The release of the hotly anticipated movie of the badly written book about bondage is here! In it you’ll find:
• Unrealistic depictions of BDSM!
• A plot line that tries to make women think it’s okay for a guy to hurt them as long as they’ve signed a consent form
• Lessons teaching young women that men will run away unless you let them hurt you
What. The. Fuck?!
Awful
Yep. Fifty Shades (I read it!) really does contain all the material I mention above and more! Experience awful dialogue! Repetition of the same words and phrases again and again and again…and again! What’s really disturbing though is that the film will make a colossal amount of money despite sensible people knowing that it’s shit and does not portray BDSM in a realistic way at all.
BDSM
Any practitioner of BDSM will laugh and shake their head at Fifty Shades of Grey. Not only do the sex scenes illustrate a woman clearly not comfortable with the situation (author note: subs give permission and a dominant is not allowed to practice if the sub ever says ‘NO’), but they portray BDSM as a very stilted tired sex act.
It manages to:
• Portray Christian Grey as ‘sick’ because he likes BDSM
• Shows Grey is actually a light weight when it comes to BDSM
• Ignores the fact that most practitioners of BDSM don’t use cable ties because they’re dangerous. Soft ropes are preferred.
If we could recall every copy of Fifty Shades of Grey and sit down with the author and teach her what BDSM is actually about and that people who practise it aren’t ‘sick’ or ‘psychologically twisted’ then the book might actually be worth reading and the film watching.
Sad Truth
Unfortunately many women have already read the book and seen the film and no doubt many more will. But if you are interested in going to see the film, please bear in mind that it is not an accurate or realistic depiction of BDSM or the people who practise it in any way shape or form. The characters in the story are about as interesting as two planks of wood and if you’re looking to learn more about BDSM, you’d be better off finding a fuck buddy on the site here who actually practices it safely and sexily. Unlike Fifty Shades of Grey.
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