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Having sex for the first time with a fuck buddy

EdBennett — Mon, 25 May 2020 16:03:07 +0000

25 May 2020 - 17:03 | Tags: first time sex rules, sex on the first date

Everyone has a first time. It is not about how much sex you have after that, it makes no difference if you become the Casanova of your town, the Romeo to every girl around… that first time you have sex will always be remembered and always be a certain type of sex that you will never have again. Some people have the attitude that they want to have sex for the first time in a relationship that is really special, where there is a high chance of the relationship lasting. There is nothing wrong with this, the way that your lose your virginity is an entirely personal choice and I would encourage everyone to do what is right for them. What I will say, is that there are some big advantages to losing your virginity to a fuck buddy rather than someone that you are in a relationship with. To anyone that has yet to have sex for the first time, I would like to highly recommend it as an option. Here is my reasoning why having sex for the first time with a fuck buddy is a great idea.

Honesty about where you are at

For a lot of people, it is very hard to be sure that you are in a relationship that is going to last. There also comes a point where many people feel that they cannot progress the relationship without having sex. This can sometimes lead people to have sex under false pretenses. The lovely thing about having sex for the first time with a fuck is the honesty. You can be completely clear about where you are at emotionally and in terms of commitment. It is extremely liberating and can help to ensure that there is no “buyers remorse” afterwards.

Reduced pressure

There is a lot of pressure the first time that you have sex. Most of this is placed on us by ourselves, but we cannot help it. There is pressure to perform, pressure to “be good”, pressure to have a mind-blowing time whilst also rocking the other person’s world, pressure to go for a long time, pressure to come… the list is rather long! When you have sex for the first time with a fuck buddy, this pressure is removed. The extra level of honesty that is provided by the open nature of the relationship also means that there is a greater level of generosity. This can remove a lot of the pressure, causing you to have a much more positive experience.

A really great time!

With a fuck buddy, the focus is on the sex, not the relationship. This means that both of you are really looking at what will make the sex better. The first time you have sex you are feeling your way. This means that it will never be amazing. The honest conversations you can have with a fuck buddy about what is good/bad can quickly lead you to becoming a proficient lover and thus have a much better time in bed.

Having sex for the first time with a fuck buddy is a great choice. I highly recommend it.

For sex: RomComs are terrible and Horror films are amazing!

EdBennett — Thu, 19 Apr 2018 07:20:33 +0000

19 Apr 2018 - 08:20 | Tags: best films for sex, sex on the first date

So you meet a girl, she is a real honey and you want to drag this girl back to your cave as soon as humanly possible. You hope to turn her into one of your fuck buddies, maybe an occasional hook up booty, but you would happily accepts a one night stand if that was what was on offer. She wants it too, and is keen to meet up. She then drops the bomb… “lets go watch a film”. Now your instinct would be to go watch something romantic like a romcom. Your instinct is wrong, and you must ignore it. Here is why.

Romcoms set the bar at impossible levels

You think that RomComs are all romantic and the perfect date film. You are wholly incorrect. When we watch a film, it takes us into the world and allows us to live in that world for 90minutes. When we return back to reality, we cannot help but compare the world of the film to the world as we actually live in it… and this creates an inevitable sexual disappointment. No one in real life ever has sex like they do in the films. It is physically impossible, that is simply not the world that we live in! Real life can never be as smooth as it is in the films, you can never be as swave as james bond, as rich as Bruce Waine, as dark and dangerously handsome as the punisher. It is impossible, which means that when you take her home, no matter how much of a stallion you are, you will not be any where as good as what she is comparing you to, which is a non existent fantasy. A lie. Do not do this.

…allow me to offer you an alternative…

Horror films are the way to go!

Horror films are the perfect choice. Before you stop reading, bear with me. A horror film shows you a world that you would never want to inhabit, a place that you are not only glad you do not live it, that cannot wait to stop being a visitor in. When you return to reality, it is amazing. You love yourself, your life, and the person that you are with. The fear from the film has also spiked emotions so that you really want to have sex (fear does that) and you are ready to orgasm like never before. Your fuck buddy will keep coming back for more, because you took her from a dark, horrible world of death and ruin, to organically happy sexual heaven.

RomComs are a poor choice, but horror films on the other hand are your new best friend.

Using plausible deniability to ask her back to yours

EdBennett — Fri, 28 Apr 2017 16:06:40 +0000

28 Apr 2017 - 17:06 | Tags: getting her back, getting laid, sex on the first date

If a date is going well, both parties desire sex at the end of it. I want to be clear here, that is not to say that sex will definitely happen, only that it is what both people on the date actually want. So if you doubt that the person sitting opposite you wants to sleep with you, put all that doubt aside and know that it is the case. In many ways this is the only attitude that can serve you. If they don’t want to sleep with you then this is going nowhere anyway, if they do want to sleep with you then there is potential and it is possible that it is all good in the hood. If you act under the assumption that they don’t want to sleep with you then you will create the self fulfilling prophecy that leads you to finish the night alone in your bed. However, if you go with the take that they do want to sleep with you, if you are correct (and the odds are actually in your favour on this front) then you are much more likely to be able to manifest this into reality and be comfortably snuggled up with a warm and supple body next to you in the morning. All you need to do is ask them to come back to yours.

It is hard to ask

It has always been hard to ask this, because it will often time end in rejection. Well that is what your brain is telling you anyway. In reality the opposite is true but the only way you will ever believe that is by testing it and finding out for yourself. So it is hard because you don’t want the rejection, and they don’t want to feel like a slut for saying yes. The solution – don’t ask!

Ask a different question

You have to ask them to come back for sex without making it explicit that you are asking for sex, thus protecting your fragile ego and at the same time giving them the opportunity to say yes without feeling like a slut! How to do this? Here are some examples:

Come back and see my fish
Come ad meet my dog
Wanna come back for hot chocolate – it’s coffee for the 21st century!
You’ve never read XXX book? Crazy! Right we are going back to mine right now I am going to lend you my copy

It doesn’t matter how you ask it, the excuse is not important because really they know exactly what is going on, it just allows them to deny that they know what is going on, which is what they want to do!

So always ask them to come back to yours for sex, but do it in a way that allows them to ignore that you are talking about sex (even though they know exactly what is going on!).

Why the 3rd date sex is Prime time... and how to accelerate that to 1 date

EdBennett — Thu, 06 Apr 2017 18:52:28 +0000

6 Apr 2017 - 19:52 | Tags: getting laid, asking her back to yours, sex on the first date

Everyone knows that the third date is when you get it on. It has been a long enough time that you have had a chance to get to know each other a little, but not so long that there is going to be massive pressure on the sex, nor are you pot committed to the relationship so if you turn out to be sexually incompatible there is no bad feeling for never seeing each other again after that date is over. The third date is the perfect time for many people. It is socially acceptable so there is no chance of anyone feeling like a “slut” or getting any social backlash from anyone else around them as to the speed at which they decided to go for it. There has been a nice build up in the run up to it, and you generally feel like you know the person a little, he/she is not a stranger at the point where you have sex at the 3 date point.

The third date is perfect prime time sexy time. It is like the perfect combination of long enough for familiarity with the other person, but not too long that there is huge pressure on the sex or the relationship at the point where it happens. There is something about it, it is just right!

How to accelerate 3 dates into 1 date!

Say you don’t have time for three dates though. You are passing through the country and meet someone, or the person is about to leave the area, or you have cancer and are about to die, or you are just really impatient and love sex so much you want to do it immediately! It doesn’t matter the reason, there is one simple tried and tested way to accelerate the 3 date rule into sex on the first date. Here it is:

Do three venues

You go to the first bar and it feels like a date... but every time you move venues it makes you psychologically feel like it is a new day because it is a new experience. The brain interprets things differently, and so every new venue accelerates how quickly you can get to know someone, and how much you feel you know them. This means if you do three venues, you can make it feel like a third date and... BAM! Sex!

It really is as simple as this. Don’t believe me? Go out and try it – trust me, you are going to be so happy with the results!

How to have sex on the first date

jeni — Fri, 18 Oct 2013 08:00:00 +0000

18 Oct 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: sex on the first date

It’s manna from heaven; getting to have sex the first time you meet up with a woman. Of course it doesn’t always happen, but it does happen more than you think, and we’re going to tell you how you can increase your chances of it happening to you.

“I don’t usually do this…”
This one line is often spouted by hundreds of women who claim that they never sleep with a guy on a first date. They might even go out with that intention as well, but as we all know good intentions…

Sex for women is one power they hold absolutely over men. They go out on every date in the full knowledge that they and they alone will decide whether or not they want to sleep with a guy. The interesting thing is that this awareness can be reversed to work the man’s way too. As men we are socially conditioned to be the aggressor and woo a woman. But what if we toned that down and reversed our own mindset? What if we went out in the knowledge that we and we alone will decide whether or not we sleep with our date? What if our mindset was totally conditioned in thinking the same way a woman does when out on a first date? What if we were the ones saying the morning after “I don’t usually do this…” to a woman?

Well it’s this mental attitude that will help every man get sex on a first date. It may not happen the first time you try it, but if you keep practising you’ll find the results will come in your way.

To go with this attitude change there are several other things that will help you as well. Follow these little guidance notes and use them in conjunction with trying out your new mindset.

1. Appearance
Don’t turn up looking like you’ve been dragged through a hedge backwards. Everyone should take pride in their appearance as both men and women judge each other at least initially by how we look.

2. Physical Health
You don’t have to be Mr Muscles or Captain America to bed a hot woman on a first date, but if you dress well and keep yourself trim then it can go a long way to getting inside a woman’s knickers

3. Charm
This comes together with confidence. If you can be charming, funny and witty, then a woman will respond well and be more likely to accompany you to bed rather than just go home.

4. Confidence
I’ve seen the ugliest fattest blokes bed the most gorgeous attractive women and it had nothing to do with how they looked. Confidence is the most underrated attribute when it comes to bedding a woman. If you can go in with your head high and just be the best version of yourself with a ‘I don’t give a fuck what people think of me’ attitude, then you will be well on your way to scoring on a first date.

Happy fucking!