Traffic Jam of Opportunity
So as I write this I’m stuck in traffic and have been for the past hour. Going nowhere fast tends to make you think a lot about the things you can do to pass the time. Me being me and this site being what it is, of course one’s mind tends to turn towards sex. So what to do? I phoned up the office...
Body Image and Casual Sex
An article about a 42 year old woman who openly describes herself as ‘fat, forty and single’ got us thinking about how much body image comes into play during a casual relationship. Are we more likely to be choosey over body type before hooking up or are we less bothered just so long as we’re gett...
Why Casual Sex IS Important
Society is constantly telling is that sleeping around with different partners is ‘bad’ and that anyone doing it is leading an ‘unhealthy’ lifestyle. People in monogamous relationships often look down on those that prefer multiple partners or people who maintain several open relationships. The tru...
The Open Relationship Conundrum
We have talked about poly relationships before in this blog, but recently we’ve had a few emails asking more questions about it. Some snippets include;
Do you rate your fuck buddy in bed?
It sounds like a question we should have asked a long time ago as both men and women have been guilty of doing this for years. So before I continue on discussing this ask yourself seriously; do you rate everyone you sleep with out of ten and if you do, how often do you do it?
Busiest Time For Online Dating
As the first full week of the New Year draws to a close, so too does the 94% upsurge in people signing up to online dating sites including this one. Christmas is a time to party naked and do some of the dumbest things you’re likely to do in a long while, but New Year is the time that everyone sob...
Can women get sex whenever they like?
There’s been a lot of talk in the media over Christmas and the New Year about the amount of casual hook ups that occur. A season of partying almost every night and drinking perhaps more then is necessary. One of the most common assumptions that comes out of these discussions has been that women c...
Casual Sex Helps Deal With Rejection
Believe it or not casual sex can help us deal with emotional and physical rejection. This claim was first made back in 2012 by several psychologists studying the long term effects casual hook ups can have on a person’s mental health. There were of course both positives and negatives to having mul...
The Christmas Hook Up – Don’t worry if you haven’t got one
If you’re reading this today – Christmas Day – then you either
Does Christmas make women hornier?
As a teenage Xander Harris famously said in an episode of Buffy the Vampire Slayer; “Looking at Linoleum makes me want to have sex.”
Our Newest Members: Xavier’s taking it easy this Christmas
Say hello to our newest member, Xavier.
Do women really like to be treated badly?
It’s a hard conundrum and one I have difficulty in answering. But having discussed this with both men and women here in the office I have come up with 7 possible reasons why women like men who treat them like crap.
Is it easier for older people to have casual sex?
Older people – women in particular – generally enjoy a much richer sex life then the mass media would have us believe. Women and men in their 40s and up are probably having more sex then most women and men in their 20s and 30s.
What's in your Christmas sack?
Is sex an acceptable gift to give someone for Christmas? Hell yeah!
Our Newest Members: Sugart Definitely Goes There
Say hello to our latest member, Sugart.
Women like casual sex too. Why do we hide this?
It’s quite strange, but apart from Cosmopolitan, FHM and a few other lifestyle mags, there is still a societal image that women prefer sex to be in a long term stable relationship.
How many times a month should you have sex?
After all the talk and saturation of sex being promoted throughout our lives, we still have trouble talking about some of the most basic things when it comes to sex. For instance, how many times on average should you have it? How much is too much? Is it normal to want it only a few times a month ...
Tales to Turn You On
If you go into any bookshop in the world (online or off) they’ll always be a section labelled ‘romance’ or ‘erotic’. It’s usually segregated off from the main fiction and biopic displays, and in many cases is often hidden at the back like some dirty little secret. But stories that involve a lot o...
What foods can increase your libido?
We received an email from a member recently shyly admitting that his sex drive had bottomed out completely. He had hooked up with a few women off the site but on both occasions he had been unable to…perform. After we asked him a few questions, we realised that it was diet and routine that was par...