Why hotel sex is extra hot – and how to do it at home

19 Sep 2017 - 19:30 | Tags: hotel sex, sex outdoors, how to have better sex

There are certain situations, times of your life and places that can make sex that extra bit hotter than usual. There are certain things that can drive you wild, and each of us will have certain things that do this to us. Some people want the lights on, whilst other people will only have sex in the dark. For some people the ability to look someone in the eye as they come makes missionary position excellent, whilst for other people due to the angle of entry it is their worst way of having sex. We are all different. One thing that most of us share in common however, is a love for feeling special.

When you have sex in your house/flat/usual place of sexy time, the location rarely adds much to the experience. There is nothing wrong with it, it does not take anything away from what could be the best fuck of the month (especially with a fuck buddy – who is incentivised to be good at sex), but the location does not add anything. It is normal, usual, and mundane. Which is why mixing things up with a hotel room can spice things up.

Why hotels are sexy

When you go to a hotel to have sex, it brings with it a whole host of associations that can make the sex even hotter. Hotels are where people go to have affairs with someone that they can’t keep their hands off. It is where someone might take a girl because they have gotten so turned on by them, they cannot wait till they get home so they rent a hotel room there and then so they can fuck. Hotels are used on regular occasions by hook ups, one night stands and by people wanting no strings attached relationships. Most importantly, when you take someone to a hotel room to have sex, you are going there explicitly for the opportunity to have sex with them. The intention is so clear, that the other person knows that you really want them. You want them so much, you have put money down on a room, and sectioned off an evening of your life where nothing can disturb the two (or more) of you. That is why sex in a hotel can be a better fuck.

How to do it at home

Go to your bedroom and neutralise it. Remove all photos, clear and tidy everything from all surfaces till there is nothing on there, take away any pictures or images from the walls. Leave the room as bear as you can. Then place a towel on the end of the bed with a hotel style folding technique and BAM you have your own specially prepared room. It is not the same as a hotel, but it comes close enough to have a similar effect.

So grab your fuck buddy and go have some fun!

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