you…well blow your load too early. Simply follow our expert direction and you can both enjoy reality bending orgasms mutually.

Rule 1 – KILL YOUR STRESS LEVEL
If you want to get your fuck buddy off as well as yourself then the first thing you need to do is chill the fuck out. Nothing kills sex faster than someone who is too much in their head.

Sex is supposed to be relaxing, enjoyable and fun. If you’re worrying about work or money or whatever then you’re not going to come close to having an orgasm.

Rule 2 – CLITORAL STIMULATION FOR HER
The 15 minute orgasm has achieved a cult like status thanks to Cosmopolitan along with thousands of testimonials given by fans. The great thing is we’ve field tested it and guess what; it works.
If you want to give a girl a mind altering orgasm or as a girl you want your guy to get off his butt and do some hard labour on you try this.

1. Guy sits on the right side of the woman with his left leg lying perpendicular across her body between her tits and ass.
2. Facing outward guy places his left hand under the girl’s ass with two fingers on both butt cheek and his thumb resting on the base (not the entrance) to the vagina.
3. Using the palm of his right hand guy separates labia and retracts the clitoral hood.
4. Guy anchors the clitoris with his right thumb by holding the hood back.
5. Guy should now imagine looking at the clitoris from directly between the girl’s legs.
6. Guy should find the 1 o’clock position as he faces the clitoris – hint; it’s a small indentation/groove – with his right hand’s forefinger.
7. Guy begins to stroke the groove using the lightest touch – if you go too hard you can actually hurt the woman.
8. Once guy has found the groove and begun stroking it, continue gently and constantly like a metronome.
9. Woman should begin feeling intense pleasure and warmth after only a few minutes once the groove has been found.
10. Keep going.
11. Things will get hazy for the woman. Keep going.
12. Woman will start to moan with pleasure. Keep going.
13. Woman might actually start tearing at you in ecstasy. Keep going.
14. Woman will experience a constant building orgasm. Keep going.
15. Woman passes out with pleasure. Stop and get a glass of water.
16. Woman wakes up. Smile and ask her if she wouldn’t mind returning the favour.
17. Woman returns the favour.
18. Both parties fully satisfied. Job done.

Rule 3: CHILL OUT
We cannot stress this hard enough! If you don’t relax the chances of either of you having a decent orgasm if any are virtually zero.

Summary
Finding the perfect O isn’t as hard as it’s been made out to be. All you have to do really is chill out, have fun exploring each other’s bodies and go for it.

Happy fucking!

Great Sex VS Hard Orgasm

EdBennett — Sat, 18 Jun 2016 08:32:59 +0000

18 Jun 2016 - 09:32 | Tags: great sex, simultaneous orgasms, making women orgasm

There are many different ways to have sex. You can have it indoors, you can have it outdoors. You can have it traditionally on a bed, you can have it not traditionally on the floor, you can go alternative and do it in the cupboard or on top of the television. You can do it simple and vanilla, you could go super kinky and do it with ropes and toys. Sometimes you will want to do it fast and hard, other times you might want to do is slow and soft. There are days when you want to make love to the other person, and there are other times when what you both want is just a good hard fuck.

Even if the mechanics of it are similar, the quality of the actual sex can differ massively. Sometimes the sex is mind blowingly amazing, and other times, well let’s just say that everyone and I mean everyone has times when the sex is so unsatisfactory that actually afterwards it was clear that you would both have been better of if you hadn’t bothered at all!

The ideal situation is that you have great sex that finishes in a really hard orgasm – for both of you. It rarely happens at the same time mind you, but getting a period of cross over is enough I think. Did you ever think about the difference between the two though?

Having an orgasm and having great sex are so intertwined, so synonymous with each other that actually we forget that they are two different measurements points, that whilst they come hand in hand, they can be of very different strengths! Allow me to expand.

Having great sex is about so much more than just the orgasm – and can in fact not even include each other! Great sex is about the build up, the setting. It is about the tease, about how much you want each other in the moment, about how much you turn each other on to the point where you are ready to rip each other’s clothes off and fuck really hard. It is also about the experience, if you do it in a different or exciting way, then it can be really exciting sex!

Having an Orgasm is about the actual act of coming. You can come to different levels as well, so you can come, or you can come really hard! So there are better and worse orgasms.

The interesting thing is that whilst they often come hand in hand, you can have one without the other, and you can excel in one area with out the other being that high a level. An awareness of this can help you to endure that all your nights are one to remember – so keep an eye on both!

You always come first

EdBennett — Thu, 15 Oct 2015 15:59:49 +0000

15 Oct 2015 - 16:59 | Tags: female orgasm, finding orgasms, making women orgasm, simultaneous orgasms

There is a bad joke that men come first in the bedroom, that women come second or not at all. Regardless of the strength or quality of the joke, there is a Tendency for men to come first in the bedroom, period. Men and women are built differently on a biological level that we have no ability to change, so let’s start by accepting that and moving on. So there are two things to be addressed here, men coming early and women coming late.

Women – learn to come, because there is only so much men can do

There is an understanding that men make women come. This is something that both men and women want to believe, and it is often true in the moment of orgasm. However, there is something which can effectively bottle neck or strangle hold the man’s ability to make her come. The question is can she come in the first place.

When a woman comes, she is the one doing it. Her body has to be relaxed enough, free from enough stress and worry, and turned on enough to orgasm. Her partner will have a lot to building towards this, but fundamentally does she know how to come? If she does not, if she has never come or has real trouble orgasming, if there is a mental or physical block preventing her from orgasm or even a medical issue – there will be nothing the man can do about it. I want to repeat this as it is so important. If the woman does not know how to come, there will be nothing their partner can do about it. It is important that the woman take responsibility for her own body and learn how to come herself. Once she can do this, it paves the way for good sex.

Men – work on your control

Again it is a stereo type that men come quickly and uncontroably. Well gentleman, it is normal to be bad at tennis if you have never spent time getting good at tennis, right? So the same is true here. Unless you make time and effort to get *good* at sex you will never get better.
Spend time learning control. There are a number of ways that you can do this, stop start technique is one that is tried and tested and that many people swear by. The other thing is “edging” - bringing yourself to the brink of coming then stopping everything in order to calm down. Learning the point of your edge is a great way to be able to recognise it when it approaches and then stop yourself from going over the edge.

Regardless: You must sort yoursex out

No one else can teach your body how to do this – only you can. So take the time to learn how to come in the way that you want to come, your orgasms will never be better than after you have done this.