Sex fantasy verses reality

EdBennett — Wed, 12 Oct 2016 18:33:47 +0000

12 Oct 2016 - 19:33 | Tags: sex fantasies, sex fantasies trouble, roleplay

There have always been a huge surge of sex role play games, sex fantasies and icons and certain roles that we find sexy. There are some classics which you will find all too familiar. The sexy fireman or policeman fantasy is something that most women are really into – something about a man who as his job “protects and serves” turns girls week at the knees, I wonder why. For men it tends to be a lot more based on looks rather than agency! The sexy stripper, the sexy nurse, the sexy school girl fantasy... it is all about women who are hot and slightly subservient to their desires and needs. Britney Spears has a lot to answer for when it comes to the sexy school girl thing. The funny thing is that it is fantasy that people want, not the actual reality – and I mean this on both sides.

Reality VS Fantasy – for women

If you are a girl and you want the sexy policeman in the uniform, you want the fantasy. The reality of being with a man married to the force, who spends all of his time at work, leaves early, comes home late, and only really socialises with other policemen is not actually all that great. You want only the good sexy sides of it, not the gruelling reality that comes with it. The same is true of a fireman. He not only works longer hours, but actually has to sleep over night at the fire station a lot, has to therefore also pull shift work (nights and days mixed) and because of this sleep pattern is potentially around even less. This is not actually all that fun.

Reality VS Fantasy – for men

It is also all too true if you are a man. You think you want to be dating a stripper, and of all the cudos that your mates will give you for fucking a stripper, because she is hot, right? Well she may be hot – but that sweet body spends its evenings and nights being ogled at, stroked and touched by other men all night. She comes home at something o’clock in the morning, and eventually she gets a little older and has to quit stripping. This is not actually what you want, you just wanted the fantasy. As for the school girl fantasy – this will land you in jail. End of story. You definitely did NOT want it for real.

It is okay to have the fantasy, and I would encourage you to explore it – do so as a game though. Do not aim for the actual real thing, there lies fool’s gold.

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jeni — Sun, 11 Aug 2013 08:00:00 +0000

11 Aug 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: roleplay, sex games

The name’s Bond, James Bond.

Pupils dilate, breathing becomes faster, and women everywhere begin to get wet between the thighs.

Okay, so James Bond may not be every woman’s (and men for that matter) sexual fantasy of choice, but the example does throw an exciting light into the realm of sexual role play. Why settle for standard sex when you can live out a dirty fantasy you’ve been harbouring secretly for years. Having a fuck buddy is the perfect excuse to act out a sex scenario you’ve been lusting after.

If you’re looking for inspiration we have come up with 5 ways to make a fuck buddy gag for sex.

1. The Call Girl/Prostitute Fantasy
Okay girls, I know what you’re thinking – this is sick. But you’d be surprised how many fantasies guys have about hiring a call girl in to satisfy their every carnal wish with no irritating ‘emotional’ baggage in tow. And is it really that sick? If you’re a woman reading this admit it, how many times have you imagined being taken from behind by a sexy repairman who’s come to fix your boiler/TV/insert-relevant-household-appliance-here? With a fuck buddy there is even less embarrassment to be had by acting the part of a call girl when going to visit your pal. Try it out and see how it goes.

2. The Virginal Princess
Thanks to films like Snow White & The Huntsman not to mention the myriad of fairy tale shows on the TV right now, the princess sex fantasy is back on the gourmet menu. Try acting out a fairy tale scenario with your fuck buddy. The guy can be Prince Charming coming to rescue the girl’s virginal princess from the evil witch or queen. Acting all innocent can seriously amp up the sexual tension so that when you end up fucking like bunnies, the experience is so much more intense.

3. Dress up like a School Girl or a Cheerleader
Nothing (and I mean NOTHING) can turn on a guy as much as seeing a woman dressing up like a school girl or a high school cheerleader. The forbidden nature of doing it with a teenager makes him feel sexually powerful and for the woman makes her feel innocent and young again. Try it out and see just how much you can enjoy the experience.

4. Superman Arrives To Bang Lois Lane
Superhero sex is incredible. Characters with a history of sexual tension like Clark Kent and Lois Lane or Batman and Catwoman can be amazing to get into. Go all out and dress up in a skin tight cat suit or spandex Superman outfit. When you look totally different from the usual, you’ll feel different too. It’s amazing how much an outfit can bring to the bedroom.

5. Welcome To The Jungle
We’re all animals. We eat, we sleep, we shit, and we fuck. So why not act like animals in the bedroom as well? As a guy you ever liked it when a woman digs her nails into your back and claws you like a wild tiger? Girls do you like it when a guy throws you onto your front and mounts you from behind like a lion? Throw caution to the wind with a fuck buddy and behave like the wild animals we all are at heart. You might be surprised by how much you enjoy the experience.

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Sex fantasy verses reality

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