“I met this guy through work.  We’d seen each other at a few conferences and had chatted over coffee and lunch with other people.  He was cute but I’d never seriously considered anything happening with him, mainly because I was married.  Both of us felt the sexual tension but it was me that decided to do something about it.  At one conference I’d had quite a few bottles of wine and ended up inviting him back to my hotel room.  We started making out and things got hot and heavy pretty fast.  I’d been married for 6 years and have always had good sex with my husband.  But that was so...