As a man – and yes I am specifically talking to all the gentlemen out there who are reading this blog – to stay sexy it is important to be make decisions. It doesn’t even matter if those decisions are good or bad for the most part, most decisions you make in life actually really don’t matter in the bigger picture. The important thing to do is to make them. Allow me to explain.
Why Make Decisions
Making decisions is sexy. That is the main reason. You want to maintain a level of attraction between you and your partner? Of course you do. You want her to want to jump your bones 24/7. You want her to think you are the bees knees, for her to go weak at the knees at the sight of you, to want you body and soul... because when someone wants you that badly, everything else can be over come. No amount of distance, financial difference, and environmental issues – nothing can mess up your relationship. Also – the sex is amazing, I mean really amazing. One of the easy ways of remaining sexy? Make decisions.
Why making decisions is sexy
When you make a decision, you are effectively taking responsibility for the outcome. You accept that what happens next is down to you and you alone, because you made the decision. It takes a level of strength and confidence to do this, it requires good self esteem and a willingness to put yourself out there. In short – it takes strength, and so every time a decision is made it shows strength, which is sexy as hell.
Does it have to be a big decision?
This is the best part – no! Any decision shows strength. Choosing what you are going to eat of the menu shows strength, what to order at the bar, where to sit down. It all shows confidence and strength. The funny thing is, that most of these decisions also make no difference to the outcome! Whether you sit on one seat or another doesn’t change the conversation or the company. Whether you decide to have the chocolate brownie or the ice cream for desert – you will never know what the other one tastes like anyway so you can’t actually regret it. MOST of the decisions you make are small ones – so make them!
So start making decisions – you will be seen to be sexier for it. Don’t take my word for it! Try it and find out for yourself.
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