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Triggers to a low sex drive – psychological issues

EdBennett — Tue, 28 Sep 2021 19:45:29 +0000

Welcome to the fuck buddy website, the place where we help like-minded individuals meet other people on the adult dating circuit for some no harm fun. Last article we spoke about triggers to a low sex drive. Having a high sex drive is important when adult dating. The main reason that people are getting together is for the sex. If the sex is not happening then the other person is not going to hang around for that much time! Some people suffer from a low sex drive and this can be caused by many things. Some of those things can be physical, which we spoke about in our article on physical triggers to a low sex drive. In this article, we are going to talk about the psychological issues that can reduce your sex drive. The same as last time, we would advise that if you or your fuck buddy are experiencing any of these, we would highly recommend that you talk to your sex partner about it. In this case, psychological issues are often harder to talk about than physical issues, so approach it softly and gently, and we advise a high level of sensitivity here. That said, here are our triggers to a low sex drive as driven by issues of the mind.

Anxiety or depression

These are strong suppressors of sexual desire. Being stressed in bed can make it hard to orgasm. Being anxious can prevent an ability to even make it to the bedroom in the first place. Depression can be equally devastating on someone’s desire to have sex. This can affect anyone. Someone who was previously perfectly healthy and great in bed, could find themselves suffering from a bout of depression or anxiety which really reduces their ability to function in all areas of life. This can effect their work, their friendships, and it certainly affects their desire for sex. If you or your fuck buddy are suffering from either of these, we would advise seeking professional help.

Stress

Stress is a sex killer. If you are stressed out, you may find you just don’t want to have sex. The desire can completely dissipate. If this is happening, rather than forcing the sex, we suggest addressing the cause of the stress first, Once steps have been taken to solve that, the desire to have sex will come back again.

Low self-esteem

Having low self-esteem will reduce the desire for sex. This can often, but not always, be linked to having a poor body image. Ironically, having sex with a fuck buddy can sometimes be a healthy source of evidence as to why the person suffering from these issues is wrong! Someone sleeping with you can be a clear indication that you do have a great body and that you have reasons to be more confident. If you or your fuck buddy are having these issues, speaking to each other about it can be both a source of comfort and a source of solution. We highly recommend it.

Have sex to improve your mental health

EdBennett — Sun, 22 Nov 2020 09:17:29 +0000

22 Nov 2020 - 09:17 | Tags: mental health, coronavirus sex

There are a lot of conversations happening at the moment about mental health. The last 6 months of COVID-19 and the many fatalities that it has brought to the country have been hard on a lot of people. Furthermore, the reduced contact that a lot of people have had with their loved ones has been quite hard. Even just no longer seeing those people that you gave no thought to previously has had a detrimental effect. The person in the shop where you grab the paper, the guy you grab your coffee from in the morning, that person that you nod to in the lift that is usually running late for work the same as you and you do not even know their name! The last 6 months has seen a general reduction in that level of human contact and that has not been good for us. We are designed to be social creatures and the need to interact is part of who we are as humans. Some people are more introverted and those people are thriving right now, but sadly for most of us we cope a lot less well. So what can we do to improve our mental health? Well, one of the best ways to improve your mental health is to have sex, which means that right now having a fuck buddy is especially good for you!

When you have sex it releases a large number of happy hormones into your body which helps your sense of self-worth and wellbeing. The exercise that you also get when you have sex is quite considerable! At the moment we are getting less exercise as a nation than we have ever gotten before at this time of year. Having sex is a real work out for the body… there is a reason that we talk about having sweaty bodies rubbing up against each other. That sweat is a very real thing and it comes from the calorie-burning exercise that we get from getting down and dirty with a fuck buddy. You also benefit from the closeness with another person in a world that is currently lacking that physical contact due to the coronavirus. That contact is excellent for your mental health.

So if you are feeling a little down or are struggling with this time, consider jumping online and message a few people to see if you are the fuck buddy that they are looking for. What have you got to lose?

Climbing Your Sexual Peak

jeni — Tue, 30 Jul 2013 08:00:00 +0000

30 Jul 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: age, causal sex, mental health, physical health, sexual peak

Buddha once observed, “Inner calm cannot be maintained unless physical strength is constantly and intelligently replenished.”

Buddha’s observation is more relevant to hitting your sexual peak then any observation of age, and maintaining your physical health can have a huge affect on your sex life.

The Traditional & Medical Views
It has long been held that men hit their sexual peak in their teens – usually around the age of 18 – when testosterone levels are at their highest. Erections are more frequent and hard and sex pretty much invades the mind to a frightening level.

Women tend to hit their sexual peak later – usually in their late 20s and throughout their 30s. This is when their hormone levels are at their highest and the body just wants to reproduce. Heightened chemical reactions cause women to be sexually voracious in their appetite.

But do peak hormone levels mean peak performance?

The reality of sex levels
Men in their 50s report enjoying sex for longer and more regularly then they did in their teens. Similarly women in their 30s and 40s report being up for it more then at any time when they were in their 20s. Whilst it’s true that you can fuck like bunnies when you’re younger, it is also true that you fuck harder, fuck more and fuck everywhere like bunnies the older you get.

Physical and mental health are key components to this.

Physical & Mental
The most sex you have in your life will not translate to the best sex you have in your life. We’re only human and it takes us time to learn what we like and don’t like when we’re younger. The older we get, the longer we can go. This has a lot to do about living a well balanced healthy lifestyle. People who exercise regularly and have a good diet are more likely to have a mind blowing sex life then their slightly less fit counterparts.

We’re not saying that people who don’t exercise don’t enjoy a full sex life – they do and then some! – but they are less likely to maintain a consistently high sexual peak. We have fuck buddies of all shapes and sizes signed up to this site, but they will all have different tastes and levels of sexual stamina. The higher your stamina, the more likely you are to be able to maintain a consistent sexual peak well beyond what the medical research states.

Fuck the peak!
For all the research and opinion one thing is very clear: men and women of all shapes, ages and size, peak at different times. Our advice is simple; if you want to extend your peak or hit it constantly, try doing a little exercise every day. If you’re constantly horny and don’t want to exercise, try doing it anyway just before you meet up with a fuck buddy and see what happens to your sex drive.

We’d be delighted to hear your feedback!