Temperature and sex – how to use hot and cold to your advantage
There are many things that will affect your ability to have sex, and your enjoyment of the sex. This is always different for different people, so I am going to highlight the usual and often seen fluctuations – but remember that everyone is wonderfully different, so you may find yourself on very d...
It’s business time
Have you heard the song “It’s business time” by the flight of the concords? It is a song that’s about it being business time, which, as you might have guessed, is nothing to do with the making of money. That’s right, it is about having sex. Whilst it is a comedy song, it brings with it come surpr...
Welcome to fuck buddy 2018
Welcome to the first month of the year, 2018 has arrived and exciting times await us all! I am a huge fan of new years. They provide an opportunity for a fresh start, for new things, new people, and a whole host of new sexual adventures to be had! The new year always brings with it change. People...
The advantages of not “liking” your fuck buddy
When we meet someone, and start sleeping with someone, there is often this natural feeling that we need to start to grow to like them in ways other than the simple desire to have orgasmic sex with them. We cannot help it, it is socially conditioned into us! We think that we need to start listenin...
Get your sex life on track
No matter where we are at, we are rarely where we want to be. The work life balance doesn’t exist, not really. If you are doing great at work, it is because you are neglecting your social life. If you have a rocking social life which is filled with fun, family and friends? Then your career is pro...
Emotion and sex
There are many things that drive us to have sex, and many things that will alter the quality and the intensity of the sex. It is about so much more than the actual act of having sex. It is about what it is happening underneath all of that, all the elements that come together to form your sexual e...
Member spotlight: Meet Marie
Welcome to December – and what a month of upheaval It is turning out to be! The imminent exit of the UK from the EU and the effect that is having on the soft border between Northern Ireland and Southern Ireland is potentially catastrophic! Don’t they realise? What if someone on the south side of ...
New year’s eve – one of the easiest times to get laid
If you are coming into new years and you haven’t got someone to sleep with over the holiday period, fear not! New year’s is one of the easiest times to sleep with someone. It is also the 2nd most popular time to become single, so a whole bunch of people are about to come on the market, and a bunc...
Our latest members, meet Hazel
Welcome to fuck buddy Ireland, the website where we help people seeking no strings attached relationships find each other! Here at fuck buddy, we feel that having sex is more than something fun to do, we think that it is an essential human right. No one should be denied the opportunity to have se...
Sex before sleep could be the key to a good night’s sleep
When we go to bed most of us have a routine of sorts. Perhaps we have a drink, then head upstairs and change into special clothes that we only wear at night. Often these are fluffy comfortable PJ’s – but for some people it is nothing at all! Whatever it is that suits you. Then maybe you brush you...
Sexual Fetishes
Sexual fetishes are a fascinating subject to most of us. We are not only interested in what we want in the bedroom (or outside the bedroom, or in a lift, or in public depending on your fetish!). We are also fascinated by what other people are into. We love hearing about other people’s sex lives, ...
Judge people by how they look
When it comes to being sexy and getting laid, how you look makes a huge difference. In the modern world, we may talk a lot about how it the person that matters, that what someone is like in terms of character and attitude is the most important thing. I am not saying that for some people that it i...
Re entering the sexual market place: how to get back in the game if you have been out for a while
When you in the throes of dating people, when you have hit your stride, the whole thing seems easy! You are focused on having fun and enjoying the ride and so you do enjoy the ride. It is sometimes hard to remember what it was like when you were first re-entering the sexual marketplace, and how n...
Member spotlight: Meet Tera
Welcome to October and another member spotlight! Each month we are happy to welcome all our new members to the fuck buddy website. These eager beavers are on the hunt for someone to fulfill that most human of needs, they are looking for someone to have sex with. The best part for you? Like yourse...
Why uniforms are sexy
We love uniforms. We use them all the time in our day to day lives, and not just because we have to because of a governing body that tells us we have to. We like it, it gives us a sense of place and identity. When we get up in the morning and we put on that uniform, whether it is a strict uniform...
To see or not to see, that is the question!
When it comes to having sex and sexual preferences, we are all different. We all have different favorite sexual positions, we all like sex at different times of the day, we all want to have sex at greater or lesser volumes. Some people want to only find a fuck buddy that wants to have sex outside...
The no hands game!
Sex is amazing! There is nothing like it. Nature has ensured that it is the greatest pleasure for one important reason, as long as we are all having lots of sex, then the human race will continue to survive and thrive. Yes there is of course the issue of contraception. Clear buggers that we are, ...
Member spotlight: Meet Emma
Welcome to fuck buddy Ireland, the website that helps you find other like-minded individuals to find no strings attached relationships. This last month has been an exciting time. With the All-Ireland Hurling championships having just finished, people have really gotten behind supporting their loc...
Heart to heart – an exercise to form connection
Welcome to the fuck buddy sex advice section. Here we usually give you top tips, advice, and guidance to make sure that you are having the very best sex of your life. Your time only comes once, so if you are going to be sleeping with someone, we want to make sure that both of you are having the f...
Having a kid makes every girl want to fuck you
Why is it that having a kid suddenly makes every girl out there want to fuck you? The one time in your life that suddenly having a fuck buddy or an easy no strings attached hook up suddenly becomes difficult to manage, is the time that you have all the options to do it. I have never understood th...
Alter your job title to find a fuck buddy
When we are first looking for a fuck buddy online, there are certain keys things that stick out and make you more or less likely to get contacted and screwed... and by screwed I mean in a good way not a bad one! The way that you look is the first thing that people will look at, and potentially th...
Member spotlight: Meet Jessica
Welcome to August, summer is here, the weather is good, the world seems so full of promise. Mr warmth of summer comes the natural hormone increase that drives us to want to have sex more. More than that our enjoyment of sex actually increases! Did you know that the best sex you've ever had is mos...
To shower or not shower
When it comes to sex things are looking up for you right now. Logged online, you found a fantastic fuck buddy that you really like and that really likes you, and the best part is they live locally! You are all set for a brilliant sexy month. So, you might look at the article tonight and think wha...
Is being a student all about having sex?
At the point that we finished with our main schooling, we have a choice of going on to do further education, higher education, or going out into the real world and getting a job. In modern life, if we are purely looking at the economics of the choice, and by that I mean the money, it makes no sen...
How many fingers
How many fingers? And no I'm not talking about how many fingers worth of the vodka should be poured into the glass, nor am I talking about how many fingers should be chopped off in punishment in a Viking Village due to someone raiding someone else is down. I'm talking about how many fingers one s...


























