Everyone knows that the third date is when you get it on. It has been a long enough time that you have had a chance to get to know each other a little, but not so long that there is going to be massive pressure on the sex, nor are you pot committed to the relationship so if you turn out to be sexually incompatible there is no bad feeling for never seeing each other again after that date is over. The third date is the perfect time for many people. It is socially acceptable so there is no chance of anyone feeling like a “slut” or getting any social backlash from anyone else around them as to the speed at which they decided to go for it. There has been a nice build up in the run up to it, and you generally feel like you know the person a little, he/she is not a stranger at the point where you have sex at the 3 date point.
The third date is perfect prime time sexy time. It is like the perfect combination of long enough for familiarity with the other person, but not too long that there is huge pressure on the sex or the relationship at the point where it happens. There is something about it, it is just right!
How to accelerate 3 dates into 1 date!
Say you don’t have time for three dates though. You are passing through the country and meet someone, or the person is about to leave the area, or you have cancer and are about to die, or you are just really impatient and love sex so much you want to do it immediately! It doesn’t matter the reason, there is one simple tried and tested way to accelerate the 3 date rule into sex on the first date. Here it is:
Do three venues
You go to the first bar and it feels like a date... but every time you move venues it makes you psychologically feel like it is a new day because it is a new experience. The brain interprets things differently, and so every new venue accelerates how quickly you can get to know someone, and how much you feel you know them. This means if you do three venues, you can make it feel like a third date and... BAM! Sex!
It really is as simple as this. Don’t believe me? Go out and try it – trust me, you are going to be so happy with the results!
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