F-Buddy.com - physical health

To spit or swallow, that is the question

EdBennett — Sat, 18 Jun 2022 17:18:36 +0000

18 Jun 2022 - 18:18 | Tags: blow job tips, physical health

When it comes to the repertoire of things you can do during sex, giving or getting a blow job (for many people) is part of a staple diet of things to do in the bedroom. Whether it is with a long term fuck buddy or with someone you just hooked up with, blow jobs are the best! They are a great way to make a man come, they can be done discretely in places other than the bedroom or the safety and privacy of your own home, and they can also be a great thing if the person giving the blow job is not interested in having sex but wants to be generous to their fuck buddy that really does want to have sex. All-in-all, blow jobs are just brilliant. This brings us to the question for the person giving the blow job, to spit or to swallow? This is the question!

Personal preference

The first thing is that certain people may already have a strong preference. For some people swallowing someone else’s semen gives them a heightened sense of intimacy with that person, for others it is a real no-go and they just don’t like it. It is important that if you are with someone who has a strong feeling either way that you respect that feeling of theirs.

Is spitting or swallowing better?

The answer here is simple, neither is “better” it really is a personal choice. The spitting/swallowing happens after the man has come, so it rarely affects the orgasm of the person in question. That being said, some men find it sexy or like it when their partner swallows, but this is a mental preference, it is not a biological drive.

Is swallowing safe?

If you have a sexually transmitted disease, then swallowing semen could be an issue. If there is no STI in play then swallowing is completely safe and can be done without any stress or concern. In case it needs to be said, swallowing a man’s semen, if you are a woman, cannot make you pregnant. I think this is widely known, but I mention it for the avoidance of doubt.

Top tip on how to swallow a man’s semen should you chose to do so

Don’t try and swallow your fuck buddy’s semen all at once, do it in bits. Some men can come quite hard with a lot of semen, so swallowing in stages can help to deal with the volume. If you have your fuck buddy’s penis quite deep in your mouth you might find that the sensation of the semen hitting the back of your throat can induce a gag reflex... if this is the case and it becomes a problem ask your fuck buddy to indicate when they are about to come so that you can better deal with this.

So the choice ultimately is yours, but I hope you found this helpful when thinking about this as a choice.

Triggers to a low sex drive – physical issues

EdBennett — Sat, 18 Sep 2021 12:42:33 +0000

18 Sep 2021 - 13:42 | Tags: low sex drive, casual sex problems, physical health

We all have different times in our lives when we experience either a lower or higher sex drive. For nearly all of us, the seasons can change this. We all are driven more in the spring and the summer to have sex than in the autumn and winter. This is why it is particularly easy to find a fuck buddy in the spring and summer months. We usually have more people sign up to the website and we also see a large number of successes. That is not to say you cannot find someone outside of these months of course! It is simply that as a general, the population’s sex drive is higher at certain times of the year. There are of course other triggers to a low sex drive. In this article, we are going to focus on the physical reasons that may cause a low sex drive in you or your fuck buddy. If you think you, or your friend with benefits, is experiencing any of these, we would highly recommend you address the issue. It will benefit both of you in the long term.

Alcohol

Whilst drinking one glass of wine, beer, or another small amount of alcohol can put you in the mood, drinking too much can have a very real impact on your sex drive. Alcohol is a well known depressant, and as per its name it does, indeed, depress the desire for sex over time. In the moment if you are a man, it can also reduce the ability to have sex, so that is also something to be aware of! If you find you or your fuck buddy are drinking a lot and regularly, you may want to consider cutting down.

Surgery

If you have had any kind of surgery or medical operations, this can affect your sex drive. Even something that is considered a “minor” operation by modern standards can have an effect on your drive and desire for sex. So if you or your fuck buddy have had some kind of surgery recently, consider giving it a little time before firing back up to full sexual steam. A dip in desire may be caused by that, and nothing more.

Fatigue

A lack of sleep and tiredness can be a strong contributor to a low sex drive. This can be caused by working long hours, dealing with stressful home or family issues, or insomnia or other causes of fatigue and tiredness. If you or your fuck buddy are experiencing this, then you need to solve the tiredness before you try and solve the sex issue. You can’t do the latter without dealing with the former.

So, there are my physical reasons. In the next article we are going to pick up on other causes of a low sex drive.

Having a fuck buddy is healthy!

EdBennett — Sun, 28 Mar 2021 23:16:24 +0000

29 Mar 2021 - 00:16 | Tags: health benefits to sex, sex is healthy, physical health

In these current times, people are more aware of their health than ever. The coronavirus pandemic swept the globe and it took hundreds of thousands of people. In the wake of those deaths, many people are now looking to try and increase their health in order to be fighting fit in case they catch anything. People are trying to work out and take more exercise, they are also looking to their diets and food intake to do the same. There are many ways of improving your health, but one thing that most people overlook is having sex! Having a fuck buddy and having regular sex can be a great way to increase your health and happiness. Don’t believe me? Well, read on!

It's great for your heart

Having sex with someone else has been shown to be great for your heart. This has been shown to be especially the case if you are woman, with a 2016 study showing that women who have sex have lower risks of cardiac issues later in life. So you are making yourself and your fuck buddy’s heart stronger!

Blood pressure is reduced by sex

The very same 2016 study that spoke about the heart also proved that it can have a positive effect on blood pressure, reducing it. So if you have high blood pressure then having regular sex is a great way to solve it. This is a particularly good idea as the alternatives are bad for sex. Medication for high blood pressure has been shown to reduce the desire for sex (libido) and also can cause erectile dysfunction. So if you have high blood pressure, grab a fuck buddy before you reach for the pills, it is much better and a lot more fun!

Sex with your fuck buddy boosts your immune system

Having a generally stronger immune system can help you fight off and recover faster from all sorts of diseases, including COVID-19. Research has shown that if you have regular sex you will likely have a stronger immune system. The way they measured with was by showing that the fuck buddies had more immunoglobin A. So having sex will likely improve your overall immune system.

So there are my top three reasons why having sex with your fuck buddy is good for your health. If you don’t have a regular squeeze at the moment, why not jump online and see if you can find someone now?

Climbing Your Sexual Peak

jeni — Tue, 30 Jul 2013 08:00:00 +0000

30 Jul 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: age, causal sex, mental health, physical health, sexual peak

Buddha once observed, “Inner calm cannot be maintained unless physical strength is constantly and intelligently replenished.”

Buddha’s observation is more relevant to hitting your sexual peak then any observation of age, and maintaining your physical health can have a huge affect on your sex life.

The Traditional & Medical Views
It has long been held that men hit their sexual peak in their teens – usually around the age of 18 – when testosterone levels are at their highest. Erections are more frequent and hard and sex pretty much invades the mind to a frightening level.

Women tend to hit their sexual peak later – usually in their late 20s and throughout their 30s. This is when their hormone levels are at their highest and the body just wants to reproduce. Heightened chemical reactions cause women to be sexually voracious in their appetite.

But do peak hormone levels mean peak performance?

The reality of sex levels
Men in their 50s report enjoying sex for longer and more regularly then they did in their teens. Similarly women in their 30s and 40s report being up for it more then at any time when they were in their 20s. Whilst it’s true that you can fuck like bunnies when you’re younger, it is also true that you fuck harder, fuck more and fuck everywhere like bunnies the older you get.

Physical and mental health are key components to this.

Physical & Mental
The most sex you have in your life will not translate to the best sex you have in your life. We’re only human and it takes us time to learn what we like and don’t like when we’re younger. The older we get, the longer we can go. This has a lot to do about living a well balanced healthy lifestyle. People who exercise regularly and have a good diet are more likely to have a mind blowing sex life then their slightly less fit counterparts.

We’re not saying that people who don’t exercise don’t enjoy a full sex life – they do and then some! – but they are less likely to maintain a consistently high sexual peak. We have fuck buddies of all shapes and sizes signed up to this site, but they will all have different tastes and levels of sexual stamina. The higher your stamina, the more likely you are to be able to maintain a consistent sexual peak well beyond what the medical research states.

Fuck the peak!
For all the research and opinion one thing is very clear: men and women of all shapes, ages and size, peak at different times. Our advice is simple; if you want to extend your peak or hit it constantly, try doing a little exercise every day. If you’re constantly horny and don’t want to exercise, try doing it anyway just before you meet up with a fuck buddy and see what happens to your sex drive.

We’d be delighted to hear your feedback!