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Why people are hornier in the summer

EdBennett — Sat, 18 Jun 2022 17:15:51 +0000

18 Jun 2022 - 18:15 | Tags: how to get sex this summer, summer sex

The summer is coming in and as long as you live in the northern hemisphere, the world is about to become a hornier place! We all have individual times where we are more or less horny, and those levels of hormones can drive us to do certain things and affect our decision making. The phrase “think with your d*ck” came from somewhere after all! I would like to mention that there is no judgement made in this article. There are times when allowing yourself to be driven by your emotions and hormones can be a good thing! Being driven by hormones can help you take action when you would otherwise be held back by fear or insecurity. It can push you take risks and leaps of faith, so the presence of some hormones to drive action is no bad thing at all… and in the summer those hormones that help to drive you to find fuck buddy get a next level boost! If we have ever exercised a consideration of our own levels, we may have noticed the boost during the summer months, relative to what ever it is we usually feel. So why is it that we are hornier in the summer months?

Nature – the rhythm of the seasons

If we look at the cycle of nature in the wild, the perfect time to give birth to offspring is the spring. The weather is warm, everything is growing easily, there is an abundance of food with which to feed any young that are birthed during those months. The spring, in the animal kingdom, is the time that animals give birth. We are no different when we boil it down. The human race has a 9 month gestation period, which means that if you have sex and get pregnant in the summer, you will be giving birth in the spring. This is the perfect time to enhance the chances of your offspring’s survival… when we lived in the wild that is! Whilst this is not so much of a problem in the modern day, I am not sure that our biology has caught up with us yet, which is why this still drives us.

Nurture – we are unused to seeing so much skin!

As a society we chose to cover ourselves and our bodies for most of the year. This is a choice made by society… then the summer arrives and suddenly everyone is showing a lot more skin! We see legs, chests and in terms of women we tend to see a lot more boobs then we did before. This, naturally, makes us more horny because we are unaccustomed to seeing it all on display!

So these are two of the reasons we are more horny in the summer. I gently suggest that you and your fuck buddy enjoy it whilst it is happening!

Why hitting on someone in the summer can be more intimidating but you are more likely to be successful

EdBennett — Fri, 20 May 2022 22:56:25 +0000

20 May 2022 - 23:56 | Tags: hitting on girls, how to get sex this summer, summer sex

Summer is a peak period for finding someone of the opposite sex for adult dating. According to research by the Journal of the Royal Society of Medicine, summer really is the time that the most people have sex. This is not just hearsay evidence. Studies have been carried out, data has been analysed and results have been scrutinised. After all that work was done, it told us something that I could have told you off the top of my head without any need for all the time, effort and expense involved in the many studies that were carried out. More people are having sex in the summer than any other time of the year. It seems commonly accepted knowledge this, but it is nice to have the science behind it. If you are a man looking for a woman to be your fuck buddy, summer can also be one of the most intimidating times of the year to hit no someone, though you are also more likely to be successful. Allow me to expand on this.

In the summer there is so much more skin on show. The ladies pull out the short tops and even shorter skirts. You see legs, shoulders even some side boob will become a regular offering when it gets really hot. With global warming in full swing, the summers are getting hotter than ever, which means it really is time to show off… and that means that most women tend to look much more attractive. This is a good thing for everyone involved… but it can also make women seem more intimidating. Whether we like it or not, most of us set an internal level as to our “league” and hitting on someone who appears “out” of our league can be intimidating and a little scary. This means it can be harder to hit on someone that, 3 months ago, would have appeared to be “in” our league and therefore attainable.

There is hope, however! Summer is also the time of the year when you are most horny. With the summer comes an increased sex drive and desire for intimate time with the opposite sex. This means that it is easier because you are more hormone-driven. You can listen to your body more which will help you get over any fears or doubts and get in and have a go!

Best of luck with the summer.

Summer means sex doesn't have to wait till you get home

EdBennett — Fri, 13 Jul 2018 13:30:42 +0000

13 Jul 2018 - 14:30 | Tags: how to get sex this summer, summer sex

Summer is here and that brings with it a whole host of advantages that are waiting for you to cash in on. The longer days means that you have plenty of daylight hours after work to do all those things that in the dark become really unappealing. The warmth of the days means everyone is that little bit happier, which is a perfect time to push your life on by asking for that raise in salary that you have been wanting, or applying for a new job or position. It also means that whilst during the winter months, sex is something that is reserved purely for indoors in the warmth and comfort of a building, this simply is not the case anymore. You are now in a position where sex no longer has to wait till you get home!

Having sex in different places is a great way to mix things up and keep things real. Having sex somewhere that you are not “supposed” to be getting kinky, is something that is especially exciting. If you are having sex in a place for the first time, this in itself is exciting. If you have sex somewhere you are not supposed to be having sex, for the first time, then you are on to a guaranteed winner!

With the warmer days, sex outside becomes a real possibility. It is, of course, possible all year round, but that usually takes some planning. With summer sex on the table, you can do this with little or no planning at all. You can afford to be spontaneous, to find yourself walking down the street with a fuck buddy or someone you just hooked up with, and if the mood takes you both, you can take each other there and then!

The only thing you need to do is find a quiet spot. This can now be anywhere, and it will depend on your personal tastes as to what this is. For some people, if you are into the busy city worker fantasy, perhaps it’s a quiet street or a dead-end alleyway. For those of you more into nature, it may be a lonely bit of parkland, or a quiet field somewhere. If you have a car, why not take a detour to somewhere quiet – or perhaps even get familiar with the seat adjustment controls on your car seat so you can get maximum lean and space for some in-flight-entertainment.

The summer beings a whole host of pre-home opportunities with it. Be sure to take advantage of them whilst you can.

Summer is here, sex is served

EdBennett — Sun, 20 May 2018 15:55:10 +0000

20 May 2018 - 16:55 | Tags: summer sex, how to get sex this summer

The summer is here, and sex is served! When the weather warms up, the number of people that are getting laid each week goes up. Don’t believe me? Think out this for a moment. Our desire to have sex comes from a deep-seated, deep routed hard coded desire to procreate. It is hardcoded into us, we cannot escape nor can we deny this. It simply is. This desire is thousands of years old, and as such exists from before the modern and very new inventions of electricity, central heating and imported foods, all of which have destroyed our need to move with the seasons. We are able to live our lives in nearly the same way in both summer and winter. Go back a short few hundred years, and the winters would see people huddled together for warmth, and the summer was the time to get down and dirty. There is also the evolutionary imperative as well. If you have sex in the summer, with a 9 month gestation period, you are giving birth in the spring, when the trees are flowering fruit, and there is food aplenty and warm days. The perfect environment to bring a new born into the world. We are made to have sex in the summer.

So now the summer is here, you should take advantage! You were born to have sex at this time of year, and so were all the people that you might decide to have sex with! They want to sleep with you, just as much as you want to sleep with them. The seasons are driving your hormones to it. Summer is here, and sex is on the menu and ready to be served! Now is the perfect time to be having it, so why let the other person and yourself down by not doing it?

Sex is so on the cards, the effort you have to make to have it is considerably lower than usual. In the summer, even just being in the right place at the right time will get you laid! So now is the perfect time to send a message, set up a new online profile, let your friend set you up on that blind date they have been going on about, or even just have a night out on the town with some friends and see where that goes.

Have a sexy summer.

What is it about summer?

EdBennett — Fri, 12 May 2017 18:08:44 +0000

12 May 2017 - 19:08 | Tags: summer sex, hot girls

With the summer coming in, all of the beautiful women start to come out of the woodwork. I mean all of them! Suddenly the streets seem filled with beautiful women that you would love to date, kiss and have sex with. There is more skin on show than ever before, and all the girls seem to be dressed to show off their best assets. All the normal looking ones look really good, and the good looking ones are elevated to the status of stunning. As for the stunning ones, well, they give you cause to believe that the gods really do exist and that they really do seem to occasionally come down to earth manifest as angles in a womanly body! There is something about summer that seems to just make it happen, and it seems to happen each and every year. Like every single year. So what is it about summer that brings out the honeys from their hiding hole?

The heat removes clothes

You know that song, “it’s getting hot in here, so take off all your clothes”? Well there was some truth in that! When the weather gets hotter, everyone wears less, and that makes the girls look more attractive. Yes there are the occasional girl that really looks less attractive when they are wearing less clothes – usually because they tend to be quite large! No one wants to see the folds of fat as they drip down the sides of their bodies – it is just not attractive. For the most part though seeing a little leg does tend to turn you on, and the more turned on you get the better everyone looks. A bit of really good cleavage can really change a man’s day, and for the larger women out there I have some advice – use your boobs!

The heat increases horniness

The general increase in temperature increases over all horniness. The more easily that people get turned on, the better everyone looks. Simple. There is a correlation between how hot a girl looks and how horny you are, just as there is a correlation between how good someone looks and how drunk you are. The summer raises everyone’s hormones and that makes everyone look better!

The summer makes you want to have sex

We are creatures that are born in nature, and in nature with a 9month birth cycle, you have sex in the summer so that you can bear your children in the spring. That is nature – so of course we are encouraged by nature to have more sex in the summer!

So take advantage – the girls want to have sex just as much as the men do – so get out there and get laid!

Does summer affect your sex drive?

EdBennett — Thu, 12 Jun 2014 20:18:51 +0000

12 Jun 2014 - 21:18 | Tags: summer sex

With summer fast approaching women are starting to wear less and less. Just this morning I’ve witnessed at least a dozen crop tops, seven cases of short skirts and at least several pairs of tight cotton leggings. It’s like a conveyor belt of hot women suddenly decided to come out to play in the sun. But is it all a bit of a tease? With all the flesh on display it’s hardly surprising that I and pretty much every other straight man are getting hot under the collar. Yet despite all the sunshine, bare flesh and panting men, is it all just meaningless foreplay? Are we getting hornier as the sun gets hotter?

Heat vs Sex
Sunshine makes us all feel a lot better. The increased Vitamin D being absorbed into our bodies has many health benefits including increased hair growth, healthier skin and more endorphins being released into our blood stream. If we feel good, we feel more energised and able to do a lot more. So what about our sex drive?

Well there’ve been so many studies done into this over the years that it’s surprising no one has a definitive answer to this yet. The three schools of thought all disagree with some saying that the sex drive increases, others saying it drops and a third saying there’s no discernible difference.

Who’s right?

It all depends on the individual
Some people can’t handle the heat that well. If you’re one of those people then the idea of having lots of energetic hot and sweaty bedroom fun might not be so appealing. There are others (and I fall into this category) who like the sun, but can’t handle it when the temperatures hit 30 degrees plus. I start to wilt and despite being a horny fucker nearly 24/7…even I struggle to get up the will to hop into bed. I usually want a swim in the sea or a swimming pool first.

Then on the other scale there’s the sun lovers, the people who can’t get enough of their daily fix on sunshine. They’re more likely to be over active in the summer and less active in the winter. This in turn leads them to be much more likely to want sex more.

So what’s the answer?
Simple really; if you like the sun you’re more likely to want sex more. If you’re not the sun’s best friend then you might be more likely to want sex more in the autumn or winter.

My advice as always is to have as much sex as you want when you can.

Sex in the Great Outdoors

jeni — Sun, 08 Sep 2013 08:00:00 +0000

8 Sep 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: sex outside, summer sex

Summer is just around the corner so it’s time to dust down your handcuffs, break out the whipped cream and start thinking about what kind of fun you can have in the sun this year.

Kinky sex is a great way to plug an extra spark into a fuck buddy relationship so we’ve spent a while coming up with some ideas on what to do in the great outdoors. Think of it as an alternative guide on outdoor activities. And a lot more fun at that.

Top Sex Tips for the Great Outdoors

1. Make out on public transport. People say they’re uncomfortable watching other people kiss but we all know they’re just wishing it was them. Having people watching you can be a massive turn on.

2. Have sex at a summer party. The voyeuristic angle comes into play again, but this time you’re having sex with a very real risk of someone walking in on you. Saucy.

3. Go out into the middle of nowhere, strip off and take pictures of each other naked and in different poses before fucking one another’s brains out amongst nature.

4. Have sex in a friend’s garden. On their garden table if possible.

5. Pack up your camera and shoot yourself having sex in your friend’s garden.

6. Bring some ropes and tie each other up whilst having sex in your friend’s garden and shooting it on camera.

7. Send the video anonymously to your friend.

8. We might be only half joking about 7, but if you think your friend has a good sense of humour and knows you well enough, then you can probably get away with it.

9. Have resistance sex against a tree and pretend as if you’re being molested or groped.

10. Have sex in a public changing room like a swimming pool or a gym. This one is a huge turn on for many of the girls in our office!

11. Act out an adventure fantasy in the wild. Man plays the hunter, woman plays the hunted...or vice versa. Hunted gets a 1 minute head start. Hunter goes after the hunted. Once caught the hunter has sex with the hunted wherever they are caught.

12. Have sex in a river in the wilderness. Just watch you don’t get so carried away that the current takes you miles away or over a waterfall.

13. Have sex under a waterfall. Just don’t fall in.

14. Spank each other on the bus or the train. Pretend you don’t know what people are looking at – and they will look.

15. Have sex in the forest.

16. Have sex in the forest with another couple having sex right beside you.

Okay that’s enough for now…
We got a little carried away…but that should be enough of a jump start to your imaginations.

Happy fucking!